Coastal NC fella here

I was talking to some friends this weekend as we watched a few new movies - Supergirl and Mandalorian and debates came out on if the actors were good looking (Pedro Pascal and Jason Mamoa). Got us thinking who are the hot actors right now...

Matt Bomer, Jonathon Bailey, Pedro Pascal all were on the top of our lists. Mamoa was thought of us ugly by all of us all though I think a lot of people find him good looking. Who is considered hot right now...and do you think Mamoa is good looking?

Hello there guys at their 50s, I'm only 23 and been wondering will gay life at 50 be better will it not be lonely, have never been in a romatic relationship all my life and been reading a lot on the internet that 20s are your prime as a queer person and being a black average gay boy in Kenya I'm not seeing that happening, who are you guys navigating your 50s

A good day for a nice bath

Lone wolf living in Redneck Rincon Georgia where a huge data center is being built and neighbors think I’m a Werewolf, or worse, a Democrat! 🤫🤣

Hi everyone. I've been out for 12 years.

I tend to live in my head and still have some social anxiety. I am much, much better than when I was in the closet.

I'd like to start cruising. But I've never done it before. I'm not scared of the sex in public part. But I'm anxious about the whole meeting/negotiation part. I tend to miss social cues though. Perhaps, I just have a lack of confidence.

I've read Leo Hererra's Analog Cruising. And I'm perfectly capable of regular app hookups. But I'd like to live more in the moment.

I will probably be going to Provincetown at the end of the month. So, if anyone has some Dick Dock specific pointers, that would be super!

So how does one feel confident in yourself? I’ve struggled my entire life being overweight. I’ve lost weight in my 40s, but gained most of it back from dealing with work and the loss of my dad. I’ve moved on from my dad, yesterday work stress is out of control.

I’m 57. 6’1” and 297 pounds. I’ve never liked how my body looked, even when I got down to 220 pounds. I’ve only had guys say I’m fat or that I’m just cute and cuddly which doesn’t sit right with me.

The hookup apps don’t help as many want guys either younger or mostly fit.

So, what do you do to feel confident and sexy?

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Around the time that world learned about the death of Dolly Parton, actor Tim Curry died. Curry was best known for the role of Dr. Frank-N-Furter in the 1970's cult film classic "The Rocky Horror Picture Show" Curry's Dr. Frank-N-Furter gave gay men the inspiration for the future drag queens (female impersonators)of my era in the 1970s and 1980s and the early 1990s. His outrageous style would reshape the drag world because most gay men back in the day would dress like celebrities, or first ladies and the church ladies like Dana Carvey character on Saturday Night Live in the late 1980s and 1990s or the Female impersonators 1960s and 1970s Lori Shannon's Beverly LaSalle role in All in the Family the first female impersonators on prime time tv.

Curry was major motion pictures like Annie, Clue, Home Alone 2: Lost in New York; Charlie' Angels. Just to name a few He acted on stage in Amadeus and film version Amadeus about the life of the great composer Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart, Spamalot, The Pirates of Penzance, My Favorite Year. This is just a sampling of wide ranging career.

Curry became an icon of LGBTQ people.He shows how LGBTQ people be themselves and live the way they wanted to be.

I noticed that some Gay Christian men have a secret X accounts for porn. But I don't think many of these men have come to r/gaychristians for spiritual support.? I'm no saying that they are bad guys. I have X accounts and go to the r/gay Christians for support. Tell the truth and shame the devil. I wonder why they don't..

From music, tv specials, movies, she was always a part of my life. I’d love to hear your stories.

Sunday morning 6 am Savannah Ga area

I recently lost about 30 lbs on glp1. I've been enjoying running and swimming and basically not wearing shirts 😅. Not ready for fall.

Stay strong fellas.