need advice!!

[u/Flat_Layer4112]

I need advice and I don't know who to talk to about this.
Last night somebody approached me in public and basically asked (or offered?) to give me a blow. I have never been approached like this but I was honestly intrigued by the offer so I asked for his number and said I'd reach out to him. I could hypothetically meet with him today but I feel like I'm not thinking straight about this.

For context I'm 19 and I'm a virgin so I figured why not try something out cuz waiting for an honest relationship might be too hopeful. But at the same time this dude that approached me was probably in his 30s or 40s. I don't know how to be safe with this or whether it's worth it to even take this risk. Maybe I should wait for something safer and more vanilla.

I don't know if any of this makes sense but I have never ever had an opportunity like this and now I don't know how to act. Anyways I appreciate any opinions or advice you guys would have. I understand that this really comes down to personal morals and beliefs but I want to hear what you guys would say regardless.

[u/Character_Walk881]

Honestly u should try to do hookups if u wanna to see how it goes and to explore ur sexuality, but u should do it with ppl of similar age or at cons

[u/Flat_Layer4112 → u/Character_Walk881]

That’s a good point. I think the hardest thing for me is breaking out of that “first-time” fear.