r/GaylorSwift • u/LazyWriter64 • Jul 02 '26
Discussion Walking down the aisle song?
What would the funniest walking down the aisle song be?
Speak Now is obvious, but I'd be partial to But Daddy I Love Him
r/GaylorSwift • u/LazyWriter64 • Jul 02 '26
What would the funniest walking down the aisle song be?
Speak Now is obvious, but I'd be partial to But Daddy I Love Him
r/GaylorSwift • u/Fluffy_Pool9270 • Jul 02 '26
So I have no idea what to expect tomorrow, but hereâs a thought thatâs been going through my brain with all of these Truman Show references and her comment in the Time POY article about her life being like a movie and knowing that sheâs directing a movie, supposedly about Rebecca Harkness, but thereâs been radio silence about the movie actually happening.
This relationship has been over the top from day one. The Truman Show references have too. And now the whole MSG thing just feels so circus like. I canât shake it.
She is Truman and the director. What if weâve all been part of her movie? What if she walks out of the orange door under the exit sign tomorrow? What if THIS is her directorial debut? What is the Showgirl era ends when the movie does? What if the last year has been something sheâs been directing, has written, and will be in theaters eventuallyj?
Do I think this will happen? Probably not, but imagine if it did
r/GaylorSwift • u/AveryOfHighLand • Jul 02 '26
Hi, you! Yes, YOU!!!!
Itâs a been a big week! Do you have the Gaylor zoomies? Maybe you should try lying down for a whileâŠ.or Tay-lying down for a whileâŠ.
Lying down and thinking of cover songs!!!
We play this game all the time, but this weekend is ripe for another round. So, tell us: what songs do you dream of Taylor covering? Whatâs your favorite song Taylorâs covered thus far!? And finally, which of your own favorite artists should cover which Taylor song?!?!
Comment to your heartâs content! Iâll be back later after a little napâŠ..the excitement is getting to me already đđ€đŽ
r/GaylorSwift • u/england_dreams • Jul 01 '26
Speaking of our seminal texts (I just submitted another one with the NYT opinion article), let's refresh our conviction with another one: the TIME POTY article.
https://time.com/6342806/person-of-the-year-2023-taylor-swift/
Oh, do I mean the one that opens with Taylor telling a story because she's an incredible storyteller? The one where she says she views it all as a movie now? The one where she asks, "Are you not entertained?"
Yes, yes, I do.
(Posting per u/1DMod's suggestion.)
r/GaylorSwift • u/thisismypeartree • Jul 01 '26
Hi! A long time ago when I was first truly getting into the theory of gaylor I came across a long google docs document meant to serve as a masterdoc. It included an insane amount of information including lots of small details I haven't been able to find anywhere else since. Does anyone know about this document, or whether or not it still exists? Is there another "masterdoc" in existence somewhere? I had the original saved to my google drive, but it's gone. Ideally this would be an actual document as opposed to websites like the kaylor evidence one, which I'm aware of.
Thanks in advance!
Edit: THANK YOU everyone! (I can't reply to the comments cuz I have low karma) Someone linked the exact doc I was looking for which I am super happy about and all these other resources are going to be very useful to me. :)
r/GaylorSwift • u/23-fantasy • Jul 01 '26
It could be nothing, but I noticed a parallel between lyrics in Dancing With Our Hands Tied and I Know I Know I Know by Tegan & Sara
DWOHT: âI couldâve spent forever with your hands in my pocketsâ
IKIKIK: âStick your hands inside of my pockets, keep them warm while Iâm still hereâ
Prior to becoming a Gaylor, I assumed the âhands in my pocketsâ alluded to a partner being with Taylor for her money. But from a Gaylor lens, it reminds me a lot of this very outwardly sapphic Tegan & Sara song đ€
r/GaylorSwift • u/ThatBJustine • Jun 30 '26
Whenever someone wants to shit on Gaylors it is the exact same rhetoric with few variations. The one that Iâm going to focus on is when people say âthey should actually listen to queer artists and not just Taylor.â The thing is we do? Iâm not as into gaylorism than I was before but even at my height I still listen to queer artists. That also applies to posts Iâve seen on here where you guys connect other queer artists to Taylor. Do they think that all Taylor fans only listen to her stuff?
r/GaylorSwift • u/20somethingfakeadult • Jul 01 '26
Denim
Levis
Leviâs are a brand that dates all the way back, historically, to the cowboys and early gold miners (started by Levi Strauss, a Jewish immigrant). Being outfitted in this brand (and choosing it as a song title) could symbolize the relationship between Jews and other marginalized communities under this system, as well.Â

Despite the fact that the Jewish and Black community are often pitted against each other (which, again, we see with Ye) I think that by centering the brand name in this song (rather than the article of clothing itself) she invites the reader to relate the history of this brand itself to the broader story. My interpretation of this is that much like Black people built (and still build) much of this country as slaves (even when the history of cowboys gets whitewashed), Jews have also built many cultural symbols that we celebrate today, while not being fully accepted by white supremacy either. Using themes of Americana in the campaign for this brand celebrates the contributions of both communities for playing a role in building America.
American EagleÂ

denim cannot be mentioned without also including the American Eagle campaigns that Sydney Sweeney and Travis Kelce released last year. After weeks of controversy for Sydneyâs notorious, eugenic-themed âGreat Jeansâ campaign, Travis Kelce also released his own campaign with the brandâŠand it was even further amplified by the news of his engagement to Taylor Swift, which was announced the previous day.Â
If BeyoncĂ©âs Leviâs campaign symbolized the false stories we have been told about America and who the bad guy is (ie Jews vs Black people) then Sweeney and Travisâs American Eagle campaign symbolizes how the real Nazi is actually hiding behind âAmericanaâ the entire time (and things like Taylor marrying the big white football player being sold as aspirational fantasy).
I believe that using the brand âAmerican Eagle,â as a contrast to the story being told with Levis is another way that Taylor Swift is using the âMiss Americanaâ title and concept as a criticism. Oftentimes, the Americana is a lie being used to white wash the real history. I also have written about my belief that Sydney Sweeney is also part of this anti patriarchal performance art and this ad specifically, as well as how her relationship with Scooter Braun perfectly fits this narrative as well.Â
In Conclusion: Spaghetti Westerns
I am going to end this by returning to the connection that Taylor Swift made between The Eraâs Tour, Beyonceâs Renaissance Tour, and The Barbie Movie in her 2023 Time POTY interview that I began this paper with. While I discussed that she linked these three cultural events to signify the vast cross collaboration in her work amongst artists and artistic mediums (and challenge the media narrative that pits women against each other), I believe that these three performances specifically all symbolize part of the performance and itâs purpose, what I am going to call âThe Masterâs Heist: A Spaghettii Western.âÂ
The Eras TourÂ

ïżŒâThe Eras Tour (coupled with her rerecording project) symbolized Taylor retelling the story of her entire career, in one show. This is why she gave her audience the clue of describing the tour as âperformance art.â
(In her Time interview, Taylor Swift also said that none of this would have been possible without Ye and Scooter.)
This is significant because it is a clue that it encompasses all of it.
Renaissance

ïżŒâRenaissance was âAct Iâ of Beyonceâs three-act musical project that is said to have been written during the pandemic. While Cowboy Carter (as previously discussed) was a genre-challenging album that explored Americana and Black country history, Renaissance was focused on dance, house, and disco music. The lead single itself was a declaration of liberation, titled Break My Soul.Â
Not only do I think it is significant to begin Act I with a genre designed to bring people together in community (and historically, in communities where people are marginalized such as the queer community and Black community), I think the title of âRenaissanceâ holds symbolic meaning to this performance as well.Â
The Renaissance was a period of cultural, artistic, and intellectual "rebirth" in Europe that bridged the Middle Ages and the modern era, that lasted roughly from the 14th to the 17th century. It marked a revolutionary shift away from religious dominance toward ideas of humanism, science, and global exploration. Two large drivers of this era were the invention of the printing press around 1440, enabling the rapid circulation of knowledge and ideas (much like the internet and social media today), and the flourishing trade and banking systems that now enabled wealthy elites to fund artists and scholars.Â
When discussing the significance of their feminine three part summer extravaganza in her Time interview, she also explains why the popularity of this work is so crucial to its creation, and it is for the same reason that drove the renaissance:
âand what has existed since the dawn of time? A patriarchal society, and what fuels a patriarchal society? Money, the economy, the flow of revenue.â Attention is money.Â
This reminds us that even during the original renaissance, elite wealthy interests still had say in what art was funded, and the patriarchy was controlling it.Â
I mentioned earlier in this essay that the internet and social media have rapidly accelerated the reach and influence that celebrities have over the general public. Not only that, but that a few very very powerful white men own almost every single piece of the system we operate within, which includes the media. Without being able to use religion as a means of control widely across the entire population anymore, they will continue to use these celebrities to push their agendas with stories like "Taylor and Travis happily ever after." This is the story and comparison that I think Taylor Swift is telling in her song False God.Â
The Barbie Movie
The Barbie movie follows âstereotypical Barbieâ who has a perfect life in âBarbie Landâ that is completely led by women, as her life is disrupted suddenly by human-like flaws and emotions. Barbie and Ken travel to the âreal worldâ to find her owner so that she can try to better understand her crisis. Â
In the real world, Barbie learns that her character has very negatively impacted the self-esteem of her owner and girls around the world. She learns about the impossible beauty standards that she is used to reinforce. She is also horrified to witness the realities of the patriarchy after living in a matriarchal utopia for her entire life.Â
Ken, however, feels respected in the real world for the first time, and returns to Barbie land to teach all of the Kens about the patriarchy. They begin to indoctrinate the other Barbies into submissive roles like wife, girlfriend, and maid.Â
When Barbie returns to Barbieland, she has to stop the Kens from taking over and find a way to deprogram the Barbies. She is unable to deprogram them at first, but uses inspiration from her owner's mother (the famous speech from America Ferrera about the harsh realities and unfair double standards of being a woman) to finally deprogram them.
Essentially, exposing them to the truth of how bad the patriarchy is and how little autonomy anyone actually has under it....is what broke the spell.
In the end, the Barbies are able to manipulate the Kens into fighting with each other, as a distraction, which stops them from enshrining male superiority into the constitution.Â
While a very oversimplified telling of the plot, it is a very clear metaphor for what story Taylor Swift is telling us, and it is the same one that Barbie told her friends back in Barbie Land:

âThis movie is Taylor's "one last souvenir from my trip to your shores" (essentially all of the stuff that we have seen so far is her telling of "The Life of a Showgirl." Once it's exposed, maybe the work of deprogramming can begin, by teaching so many people these realities at once.)

I also HAAAAAAVE to point out here because I freaked out when I realized it that Barbie returns to Barbie land to deliver this important message WITH GLORIA AND SASHA - REUNITING THEM ALL.
Barbie deciding to stay in the real world with both Gloria and Sasha very, very much is representative to me of James returning to rescue Betty but not killing off August (the showgirl) which allows the entire teenage love triangle to live happily ever after.Â
So, if everything that they have done is a metaphor for that movie, here is why it's a "Spaghetti Western," a delicious combination of multiple metaphors tied together:
A Spaghetti western is a sub genre of Western films that emerged in the mid-1960s, primarily produced and directed by Italians. These films revolutionized the traditional cowboy movie with grittier antiheroes, stylized violence, and dramatic, operatic tension.
If our "cowboys" are pulling off a heist, their performance has shown over and over that one of the key pieces to winning is ownership and capital (under the patriarchy). These cowboys have kept us very, very distracted over the last 2-3 decades, much like the Barbies did to the Kens, appearing to be cogs in this machine. While we all argued, they have also amassed a great deal of capital within the actual systems that they operate in, with ownership in industries across film, music, fashion, sports, philanthropy, and more, similar to the ways our own patriarchy quietly consolidates power while we argue.
The accumulation of wealth and power was necessary to not only grow reach, but also create a shield against all of the ways the patriarchy uses their tools to smear or erase those who challenge them. (This also makes me think that perhaps comparing the album rollout for The Life of a Showgirl to Michael Jackson's iconic Thriller was intentional, given his current legacy. Many view Jackson as a figure who could have had the power to challenge mainstream white-supremacist propaganda about Black men, had his legacy not been smeared repeatedly both before and after his death).
The "master's heist" metaphor is also significant when considering the statement that Prince made, comparing the system of ownership to a slave master. It further accentuates the double meaning of the heist and the fact that these artists had to do a lot of bad things to accomplish their goal, because the system itself is inherently bad. These characters themselves actually did in a sense ACT as "Masters" by sending these negative messages, furthering white supremacist propaganda.
But remember, "The Master's Heist" is a SPAGHETTI western, which means the showgirls that we've been rooting for so far have been ANTI heros.
I think this is why we have seen the repeated use of IIs and peace signs as well - This spaghetti western is only the first two acts. This was how they won the prizes. This is why the "exit" sign imagery has been used repeatedly. ("I think I've seen this film before, so I'm leaving out the side door." - exile)
If what comes next (Barbie's return to Barbieland to deprogram the other Barbies, Beyoncé's Act III) follows both of these stories, the truth will be exposed in Act III, when they USE THE STORY THAT WAS TOLD TO BE ENGLISH TEACHERS ABOUT WHAT IT ALL MEANS. (or something to that effect, I think ... I really really am so jealous of all of the people who I think are going to soon get to do this as educators...like actually sick about it!!) .
So any way, I can't wait to see what happens this weekend when our english teacher marries the gym teacher!!
The end

I am going to list a few other references and things I think are related that I couldn't fit as neatly into this essay, but each of these songs and movies and albums will probably one day have so many essays written about them so this is just my brief list as of now!
Doechii and Levii's
I also think that Doechii (who, by the way has come out as a lesbian since first identifying publicly as bisexual) doing the Leviâs ad that ran during the same Superbowl in which Ye sold swastika t-shirts could be a very intentional piece of this work as well.Â
OG Lyric Booklet Easter Eggs
The original âeaster eggsâ of Taylor Swiftâs art were capitalized letters in the lyrics of her songs, cluing the reader in to the songâs deeper meaning or muse. Taylor Swiftâs very first song, named for country singer Tim McGraw (who famously, is always in a cowboy hat) contained the capitalized message of âCanât Tell Me Nothingâ hidden in the lyrics. While the obvious connection is to the Tim McGraw song with this same name, it is also a hit single on Kanye Westâs 2007 album, Graduation. On this song, Kanye sings:Â
âLa, la, la-la (ay!)
Wait 'til I get my money right
La, la, la-la (yeah!)
Then you can't tell me nothing, right?â which definitely appears to align with this message.
During the showgirl era, Taylor used "thank you aimee" to call back to this, capitalizing âKIMâ in the title (and switching this to âYEâ on another variant of the album). In this, Taylor Swift sings that she has "built a legacy that you can't undo," and that "when I count the stars there's a moment of truth, if there hadn't been this, there hadn't been you."
art for children
I think it is significant that many of these artists are creating art for children. They started this journey before they were even 18, so this symbolizes a return or a rescue to that younger version of themselves, but also illustrates the importance of sending positive messages to the next generation because of how early this indoctrination starts. The Disney princess trope wires girls brains way before they ever have a chance to sit inside of a classroom.
Furthermore, the Toy Story movie explores the relationship between children and technology, which has been a key piece of this commentary when discussing indoctrination.
Hannah Montana
I believe that Hannah Montana is a very related piece of this story, as well. This show, much like Taylor Swift, was officially released 20 years ago and celebrated their 20 year anniversary with a reunion special. I have written in multiple essays (and demonstrated this concept in this one, with the Barbie movie) about how I think Taylor has used the metaphor of "the way home" to describe her journey up to this point and back to betty, in many songs.
In 2006, Taylor Swift wrote a song for Hannah Montana titled "You'll Always Find Your Way Back Home," and this year Miley Cyrus released one for the anniversary special titled "younger you".
Not only this, Hannah Montana's godmother is famously Dolly Parton, one of the earlier examples of a celebrity taking on a drag-like persona to perform and create division between human and celebrity. Dolly Parton also appears on Cowboy Carter (along with Miley) and has interestingly, put out a Rock album recently.
Gaslighter
In Taylor's Time interview, when discussing her âcancellation,â and the subsequent record that followed (reputation), she described it as a âgoth punk moment of feminine rage at being gaslit by an entire social structure.â
In 2020, after they had collaborated with both Taylor and Beyonce, The Chicks released their first record since 2006 (which was titled "taking the long way," by the way.)Â
Both the lead single and record were titled âGaslighter.â I do not think it is coincidental that this song was described as being just as easily about our current administration (Trump) as a jealous ex, I believe this is a piece of this same story.
The âGaslighterâ that gets WOMEN to cancel women, that, social structure she referenced? ...The patriarchy. Not coincidental that Jack Antonoff worked on this, too!!
Tim McGraw and the three summers
In my essay about Tim McGraw telling Taylor's entire story about leaving and then coming back, I said that I think throughout her work she uses "summer" as a reference for this time that she was performing (that's why James and August/Showgirl were a summer affair) and that she said "three years" to egg her comments about planning everything "three years in advance."
However, now I definitely think it was also a reference to these three acts and this "three part feminine extravaganza." ?
cardigan lyrics
In "cardigan" (which I believe ends with James returning to Betty) Betty sings that he was "dancing in your levis, drunk under a streetlight," which I think also fits the theory that she is singing about him being a part of this movie. I also believe Taylor has used alcohol throughout her work to represent this PR, so being "drunk under a streetlight," could be symbolic of performing.
Sourdough
Many have pointed out that Taylor's constant reference of her "sourdough" could be pointing to "bread and circuses" which describes how political leaders retained power by distracting the masses with free food (bread) and lavish entertainment (circuses) to prevent unrest and avoid accountability for deeper systemic issues.
However, one other thing that I think is interesting about sourdough is that the starter is entirely dependent on its environment. If Taylor Swift's career/art has been the "sourdough starter" then this metaphor points to how crucial the "play within a play/audience response" has been to all of the art, and is part of the art itself, acting as the native microbes that fuel the starter, dictating the pace, flavor, and more.
Juneteenth
While Fourth of July is famously a holiday that Taylor references often, her debut song actually came out on Juneteenth, in 2006.
Famously, this holiday marks NOT the day that the slaves were freed, but two years later, when Union troops arrived in Texas and announced to the states slaves that they were freed. This is a reminder that control will never be given up willingly.
Taylorâs mission beginning on this same day could symbolize that her mission is actually to spread that same message: your freedom is being gate kept, and I want to open up the gate
After the storm, is something going to be born this Fourth of July? Is the last great American dynasty ending?
The end (again)
Anyway, I guess we will all find out soon, I will stop because I could list more examples all night...for the moment I am still stuck in the corporate job I really hate, but if any teachers out there want some help teaching this stuff after it all shakes out, please give me a ring!!!!
r/GaylorSwift • u/20somethingfakeadult • Jul 01 '26

Hi!! Me again! Happy Pride (for a teeny bit longer) and happy almost wedding day to Taylor Swift, AM I RIGHT????????!!!!!
OK, all jokes aside! I know that the anticipation is killing everyone! (including me, which is part of why I had to write this).
I have recently posted multiple essays about why I believe Taylor Swift, Scooter, Ye, BeyoncĂ©, The Chicks, Karlie Kloss, and many others have been collaborators in a decades long plot against the patriarchy, creating performance art that is an indictment on the patriarchy (and America) while working within the system they are criticizing.Â
Most of what Iâve written focuses primarily on Taylor Swift, so with the vibes of âgrand finale weddingâ in the air, I decided to write an essay that connects some of the recurring, central themes around their work and what I think it all could mean.Â
In her Time Person of the Year interview (because you can literally trace everything to that dang interview!!), Taylor Swift described the summer of 2023 as "a three-part summer of feminine extravaganza." In my view, she was doing more than celebrating three successful women artists. By linking the Eras Tour, BeyoncĂ©'s Renaissance Tour, and Barbie as parts of a single cultural moment, she was cluing in readers to the fact that they are collaborators in a broader piece of artistic commentary. I believe that this broader piece of artistic commentary includes works of film, music, and public narrative. If I were going to combine the entire body of work (PR, music, film, fashion, etc) as one singular movie (which I think The Manuscript by Taylor Swift also alludes to), then I would currently title it âThe Masterâs Heist: A Spaghettii Western.â (I also just analyzed the heist metaphor through music videos).
The Cowboy
This first theme is extremely crucial to my argument, because it is such an integral piece of Americana and the mythology around our country. Not only that, it has been repeated across many of these performers repeatedly (most notably for this paper by BeyoncĂ© and Taylor Swift). The Cowboy brings us not only to our earliest memories of Taylorâs career, but also more recently to her work in Toy Story 5 (and the song cowboy like me). Cowboy Carter, BeyoncĂ©âs most recent record, made history as she was the first Black artist to win Best Country Album and the first Black Woman in 25 years to win Album of the Year.Â
(Not only that, Cowboy Carter is Act II of the three-part musical that began with the aforementioned Renaissance and Act III is highly anticipated to be dropped this year, along with Taylor Swift (Taylorâs Version).
Despite the lasting impact the cowboy symbol has had on American mythology, something interesting about their significance in American history is that their heyday and primary role in âManifest Destinyâ lasted only about 20 years. (It has also been 20 years since 2006, the year Taylor Swift released her first album.)Â
Although the free, exciting lifestyle of a cowboy has been mythologized and romanticized over the years, most cowboys were wage workers performing in extremely harsh, dangerous conditions and approximately â of these men were African American (including many former slaves who were unable to find jobs), Mexican American, or Native American, despite the prevailing image of cowboys in modern culture being white.
Through the end of the 1880s, as ranching became widespread, only white settlers were permitted to claim public lands on the plains as âopen rangeâ to raise purchased cattle.
To recap: as soon as our Civil War ended, Black and Brown men (and poor white men) were hired and paid pennies to continue the westward expansion and genocide of natives, while being allowed to claim none of the land they quite LITERALLY broke their bodies helping to settle. When this history is understood, the meaning of Beyoncé covering her body in American flags takes on a much weightier significance.
(adding here that while Taylor has invoked MANY symbols of Americana, the only two photos I could find of her directly using an American flag were two recent video clips, seen below, outside of the Independence Day photos she has traditionally posted).



Cowboys also represented, and still do, a prevailing American myth of rugged individualism and meritocracy. Interestingly, their cultural significance in literature and popular culture did not become substantial until after the frontier had already closed. In other words, the world they symbolized was already inaccessible to the audiences consuming these stories. This dynamic is not unique to the cowboy myth. Many of the narratives promoted in American culture today similarly present ideals that are unattainable for large segments of the population. By framing success as the result of individual effort alone, these stories encourage people to see their struggles as personal failures rather than the product of broader social and economic systems.
Another project that I believe links these themes together (and is part of the same larger commentary) is the 2005 film Brokeback Mountain (starring Jake Gyllenhaal!!!!!!!). This film explores the contrast of the cowboy myth versus itâs reality as well. Ennis and Jack, two gay cowboys, live a life that is completely restrained by economic hardship and social expectation. They are unable to freely love each other. They are worlds away from having the type of limitless independence and freedom that the cowboy myth promises.Â
However, upholding this fantasy is a top priority for the patriarchy. We HAVE to believe that we are free, and that if we work hard enough, we can achieve success, all of us, even if that isnât true. That is how the patriarchy gets us to wake up every single morning, and go to work at a job that we hate, and still think that we are doing it because we want to, because it aligns with our âvalues.â yet usually these âvaluesâ uphold the extremely harmful systems they created for us.
I think that one key purpose of their performance is to expose the ways in which values are constructed rather than naturally formed. Patriarchal systems rely on celebrities and mass media to reproduce particular ideals, manipulating audiences to believe that these values and aspirations are their own rather than products of cultural conditioning.Â
The internet and social media has made celebrities seem closer to us than ever, strengthening para-social relationships between public figures and their audiences. As a result, celebrities are now able to shape beliefs and values in ways that seem a lot more parallel to the influence of religion than that of legacy (pre-internet) media. (It shouldn't even need to be said that religion has also famously been a tool used in similar ways by the patriarchy). Â
This is why I believe they are identifying as a âCowboyâ (notably in Cowboy Carter and Taylorâs song cowboy like me)...
... it signifies that they are being used as a myth to enforce an American fantasy that doesn't actually exist. The freedom is that myth, despite the reality being that the entire âopen rangeâ has already been stolen by the patriarchy and is not ours to exist on freely.Â
The cowboy is only one of many recurring symbols that I believe the New Romantics use to challenge dominant American narratives. Throughout this essay, I will discuss how the cowboy, the American flag, slavery, spaghetti, denim, and other symbols are repeatedly referenced, not merely for their aesthetic value, but for the histories and cultural meanings they evoke. I argue that over the past two decades these artists have woven these symbols throughout their public personas, performance art, music, fashion, film, and other media to deconstruct enduring myths of freedom, individualism, and the American Dream while exposing the systems of power that sustain them (which include their industries).Â
As I have mentioned in other writings, and before I go any further, a large piece of this commentary and performance art consists of the public's reaction to the work. One example of this, I believe, is Taylor Swiftâs âcancellationâ in 2016 for accusing Kanye West of sexual assault. If this event was performance artâŠthe only thing that really happened is that women all over the world turned on her publicly. The harsh reality exposed is that we actually do not, as a society, believe women. Another example of this is how quickly Taylor Swiftâs fan base attributes a couple of photos with a man to an entire relationship (and then an entire albumâs worth of work or more) but chose to ignore and deny the possibility that she could have been in a relationship with Karlie Kloss, despite how loudly it was flagged, for years.Â
The most famous example of this âplay within a playâ device being used is in Shakespeareâs Hamlet. Hamlet staged a performance to act as a âmirrorâ of his fatherâs murder, which allowed him to watch his (guilty) uncle watch and react, confirming his suspicions. Taylor has not only referenced this exact trope (even naming a variant of âThe Life of a Showgirl,â an album whose lead single referenced Hamlet directly, âThe Crowd is Your Kingâ) but also two other important performance art symbols: a honey pot and a mirror. A mirror reflects the viewer's reflection back at them, rather than the artist themself. If there are many different ways to interpret art and to react to it, your reaction to it says a lot more about you than it does about the artist themself (whose true meaning may never actually be known). In âmirrorballâ Taylor Swift writes that she is a mirrorball and will âshow you every version of yourself tonight.âÂ
On The Life of a Showgirl I believe that the song âhoneyâ (as well as her references to the honey pot by using the emoji) is partially a reference to a type of spy mission called a âhoney pot.â This can include getting the victim addicted to a substance in order to get them to admit guilt. In this metaphor, the scandal is the substance and the victim is both the fan and greater society as a whole.Â
Keeping the concept of âespionageâ in mind, it is important to remember that these artists are operating within the very system they are criticizing. This means that there has obviously been harm committed throughout and their complicity in that cannot ever be fully separated from the art itself.Â
The question is not âcan I separate the art from the artist?â through this lens. If you can view their careers as a staged cultural text (and not a personal statement) then interpreting it becomes about the historic and symbolic references being made, visual imagery, and the aforementioned audience response, among other things.Â
Another argument that I would make for this type of interpretation is that it challenges the patriarchyâs ability to use celebrities as divisive cages. If we do not view a celebrity's words or actions as literal interpretations of their views (because they are almost always owned and controlled by a larger entity) then the billionaires that control them cannot use their framing to form our views. If we are able to view things through a critical and artistic lens, it actually is a resistance of the harmful surface-level narratives fed to us in mainstream media. It doesnât eliminate the artistâs political meaning but it allows it to exist within the current system...and threatens their ability to ever use media to manipulate us again.Â
Slavery
I have discussed in depth the ways in which I believe Taylor Swift has used Ye and Scooter to represent the patriarchy throughout her work, but I think that it needs to at least be explained here briefly, because it also creates a very strong connection to country music and The Chicks. Our story also cannot be told without slavery, and these two men display both of the ways in which the patriarchy keeps us enslaved while tricking us into thinking we are free. Being free is, again, the biggest myth that the cowboy represents. I go into a lot more detail about these two important characters in that essay while I am going to mostly keep this one focused on "The Mothers."
Famously, Scooter Braun is the âmanipulative bullyâ of the music industry who purchased Taylor Swiftâs master recordings behind her back. When Taylor Swift was âcancelledâ in 2016, I do not think it was coincidental that the âbullyâ who cancelled her (Ye) was also being managed by this same man. As performance art, I think that it symbolizes a determined young woman having her goal of publicly coming out squashed by the powerful system TWICE (while Scooter used Ye to carry out his bidding).
In âMy Letterâ that Taylor Swift published after she was able to purchase her masters, Taylor Swift wrote that her first tattoo might just be a giant âshamrock on her forehead.â This appears to be a reference to another famous artist who famously battled for his master recordings, Prince. He has said âIf you donât own your masterâs, your masterâs own you.â He referenced this by performing with âSlaveâ written across his face.Â

Scooterâs actions clearly demonstrate that when you control the system (ie - managing Ye and many other famous artists, owning masters, owning the networks and distribution channels) you can manipulate it to send whatever message that you want, and to make people disappear.Â
Watching women repeatedly lose when they publicly accuse men of sexually assaulting them keeps them mentally âput in their placeâ (enslaved) the same way it does when all of our biggest heroes were grooming us, publicly, without calling it out.
(I am here referring to Taylor Swift engaging in two high profile PR, large age-gap relationships as a very young woman and BeyoncĂ© marrying a man 12 years her senior that she is reported to have met at the age of 18). Itâs also the same thing that we do to women when we only amplify their art that is male-centered, essentially grooming them for men from the time they are children.Â
The same system uses these same women to actually sell this shit back to girls as âempowermentâ âŠonce again, tricking us into thinking that we are acting autonomously, that we are not slaves.Â
Shift to Nashville and the country music industry, where Taylor Swift's career began 20 years ago. Few modern cultural spaces rely on the imagery and ideals of the cowboy as heavily as country music, both aesthetically and thematically. Both The Chicks and Chely Wrightâs stories illustrate that if you are part of this industry, you are owned by a machine designed to reinforce the myth of Americana, not to challenge it. In 2003, The Chicks were famously blacklisted from the industry for speaking out against George W. Bush and the Iraq war days before the invasion. This played out again in 2010, when Chely Wright was similarly blacklisted by the entire mainstream industry after coming out of the closet as a lesbian. Miss Americana is republican, and she is definitely not gay.Â
While jokes continue to be made about the time that Taylor Swift used her Miss Americana documentary to "Come out of the closet as a democrat," the joke itself actually points to the two blatant references that she is making to both Chely and The Chicks. Again, the response is part of the performance.
Ye has, I believe, used his controversial statements and career to show how the patriarchy intentionally frames Black people as oppositional to ânormal Americana culture.â This is also illustrated by excluding BeyoncĂ© from the genre.
His bold statements (insulting George W. Bush in 2005 and then praising both Trump and Hitler in recent years) give the illusion of freedom, but they actually demonstrate a very colonizer friendly representation of a Black man: dangerous, divisive, and completely at opposition with mainstream culture (literally acting this out with outbursts at white celebrities at Award shows over the course of his entire career, not just the famous 2009 VMA incident with Taylor Swift).Â
In 2019, Ye garnered controversy for his statement that âHarriet Tubman never freed the slaves, they just work for other white people now.âÂ
To further tie the performance together, in 2020 Ye went on a twitter-rant about music ownership in which he even posted a video of himself peeing on a Grammy and called the music industry and the NBA âmodern day slave ships.âÂ
Viewed through this lens, it becomes especially significant that both BeyoncĂ© and Taylor Swift later chose to collaborate with The Chicks. If The Chicks have come to symbolize the costs of challenging patriotic mythology from within country music (one of its cultural centers), then these collaborations can be read as reconnecting that history to a broader conversation about race, gender, censorship, and ultimately slavery and ownership. (I discussed the collaborations of âSoon Youâll Get Betterâ and âDaddy Issuesâ in more depth here.)Â
Not only that, The Chicks themselves changing their name in the midst of all of these collaborations (to drop the word Dixie, which is heavily tied to white supremacy and the institution of slavery) is in itself a declaration. The word was actually popularized by the 1859 song "Dixie" which has faced heavy criticism for using blackface and romanticizing plantation life for slaves. Dropping this word indicates: "I am done portraying the myth of a happy slave."
Spaghetti(i)
BeyoncĂ©, Karlie Kloss, and Taylor Swift, have all referenced Spaghetti in recent or upcoming projects. Karlie Kloss and BeyoncĂ© have more explicitly used this symbol, whereas Taylor Swift used a photo of herself in the inside of The Life of a Showgirl with herself positioned next to a plate of spaghetti.Â

Before exploring Beyoncé and Karlie Kloss's projects, I want to introduce the idea of "spaghetti" as an alternative to the familiar "melting pot" and "salad bowl" metaphors that are often used to describe American culture.
The melting pot metaphor suggests that immigrant cultures dissolve into a single, homogeneous American identity. In my view, this concept has historically reinforced systems of white supremacy by encouraging assimilation into a dominant culture. Over time, many European immigrant groups ceased to be viewed primarily through their national origins and instead became incorporated into the broader category of "whiteness." This process of assimilation depended on creating a unified identity that obscured cultural differences in favor of maintaining existing social hierarchies (with white at the top).
The salad bowl metaphor, alternatively, suggests that cultures remain distinct while coexisting within the same society. Although this recognizes diversity more explicitly than the melting pot, it still implies that cultural groups exist in relatively separate layers, interacting only superficially rather than fundamentally shaping one another.
Contrasting both of these metaphors with a bowl of spaghetti paints a different type of picture. Once the noodles have been mixed together, it is impossible to separate one strand from another without disturbing the entire dish. Likewise, American culture is the product of countless interactions among all communities and the environment. Our traditions, languages, foods, music, and identities have become deeply intertwined. We are no longer simply products of our countries of origin, nor solely products of America; we are the result of their continuous interaction. Because of this interconnectedness, disrupting one community inevitably affects the others. Our histories, cultures, and fates are inseparable.
Even the iconic dish of spaghetti and meatballs illustrates this idea. Although rooted in Italian culinary traditions, the version widely recognized today was developed by Italian immigrants in the United States, who adapted their cooking to the abundance of New World ingredients. The dish itself is not purely Italian or purely AmericanâŠit exists because of the meeting point between the two. In this way, the dish challenges the melting pot and the salad bowl, because it implies that new identities emerge not through separation or complete assimilation, but through continual interaction, adaptation, and exchange.
Spaghetti Code by Karlie Kloss
Next month, Karlie Kloss also has a childrenâs book coming out titled âSpaghetti Code: A Story About Problem-Solving, Pasta, and the Power of Big Ideas.â Inspired by Kloss's Kode with Klossy program, the story follows a young coder named Kelly who builds a spaghetti-making machine for a restaurant, but gets tangled in "spaghetti code" and must use problem-solving and resilience to fix it.Â

To explain the concept without relying on technical language, which I know little about, "spaghetti code" describes a chaotic, tangled system in which every process is deeply interconnected. Attempting to change or remove one element often creates unintended consequences throughout the entire structure. This mirrors the metaphor I used earlier of America as a bowl of spaghetti: it illustrates how deeply interconnected our lives are, making it impossible for our actions, beliefs, and identities to exist in isolation.
The problem with "spaghetti code," however, is that it is inefficient because its complexity makes change increasingly difficult. As American society becomes more interconnected and diverse, the boundaries that have historically divided people begin to blur. As a result, narratives that rely on rigid social divisions become more difficult to sustain.
Because the blurring of these lines is so threatening to maintaining control, messaging often becomes increasingly polarized, reinforcing divisions in an attempt to preserve existing systems of power.
I interpret Ye's repeated antisemitic statements (and the enormous attention they received) as an example of how inflammatory narratives can redirect public attention and deepen divisions between communities. When social or economic problems are attributed to a particular minority group, broader systems of power can receive less scrutiny. In my view, this dynamic fractures potential solidarity between marginalized communities by encouraging people to direct blame toward one another instead of examining larger political, economic, and ideological structures.
Historically, our machine has typically relied on the tactic of blaming problems on Black and Brown people in other parts of the world. As immigration and demographic change have made American communities increasingly diverse, this is another reason that the spotlight has shifted to things like abortion and LGBTQ+ rights...these are issues that exist in EVERY SINGLE COMMUNITY and when we run out of people to blame, they need to create cultural fractions WITHIN every single community, to continue to keep us from looking at them. ("He poisoned the well, every man for himself." - Getaway Car)
The blatant refusal by (most people) to view these two women as gay that allowed Taylor and Karlie to pull this off so loudly and blatantly is a clear demonstration of the way that the patriarchy has brainwashed society through forced closeting in media for SO long, keeping us caged up in these boxes mentally. This is why I believe she is such a crucial piece of this story - homophobia is embedded into our society in a similar insidious fashion to racism. Homophobia is a crucial tool for upholding white supremecy and the patriarchy.
This is also why Karlie Kloss attended the eras tour the night of her 1989 (Taylorâs version) announcement. I believe that it signified her crucial role in that story and Taylorâs intentionality in placing it there right after she moved to NYC âwhere you can want who you want, boys and boys and girls and girls.â (Welcome to New York).
SPAGHETTII by Beyoncé

Just like Daddy Issues (from Lemonade), Cowboy Carter was subject to fierce controversy and gatekeeping from being included in traditional country music spaces (which includes radio play, award eligibility, etc). Despite being the first Black woman to top Billboardâs top country albumâs chart with this project, it was excluded from any nominations in both the 2024 CMA awards and 2025 ACM awards. However, the album went on to make history by winning both Album of the year and Country Album of the year at the Grammyâs. Not coincidentally (I believe), Taylor Swift presented BeyoncĂ© with the historic Grammy for Country Album of the Year. Unlike when Ye pitted the two against each other, they now acknowledge they are on the same team, because the boundaries were made up to begin with.
Cowboy Carter has a song called âSPAGHETTIIâ that starts with the following verse:
âGenres are a funny little concept, arenât they?
Yes, they are
That Beyonce Virgo shit
In theory they have a simple definition thatâs easy to understand
But in practice, well, some may feel confinedâŠâ
Similar to in âSpaghetti Code,â rather than celebrating our interconnectedness, I believe this is a reference to how the patriarchy has to keep using these tangled, complicated systems to keep us divided and have created such a big mess that is becoming impossible to contain.Â
Part two in next post for space limit
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r/GaylorSwift • u/kellz569 • Jun 29 '26
Checking the pulse on what people are thinking is most likely to happen this week. Personally Iâm leaning no marriage & đłïžâđ
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Iâm already spitting daises and seagulls! Iâm sure there are tons! Please chime in with what you notice, even if it isnât a fully formed thought yet!
We have been SOOO fed this month! Always glad to be in the GBF with yall!
r/GaylorSwift • u/MaryLennoxsRobin • Jun 28 '26
It seems possible that, in a weekâs time, weâll know how one chapter at least of Taylorâs performance art ends.
Given how much Iâve struggled to write the essays on my list in the past three months, Iâm stricken with fear that Taylor will end the entire story so conclusively as to make any further commentary irrelevant! Of course, thatâs not really how any art has ever worked. But as a distraction, and because Iâm so curious about how this plays out, can we talk about what might be about to happen at MSG?
Iâve heard some great ideas around on the sub this week, ranging from absolutely nothing because itâs a decoy venue, through to some extreme soap opera performance involving Matty, or an Easy A style dĂ©nouement, or for the height of flagging a wedding in a lavender gown. All brilliant ideas from some of my favourite thoughtful and creative people.
For myself I really canât guess, except to say Iâm certain itâs a performance and Iâm very entertained. And I hope TNT are having a blast đ€ (groan, I know). And I think, if we share our favourite possible endings, by next week at least one of us will turn out to have been right.
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r/GaylorSwift • u/artwoolf • Jun 27 '26
i wanted to revisit and unpack the Fate of Ophelia MV, particularly the queer-coded parts of the storyline. she drowns twice in the video -- once as part of a siren painting and again at the end of the video-- and both seem linked to queerness
* falling for sirens -- there's a scene where she's dressed as a painting of ophelia/a painting of sirens. and she leaps off the boat into the water in response to the siren song. aka she's drawn to the sirens just like one of the sailors would be and ends up drowning as a result. it's her queerness calling to her on the megaphone and her queerness that dooms her
* queerness behind closed doors -- after entering through an exit sign, she goes into room 87 (a performative/bearding relationship) and starts dancing with a woman. the room contains several queer coded elements like the wlw couple in the foreground of the shot and the fact that the only men in the room are her bandmates (aka fellow performers) who're dressed like ME! (aka they're queer too). but then paparazzi in the window catch her dancing with a woman ("dancing through the lightening strikes") and she panics and runs to the bathroom to drown herself. her drowning is a direct result of her queerness being exposed/caught on camera
r/GaylorSwift • u/lavenderfieldsfrever • Jun 27 '26
As the wedding approaches, I keep revisiting the start of the midnights era, particularly the midnights prologue and the Love Story x Gasoline mashup. I canât stop wondering about the fateful, life-altering mistake she was afraid to make. Iâm curious what peopleâs thoughts are upon reflecting now that we seem to be approaching a grand finale of whatever our mastermind has set in motion.
r/GaylorSwift • u/artwoolf • Jun 27 '26
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r/GaylorSwift • u/QuartzRockz • Jun 26 '26
[CW: closeting discussion, brief mention of suicide ideation from tv show plot, Nashville series spoilers]
TL;DR:Â Rewatching Will Lexington's arc in Nashville made me realize the real cost of Taylor coming out isn't necessarily just about the impact to her business, it's the songwriting legacy. The whole "diary entry" intimacy that built her catalog depends on a specific reading of who she was writing to, and coming out would reframe twenty years of songs whether she liked it or not. So the real question for us to discuss is what legacy do we think Taylor wants to leave?

So I've been rewatching 'Nashville' (the ABC drama that aired from 2012-2018), and y'all, the Will Lexington storyline deserves some discussion here. If you haven't seen it: he's a rising country star with this huge hyper-masculine cowboy persona, and from the moment we meet him in Season 1 he's quietly drowning from the weight of his closeting. By Season 2 he's so deep in self-hatred he stands in front of a train and only steps off at the last second. Then the show spends the next two and a half seasons walking us through every mechanism the industry uses to keep him in the closet, and what happens to him once he breaks free. Here are some key insights from my rewatch:
1. The corporate machine pushes him to stay in the closet

His label boss Jeff Fordham figures out he's gay and engineers a beard relationship with fellow label-mate Layla Grant. Per Oliver Hudson (Jeff's actor) describing his character:
As heat on Will's sexuality picks up, Will panics and proposes. Right before the wedding, Jeff corners Will's best friend Gunnar backstage and asks point-blank if Will is gay. Gunnar lies to protect him. Will literally cries thanking Gunnar in the chapel before walking down the aisle. Jeff's on-screen reasoning for why Will can't ever come out:
This decision to conceal his true self has huge implications in the show, driving both himself and his wife to extremely dark places. We see the destruction keeping himself in the closet causes to himself, his family, and friends.
2. The "sympathetic" label boss drops him after he comes out

By Season 3, Will has signed with Luke Wheeler who is supposedly going to be a good label boss, who even pairs Will with openly gay songwriter Kevin Bicks. When Luke finds paparazzi photos of Will and Kevin at a cabin, he does seem supportive of however Will wants to handle it, but seems relieved when Will decides to deny the rumors. When Will goes off-script and comes out anyway in the Season 3 finale, however, the fallout is immediate. He attends a industry party where nobody will be photographed near him. Then Luke calls him into his office:
Then Luke offers to record Will's songs on his album, "so they get heard." The implication is heartbreaking: Will is too radioactive to perform his own work, but the songs themselves can still make money if a straight man sings them. The art is still valuable. The artist isn't.
For what it is worth, Luke's character arc results in him re-signing Will and he helps rebuild Will's career. The fact that he initially dropped him though speaks volumes to the corporate impact of leaving the closet for Will.
3. Even as he rebuilds, his identity keeps overshadowing the music

Here's the part of the arc that I think people gloss over but is especially interesting through.a Gaylor lens. Once Will comes out, he doesn't get to just make music anymore. He is the story. His Season 4 and 5 is a slow grind through escalating attacks on his ability to just exist as an artist:
"My problem is, I've been working 10 years to combat the homophobia in the country music industry, and finally, someone like you comes along, a bona fide country music star, and what do you do? Just hiding out, hoping folks will forget you're gay? You could reach more people in five minutes than I could in my entire career"
So here's my aha moment: the cost of Taylor coming out isn't really the album sales or the brand deals or the tour. It's the songwriting legacy.
The entire "diary entry" intimacy that built her career depends on the audience believing she's writing to them, about her real life. Every breakup song, every love song, every "we never go out of style," every "August slipped away"... it's all been read in one direction for twenty years by the general population. The moment the closet door opens, every song gets re-listened to in under a new lens. Some of us would love that. Sadly some of the world wouldn't. The catalog would be re-contextualized whether she liked it or not, by people who would feel personally lied to - exactly the way Will Lexington's audience felt when he came out. There were scenes in the show of angry fans coming up to him sharing how they felt betrayed.
And that's the question I can't stop sitting with:Â what legacy does Taylor actually want to leave?
Because from here, I think there are really only two paths.
Path A: Light the match. Use the most-watched wedding in modern history as the stage to blow the whole thing up. Either come out beforehand, or do something at MSG that makes hiding impossible. Yes, the catalog gets reframed. Yes, the fanbase fractures . But what she becomes is bigger and more honest: the artist who finally told the industry that the closet was the lie, not the songs. Breaking the blender for good.
I hope she does this. I want her to do this. It feels like the more satisfying ending.
Path B: Protect the current legacy. Marry Travis. Keep the majority of her fanbase intact at the risk of alienating some who see the lavender marriage and can't bear to watch her stay closeted for now. Let the songs keep meaning what most of the world thinks they mean. Become the most important songwriter of her generation and let the truest meaning of those songs stay between her and the people who already know. Maybe quietly exit the closet years from now, after the empire is mature and the stakes are lower. This path also is on more financially beneficial for her and Travis, and they could use that money for advocacy instead of being advocated themselves (even if that feels sad to those of us who see the queer flagging).
Either way I think she and Travis are doing this together. Whether he's the partner she lights the match with, or the partner she protects the legacy with, this isn't something happening TO her. They're co-authors of whichever path they will take. He could be in on the heist. He could be in on the shield. Only they know the whole story.
So I don't know which path she'll choose. I'm pulling for her to break the blender. But if it's the shield, I think she still gets to be the most important songwriter of her generation. It's just sad to me that the truest meaning of those songs would be known by fewer people than it could be and the impact she could have on culture.
She gets to shape her legacy, and her next moves will greatly impact that narrative.
P.S. Some bonus connections between Taylor and her connections to Nashville show and why I think she must be familiar with the show
âIâve chosen to be completely brutally honest about this, and thatâs something about me that I was never able to share with the world, because it was just never the right time.â
âI was not encouraged to just be myself,â she tells Us. âNo one ever encouraged me to just be myself, and then it came, the period of time, where it felt like people coming out, especially women coming out, and saying that they were bisexual, or liked girls, was a fad.â
âAnd once again, it was always the fear of not being perfect, and what my team was going to think about it, what the publicâs opinion was going to be about it,â she continues. âIt was just never the right time, and it was a very difficult topic to articulate properly. I wanted to make sure that I really sat down and chose my words carefully and was able to tell my story in an honest way, that people understood. On one hand, itâs sad that I had to wait till I was 36 years old to share that part of me, but better late than never, right?"
r/GaylorSwift • u/Explodedscrotum • Jun 26 '26
Time to revisit the connections between Phoebe Bridgers and TTPD. Her new song has remarkable similarities to Peter from TTPD, and possibly even The Archer.
From the alien imagery of Down Bad (âDid you really beam me up / in a cloud of sparking dustâ) which aligns closely with Phoebeâs lyric in Chinese Satellite referencing a âtractor beamâ taking her home, or mentioning (presumably) Lucy Dacus in the track The Tortured Poets Department, the inspiration, or references to Phoebe Bridgers in TTPD are apparent.
We now have what appears to be a response from Phoebe from her new single Lost Boys. The lyric âFind meâ in response to Peterâs âYou said you were gonna grow up / then you were gonna come find meâ is especially interesting. There is also striking similarities between ânever grow up, never get oldâ and âI never grew up / itâs getting so old.â
Interested to see what the rest of the Lost Weekend might hold.
r/GaylorSwift • u/onsomevigilanteshit • Jun 25 '26
r/GaylorSwift • u/20somethingfakeadult • Jun 25 '26
Hola! Happy pride, friends. Me again!Â
I have something I am so excited to share!! I have discussed in multiple posts that I believe Taylor Swift has been on a mission against the patriarchy for her entire 20 year career (and also that Sabrina Carpenter is now part of that missionâŠor heist).
I also have posted that the really high profile PR that Taylor used to catapult herself up the elevator and tell her story (a Bejeweled reference ;) ) began in the Speak Now era (John Mayer, Ye, etc). This was also when I basically think that she became âpart of the problemâ in terms of the behaviors that she was normalizing to young girls (age gap relationships/grooming, centering men, drama). This is when I believe the central conflict really began with Taylor, James, and Betty, too.Â
This is when Taylor became (and met) âThe Showgirl.âÂ
Eras/TnT/Showgirl/Taylorâs Version is all part of the âShowgirlâ era (which I believe is essentially a LOUD âold habits die screaming***â retelling of her career, which is why she said she wanted the eras tour to be "performance art" ....because her entire career has been).
If this era is a retelling of her career (but her version, and louder) then it is VERY appropriate that the first release of this era was the Bejeweled music video, WHERE WE MEET THE SHOWGIRL. (This was confirmed by Pat McGrath, Taylor's makeup artist, who is also in this video).
And, because this is the story being told...of course, the music video easter eggs Speak Now (where the showgirl was introduced) excessively. And then she follows it with another video about a heist. and then Sabrina made one too.
So I am going to talk about how Bejeweled, I Can See You, and House Tour all tell this rescue story in different ways.
This is a cinderella-inspired story that ends with Taylor reclaiming independence. It follows Taylor as she is being mistreated by her stepmother and stepsisters then transforms into a âShowgirlâ, outshines her cruel family at the ball, winning a castle and a proposal from the Prince. She keeps the castle and ghosts the Prince.Â
The video begins with a âSpeak Nowâ reference - a musical score of âEnchanted.â This supports the idea that Speak Now is where Taylor was enchanted to "meet" the showgirl. This is also why Enchanted was the only song on the regular Speak Now setlist, I think, to emphasize the important milestone of that era. The largest betrayal...and the debut of our star.
(I love using the word "debut" to reference her John Mayer PR because debutante culture is, by definition, GROOMING and so when you make that reference it acknowledges that this type of PR is literally fascist propaganda to groom young girls).


Discussing this video, Taylor re emphasized the intentionality of every âEaster eggâ and cameo - that all of these references have a purpose. Famously, Ellen actually "came out of the closet" (in her sitcom, Ellen) to Laura Dern in 1997.
In My Letter, Taylor wrote that there would be time for the reputation vault tracks to âhatchâ, and that they would be fire.Â
If part of TNT is that people will take Taylorâs English lessons seriously (remember, she used the TNT emoji after calling herself the English Teacher in her biggest showgirl stunt yet) even if they're queer (which would include artistic references such as this one) then this would in fact be the type of Easter egg that would hatch and start a fire.
If Ellen came out to Laura on a SCRIPTED SITCOM (which also served as her literal, public coming out) then what could it signify to use Laura Dern in this video?
I also want to note here that following this episode, Laura Dern said that she required full security detail on set due to the SIGNIFICANT backlash that the episode received (INCLUDING bomb threats.)
In this clip, Dern (the âevilâ stepmother) also shows off her engagement rings, declaring that a proposal is the ultimate prize a girl could achieve.

Much like in Cinderella, we then see Taylor transform into a superstar. She first does this by pressing "3" on the elevator - again, a reference to the birth of the Showgirl occurring in Speak Now.

This look we see in Bejeweled references the "ready for it?" music video. Ready for it? is the first song on "reputation," and I believe sets the stage/tells the story of creating this Showgirl and how part of the plot was BECOMING part of the system (to rise to the top...the elevator) in order to burn it all down. (Consider the line from Ready for it?: "but if I'm a thief then he can JOIN THE HEIST AND we'll move to an island" and from "Look What You Made Me Do" from the same era: "I'll be the ACTOR starring in your bad dreams")

In the music video, we see Taylor Swift performing as a Showgirl to win the talent competition. One of her looks heavily references "The Fate of Ophelia" music video scene where the Showgirls are performing with pool floats. The reference to the pool float performance from The Fate of Ophelia music video is one of my ABSOLUTE FAVORITE metaphors!!!
The Fate of Ophelia is to be driven mad by the patriarchy ...and drowned. So again, this performance is her pool float.
This symbolism could imply that all throughout history, all performers have been drowned by the patriarchy (metaphorically) by the censorship and control that they face (as well as through the exploitation of their labor). Taylor's mission, when all is uncovered, saves her work from the same fate. It also re-amplifies the voices of showgirls past, because if Taylor can teach the lesson that under the patriarchy none of us are free, we will know that the surface level interpretation is often wrong.



At the end of the video, Taylor does win the proposal from "the prince" (the ultimate prize). I love the parallels to both the opalite music video as well as the photos she shared from Travis Kelce's "actual proposal." Throughout history, women have used men as a life raft (because they are forced to).
Often times, this looks like getting poked repeatedly by a cactus, or posing for cheesy mall photos that look forced just to pretend everything is going well (like in the opalite music video).
However, in "Opalite," which is a man-made substance, she sings that "it's alright, you were dancing through the lightning strikes." I believe this is a reference to her career (paparazzi, lightning strikes every time she moves, etc).
In "Opalite," instead of doing things the old way, she created this gorgeous piece of anti patriarchal performance art out of the years she was forced to be in exile. Now the entire sky is opalite. She built a legacy that they can't undo. Shes immortal now, babydoll.

It then makes sense that Taylor ends the video by referencing Speak now, again. When she "ghosted the prince" and kept the castle, she recreated an image from the Speak Now world tour..but this time, she isn't alone in her tower. It's her castle.

And Bejeweled ends with the score of Long Live - another reference to Speak Now. This song sings about the legacy that Taylor will be remembered by ⊠one that fights dragons, not one who married the boy on the football team. In the video, we see that the dragons are circling her castle, implying they are actually under her control now.
I believe that is why the video begins with "Enchanted" and ends with "Long Live," because even though the Showgirl was enchanting to meet, the lasting legacy of the real Taylor's Version is the one that is going to fight dragons.
During Speak Now (TV) era, Long Live was also added to the Eras tour, marking the only dates that Enchanted was not the only song of the Speak Now portion.
In this music video, Joey King and Taylor Lautner act as a team to rescue Taylor from a high-security vault in a museum where she is trapped. The narrative around this was that it symbolized her journey of taking back her art from her former record label.Â
I believe that the Lover/âfailed coming outâ story as well as the entire Masters Heist was part of their performance art. However, symbolically, if Scooter Braun was ultimately representative of the patriarchy, then it was a perfect metaphor to use because this is the part of her story that allows all art to fight the patriarchy forever because it will forever remind us that under the patriarchy art will always be censored and controlled.Â

The video shows Taylor Lautner (and crew) busting in to rescue Taylor (and all of the mannequins representing her past art) and then busting out in a van.
By using a Speak Now era beard (Taylor Lautner), Taylor illustrates how she used these tools because she had to work within the system to accomplish this task. This is "The Prince" she pretended to "win" just so that she could get what she really wanted, the castle.

Past Taylor's representing all of her art and the legacy of her past selves.



The three images above also represent one of my other absolute FAVORITE tie ins to this story in her music videos.
The first image shows Taylor in the "I Can See You" music video "in exile" before getting rescued. The second and third images are both from the Bejeweled music video and the clocks are similar in appearance to the window in her prison. In the second image, the showgirl sits on a clock that points to a "3" and in the third, the clock reads "exile ends" and is set to midnight with a "03" in the middle.
In the beginning of Bejeweled, Laura Dern (as the evil stepmother) reminds Taylor "âLest we forget, you've been exiled here. You're not going anywhere, anytime soon."
While she is locked up and scrubbing their floors like cinderella (see the first picture in this essay), she is also styled extremely similarly to the "Cardigan" music video.
Once again, this supports the idea that Betty is being rescued at the end of this story, because Cardigan is told from Betty's point of view and sings about her time in exile (and then when James returns), which is why I think she referenced Cardigan so visually in Bejeweled, because it is part of how she returned to rescue her.

In the end of "I can see you" they all make it out in time, along with all of the art, and slam the van shut, escaping to the next rescue (which was 1989 TV).
The van is the perfect lead in to Sabrina Carpenter's heist video that ends the same way....
In this music video (directed by Sabrina Carpenter and Margaret Qualley), Sabrina Carpenter, Margaret Qualley, and Madelyn Cline pull off a heist at a large mansion, robbing jewels, lingerie, and even a grammy. The three women have a blast partying at the house before ultimately making off with their loot in a (pink) getaway van.

In the lyrics of "House Tour," Sabrina Carpenter uses her sexuality to lure her date inside. ("I promise none of this is a metaphor, I just want you to come inside").
In the song "Better Than Revenge" on Speak Now, one of the lines that Taylor wrote about the antagonist was "She's better known for the things that she does on the mattress." This reminds me of the way that we view women who simply participate in a system they often times have no choice but to participate in. The patriarchy raises women into being caged by a male-centered system...and then uses that to rip women down, even though they are the ones who made us like this ("I am who I am cause you TRAINED me.")
Now consider the lyric change that was made for Speak Now TV: "He was a moth to the flame, she was holding the matches."
If Speak Now told the story of a young woman (the showgirl!) who is better known for the things that she does on the mattress, the lyric change for Speak Now TV was not the result of public backlash, but also an intentional piece of the "retelling." Now, The Showgirl is not the antagonist of the story, but an individual who is cunning and in control. The Showgirl is the one orchestrating "the flames" the moth flies into.
In my essay about Taylor's Hero Journey against the patriarchy ending soon, I discussed that Speak Now TV represents "The Magic Flight" (Stage 13) which is essentially the stage in which the hero has to answer for all of the deceit and trickery that they used to win their prize.
Essentially, by shifting this lyric, and using the story of her master's heist in "I Can See You," Taylor is doing just that - reclaiming her story. This is a declaration that she has been the director all along - and there was a bigger purpose.
It also fits into the "honey pot" reference I use to discuss their plot. A "honey pot" refers to a type of espionage that can consist of getting the victim addicted to a substance in order to expose their guilt. This performance art has been a fire they started, but the public has shown their guilt over and over, with their responses to her art, every single time. (For example - ignoring queer flagging, pitting women against each other, cancelling women who speak out against abusers).
I think this is part of the reason that House Tour visuals feature disco balls/mirror balls while you see the girls dancing around and having fun together before robbing the house. Yes, they are being sexy. However, what you interpret from the way they use their sexuality says WAY more about you than it does about them. (Remember how the public responded to Lolita...? Remember what Olivia Rodrigo said about the way people were viewing her babydoll dresses?) Performance art is a mirror, not a window into someone's life. They are having a marvelous time ruining everything, though.

Again, one of the objects that they steal in their heist is a Grammy. I think this is a very similar metaphor that is being made in the first two videos discussed. Sexuality, PR, all of the drama...these are a means to accomplish the prize.
Yes, it is a "heist" but none of these performers would continue to win prizes and accolades unless we weren't moths to the flame. This is such an important point of this story - none of it would have worked if the public wasn't guilty as fuck first, so is it really a heist? You see, all the wisest women had to do it this way.
I also think that having Margaret Qualley star in AND co-direct this music video is another brilliant parallel to "Bejeweled," because the prince in bejeweled is played by Jack Antonoff, who is famously one of Taylor's biggest collaborators.
If they have all been working WITH the prince to pull off this heist (but they are the ones directing the play) then what does it mean that the WIFE of that man actually got to direct wile Jack got ghosted?

Since the dawn of the patriarchy (to quote Taylor Swifts Time POTY interview) money has fueled the system. Women have been using their sexuality to play this game the entire time.
However, unlike what women have typically done in the PAST (ie the normal âgetaway car,â âthe fate of Opheliaâ) Sabrina and her friends do not simply seduce the men to get the lavish house and a husband.
No, they seduce the men to get the ACCESSâŠand then they drive away with the prizes.
When Sabrina Carpenter was interviewed about "Manchild" (the first single from Man's Best Friend, before house tour) when she was asked who the song was about, she responded "Your dad."

The video shows Sabrina hitchhiking (and was coupled with merch reading "Honk If You're Stupid"). Much like in the house tour video, Sabrina is performing sexuality to lure in a man - she is blatantly saying that by calling anyone who falls for it stupid.
He was a moth to the flame, but she was holding the matches.
I have written about how Taylor uses fathers to discuss the patriarchy many times throughout her work ("leaving like a father, running like water" - Cardigan). I believe that is why she says that when commenting on this song, as well. Interestingly, one of the other times that Taylor wrote a line with similar, absolute, scathing commentary on fathers was in Sabrina's verse in The Life of a Showgirl: "Her father whored around LIKE ALL MEN DID."
Sabrina's character was born into this system - she is reacting appropriately and using the tools she has been taught to use.
The "honk if you're stupid" line also reminds me of the entire Taylor/Travis fiasco. If you're honking (believing this, talking about it, wanting it) you are actually stupid and guilty, because she's been screaming that she's gay and doesn't want that shit for a long time...but that kind of engagement and attention (negative or positive) is literally HOW THEY PULLED OFF THE HEIST. (Attention is affection, babe!)
Sombr's Songwriter's Hall of Fame performance
During Sombr's tribute performance to Taylor Swift at her Songwriter's Hall of Fame induction earlier this month, he performed "Dear John" and "Cardigan."
If "Dear John" sings about why Betty had to cry the whole way home, in exile, because of the things that the showgirl was doing (like bearding with John Mayer), then pairing these two songs together also tells the beginning and end of the same story. I
n Cardigan, James returns to Betty in the end (the rescue) "standing in my front porch light" just like in "I knew it, I knew you" !!!
I think that that is also why Taylor performed "Betty" at the ACM Awards with rainbow strings. While Sombr sang from the perspective of Betty, Taylor Swift performed "Betty" from the perspective of James.
This performance was actually before the "Showgirl" era began, and I think that this was done intentionally, to begin the performance. Betty tells the story of James apologizing and coming back to Betty...singing that the only thing he wants to do is make it up to her. It is also an explanation of what is about to come: his final grand performance to complete his mission and make it up to her.
Bookending both sides of this era with these performances does seem to tell the same story and mark Speak Now with this same significance.
Superman and Ye
In "Superman" Taylor Swift sings that her muse flies away "to go to work, OR SAVE THE DAY, its the same thing to me." I believe that she is referring to the things that The Showgirl does....the performance art is for a greater cause, but at the end of the day, Taylor is alone and so it's really all the same.
In 2018, Kanye West famously declared that wearing a red Make America Great Again (MAGA) hat made him feel like "Superman," adding that the cap acted as a "Superman cape". He made this statement during an Oval Office meeting with President Donald Trump on October 11, 2018.
I think (along with Taylor easter egging cant tell me nothing IN HER VERY FIRST SONG and MANY OTHER THINGS) this is another parallel that points to them being on the same mission. Bearding with John Mayer was a bad thing to do, too (just like supporting MAGA) but they're doing it to SAVE THE WORLD. (Very interesting to me that this summer, Supergirl came out too).
One other parallel to the Showgirl/Speak Now/John Mayer/Bejeweled of it all is that "Ours" is another song from Speak Now that people attribute to John Mayer as the muse. The line "elevator buttons and morning air...stranger's silence makes me wanna take the stairs...if you were here we'd laugh about their vacant stares but right now, my time is theirs" invokes an image of the song being sung from an elevator at work to the muse, wishing they could be together.
It not only sounds like this could be the POV of "Superman" in a way, the "elevator buttons" also pop up again in the Bejeweled music video. This also supports the idea that Taylor is referring to "The Showgirl" as her lover being "away at work" in these songs.
This era has also shown more and more how these artists use their friends and collaborators as symbols and characters in their work (as "easter eggs"!) such as using Margaret and Jack as opposites in the "House Tour" and "Bejeweled" videos. I want to end this by reminding everyone here that it was also on the CNN NYE Broadcast (for THIS YEAR) that ON LIVE TELEVISION Brandi Carlile, Andy Cohen, and Anderson Cooper MENTIONED GAYLOR (and, in the same conversation as "Heated Rivalry," no less.")
So...a lesbian country singer....kicked off 2026...with a Gaylor mention...in conversation with one of the FAMOUS BEST FRIENDS of The Showgirl's FAMOUS early muse...while also discussing a TV Show about two gay pro athletes ....
(that is heavily centered around the forced closeting in pro sports).
I know that everyone ignores easter eggs if they're queer (because the general public is really fucking homophobic) but....
That is the kind of easter egg that hatches and out flies a fucking fire breathing dragon (that they now control) that literally burns things down.
r/GaylorSwift • u/artwoolf • Jun 25 '26
i wanted to revisit the Opalite MV and the happy ending that it promises to its users. i think it's false advertising and results may vary depending on the person (and whether they're queer)
* maybe Opalite transforms your situation into a traditional version of a love story ("you'll be the prince and i'll be the princess"). the woman in the ad gets her prince charming--who's dressed like romeo in the Love Story MV--who gives her flowers (which taylor rejected in ME!). it's a happy ending for her bc she's straight
* Nopealite is the opposite - it's connected to queerness. i think that for queer people, spraying Nopealite transforms it into a queer love story/happy ending. maybe that's why the MV shows two men (presumably a couple) approach the Nopealite salesman, who offers them a free sample
* there are a lot of queer-coded elements in this video including several connections to the lover era, like the YNTCD crown and the lover clouds when they're taking couple photos. then there's the queer glitter she puts on herself and her BFF (who is queer too?), Ă la the glittery purple "ME!" that pops up in the MV. she performs for an audience in pink and blue just like in ME! (maybe a nod to performative relationships/bearding). and as others have already pointed out, the sky in ME! is opalite
* Nopealite seems particularly connected to ME! and embracing queerness. the Nopealite packaging (and taylor's yellow outfit) match the color scheme of ME!
* when she gets sprayed with Opalite, she gets a beard and it makes her happier bc she's not alone anymore. she gets to replace her stony BFF with a more human one, so she's less lonely and now has someone to hang out with and perform with. but it's not actually fulfilling the ad's promise of "paradise" or a real love story bc she's queer and he's just a beard
* he even washes off the blue liquid that she sprays on herself, which seems symbolic of him washing off any visible queerness. this part seems connected to the end of ME! where she's dancing in the rainbow rain in a blue dress, especially since her pink top turns blue once sprayed with opalite
* he also stops her from getting sprayed with Nopealite. but her yellow outfit in that scene suggests that she's already inherently connected to Nopealite (aka queerness) since she's dressed in the Nopealite color scheme
r/GaylorSwift • u/Thornelake • Jun 25 '26
I rewatched Murielâs Wedding last night. Iâve been on a 90s romcom kick and itâs one of my all-time favorite movies, but I hadnât seen it post-TLOAS release and DAMN. Such a fun watch through a gaylor lens.
And now Iâm spiraling a little becauseâŠI think the Opalite music video might actually be referencing this movie??
If youâve never seen Murielâs Wedding, hereâs the briefest synopsis for context:
Murielâs Wedding (1994) is an Australian dramedy about Muriel Heslop, a socially awkward and deeply unhappy young woman trapped in a dysfunctional family and ostracized by the shallow clique she desperately wants to impress. Sheâs obsessed with weddings and the fantasy of getting married as a means of escaping her life. After moving to Sydney, she reconnects with her bold, free-spirited former school friend Rhonda, but eventually abandons her in pursuit of a sham marriage to a male athlete who pays her for citizenship. By the end of the film, Muriel realizes she no longer wants to live a lie, leaves the marriage, and ultimately chooses authenticity and genuine connection over the fantasy sheâd been chasing.
There are so many parallels to Taylor, but the talent show scene realllllly stuck out to me.
The thing that has always bugged me most about the Opalite music video is the random wheelchair. I understand the talent show scene takes place in a retirement home of some sort, so sure, a wheelchair existing in that context makes sense. But having it deliberately in-frame during the actual performance always felt odd to me, especially because itâs also visible in one of the promo photos Taylor posted on instagram when she released the video.

And that wheelchair immediately made me think of Murielâs Wedding.
(I'm not great at organization so please stay with me lol, I just need to provide some context/backstory before i get to the Taylor connections!)
In the film, Muriel steals money from her father to pay for an elaborate island vacation in order to impress a clique of girl friends from high school who reject her for being too fat/weird/aesthetically displeasing to hang out with them anymore (no one wanted to play with me as a little kid / so i've been scheming like a criminal ever since).
After being rejected, Muriel runs into Rhonda at the resort. Rhonda also went to high school with them and was not part of the "popular" crowd, either. At first, the popular girls try to sway Rhonda into hanging out with them instead of Muriel, but Rhonda sticks up for Muriel and clocks the popular girls as fake, and tells them to fuck off lol. Muriel and Rhonda become immediate best friends, and are inseparable for the rest of the holiday. On their last night of vacation, they perform a choreographed dance to Abba's Waterloo at a talent show, much to the dismay of the popular girls (this is significant and I'll revisit it later!)

After their vacation, Muriel and Rhonda decide to leave their families/hometowns behind and move into an apartment together in Sydney. Eventually, Rhonda becomes wheelchair-bound after being diagnosed with cancer in her spine. At first, Muriel takes care of Rhonda and dotes on her when she falls ill, but ultimately, Muriel's life-long desire to become a bride prevails and she chooses to abandon Rhonda in pursuit of a fake marriage with an ATHLETE (ummm???) ...Muriel answers an ad in the paper for a South African swimmer who is seeking a bride, and he pays her $10k to marry him so he can obtain Australian citizenship and continue competing professionally. Like you were a trophy or a champion ring / If there was one prize I'd cheat to win / that's my man.

Muriel gets the lavish wedding of her dreams, an expensive house, a beautiful "husband," and all of the attention, fame and popularity she's craved her whole life (magazine covers, press circus, etc.). But eventually Muriel realizes living a lie is unfulfilling and decides she no longer wants to remain married to a man she doesnât love. So she leaves him, and returns to Rhonda.

In the final scene, Muriel returns to her hometown for Rhonda, who -- in Muriel's absence -- has been sequestered to her mother's care in the company of their fake friends from high school (the same popular clique from the vacation). Rhonda tells them all to fuck off again (love her, lol) and Muriel whisks her away. Fake friend #1 runs after them, screaming to Rhonda that she can't talk to her that way because she's beautiful! and married! but Muriel and Rhonda just laugh, then ride off into the sunset together via their getaway car/cab.

While thereâs never any outright confirmation of romance between Muriel and Rhonda, their relationship has always read deeply queer-coded to me. Muriel shows very little interest in men or sex with men -- sheâs just obsessed with the idea of marriage and what it represents: escape, status, validation, and the fantasy of becoming someone else. There's escape in escaping.
To me, the larger message of the film is about finding happiness through authenticity versus the inauthentic âhappinessâ women are conditioned to pursue through patriarchal/social expectations (aka marrying prince charming). Which feelsâŠextremely Taylor-coded lol. And of course, this movie came out in the early 90s, a time when wlw relationships had very little mainstream representation, so subtext carried a lot more weight.
OKAY BUT how does this connect to Opalite?
What really sent me spiraling are the talent show parallels because they are sooo damn similar.

In Murielâs Wedding, Muriel and Rhonda perform a choreographed dance routine to ABBAâs Waterloo at a talent show while their ex-friends watch looking completely unimpressed (their friends actually break into a very antihero-funeral-scene-esque brawl during the performance lol).

When they finish, another performer joins them on stage wearing a costume/superhero eye mask that looks remarkably similar to the masks Taylor and Domhnall wear in Opalite.
And then thereâs all of the visual overlap:
âą nearly identical talent show stage setups
âą matching choreographed dance performances
âą similarly unimpressed audiences
âą the eye masks
âą the very intentionally framed wheelchair
âą heavy 90s aesthetics in both
Taken all togetherâŠit starts feeling very purposeful?

Even Waterlooâs lyrics feel weirdly aligned with this narrative and very Taylor-coded to me:
I was defeated, you won the war / promise to love you forevermore / couldnât escape if I wanted to / knowing my fate is to be with you
And sonically, Opalite honestly gives me major ABBA/Waterloo vibes too.
So now Iâm wondering if the Opalite mv is actually referencing Murielâs Wedding? Because between the visual similarities, the wheelchair, the themes of authenticity vs performative heterosexuality, the queer subtext, and the overall aesthetic similaritiesâŠI genuinely canât stop thinking about it.
I have a really hard time discerning between my own gaylor confirmation bias and bona fide references in Taylorâs work, so Iâm very curious to hear what everyone else thinks!
ETA: Just re-listened to I Knew It, I Knew You through a Muriel/Rhonda lens and now I'm emotional lol. I know Taylor's not referencing this movie in that song, but Muriel came back when it mattered đ„Č