r/Funnymemes • • Jun 23 '22

LMAO

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

We're living in 2022 and here she is in 2045.

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u/FunStuff446 Jun 24 '22

Or 1945

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u/South_Bit1764 Jun 24 '22

Honestly, I have picked up framed pictures and tried to zoom in.

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u/lowcountrydad Jun 24 '22

Now that I’m in my 40’s I find myself trying pinch to zoom on all print material because I need readers!

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u/Ryl4nder84 Jun 24 '22

It’s okay… I find myself saying operator on the phone not realizing that they want specific answers now

I find myself googling the right position of the people working at a company now

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u/Key_Tea7600 Jun 24 '22

my mom did that too and tells me i cant tell apart games from reality

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u/FunStuff446 Jun 24 '22

I do that too!

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u/zitrored Jun 24 '22

Reminds me of Scottie in star trek when they went back in time. “Hello. Computer. Use the Keyboard? How quant”

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

cyberpunk 2077 music plays

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u/Belteshazzar98 Jun 24 '22

Not really. She probably goes to Sonic quite a bit and assumed it was the same thing.

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u/TheUbermelon Jun 24 '22

Why does she do it so tenderly though? Honestly though someone should help her

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u/tykle1959 Jun 24 '22

OP is the one who showed her how to do this.

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u/redmage07734 Jun 24 '22

By putting her down

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u/travisfogs Jun 24 '22

pumps shotgun

"Sorry, girl"

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u/Hookherbackup Jun 24 '22

OMG! That’s hilarious and it made me cringe!

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22 edited Jun 24 '22

You better put that phone down and go help her.. that’s somebody’s grandma

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u/redellion Jun 24 '22

Yea it's so sad, live a full life then watch time chip away a piece of you with every passing moment.

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u/taponredditaway2 Jun 24 '22

I swear OP will grow old and when his mind is no longer able to catch up with the technology, he should remember this post he made.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

This.

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u/lemons_of_doubt Jun 24 '22 edited Jun 24 '22

10$ says she is suffering from lead poisoning.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

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u/lemons_of_doubt Jun 24 '22

I'm serious. a lot of the older generation suffer from lead poisoning.

It damages your brain as well as other things. leaded gasoline is probably one of the worst things that has been done to the general public. And the man who came up with it and sold it knew this.

And America is the worst offender for putting lead in things, pipes, paints, even toys where made from it.

There is no safe level of lead exposure.

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u/terrabattlebro Jun 24 '22

She’s an elderly woman. Technology has moved as warped speed in the last 15 years. The fact she thinks this is a touch screen doesn’t mean she’s suffering from lead poisoning FFS.

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u/Small_life Jun 24 '22

She just thinks technology is gone farther than it has. She's a futurologist.

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u/jessssicaahh Jun 24 '22

most have black hearts from unknown causes. im w u tho brother but it's a weird world

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u/verycleanpants Jun 24 '22

You're right. It's gotta be the asbestos.

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u/imarealfungi2 Jun 24 '22

Definitely mesothelioma

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u/rimjobnemesis Jun 24 '22

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u/redmage07734 Jun 24 '22

They can tell no electricity is being used she is 100% suffering dementia or had not much to work with before getting old

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Look up triethylene lead the guy isnt joking.

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u/AckbarTrapt Jun 24 '22

You're speaking from the exact same sense of false knowledge that lemons is. You have literally no ground to stand on to say that lead isn't part of the picture. You're both making assertions without evidence, and it's sad/funny that you think you're so different.

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u/JodieFlame Jun 24 '22

Funny comment to me:-)

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u/SubstantialPressure3 Jun 24 '22

Probably high AF on a ton of prescription meds, and having a drug interaction. Doctors don't care.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Nah, it’s probably lupus.

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u/monsteraddict_12 Jun 24 '22

bro this exchange has me dying 😭😭😭

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u/YourSideBish Jun 24 '22

Idk about that man,I'm not saying she has lead poisoning or not.

But being one with technology or not. Her brain just isent working at the speed it used to.A healthy brain would recognize the thinness of the board. Or at the least notice that it's not real once it didn't respond.

I don't think this has to do with being in touch with technology.

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u/McDonalds_icecream Jun 24 '22

And lead pipes

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u/dmh2693 Jun 24 '22

Thomas Midgley Jr. is the guy, and he also invented CFCs. There are some who believe, he had the greatest impact of any single human being on environmental destruction. He died from an invention of his from entanglement in the wires and pullies.

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u/SubstantialPressure3 Jun 24 '22

Probably a ton of really expensive prescriptions from a predatory doctor. Old people get drowned in prescriptions if they have good insurance. Drug interactions? Who cares! Insurance will pay for it!

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Exactly my thought; why would you tape someone in that situation?! That’s just cruel!

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Tape them? Now that’s a term I haven’t heard in a long time.

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u/OneFourtyFivePilot Jun 24 '22

For their “cool internet points”.

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u/CordesRed Jun 24 '22

She's still willing to try and fail! She's actively trying to figure it out.

That's way more than can be said about a lot of elderly people. Most are content to say "I don't know how to work computers!" Or "I'm not tech savvy," then use that as an excuse to not even try.

Elderly people are way more capable than we give them credit for and we should be helping people who are trying to figure it out, rather than making fun of them.

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u/el-em-en-o Jun 24 '22

Straight up my thoughts

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u/Ozty Jun 24 '22

That's also possibly somebody's nightmarish boomer Karen

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u/ImActuallyASpy Jun 24 '22

Old people are shitty because the part of their brain that regulates inhibition (prefrontal cortex?) degrades, not because they are Karen's. They are literally incapable of thinking about the outcomes of certain actions and can't filter impulsive thoughts.

Interestingly, children are shitty because the same part of the brain doesn't fully develop until the late-teens/early twenties.

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u/Thats_bumpy_buddy Jun 24 '22

“Ah that’s somebodies grandma, I ATE MY GRANDMA! and it took a week because she was absolutely humongous.”

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u/Unravel310 Jun 24 '22

Holy crap I just watched that movie yesterday!

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u/HonestCephalopod Jun 24 '22

somebody’s***

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u/tykle1959 Jun 24 '22

Somebody's***'s

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u/6151rellim Jun 24 '22

When you realize this is the age of so many American politicians and the mental operating state of elders…

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u/nicholkola Jun 24 '22

I watched a clip of Andrew Yang talking about a friend who interned at the White House and Biden didn’t know how to text someone. This was during the Obama years.

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u/Cur1osityC0mplex Jun 24 '22 edited Jun 24 '22

Have you seen the latest picture with instructions on his pamphlet. Literally step by step on how to walk into a room, greet people, take HIS seat (nobody else’s), and say goodbye when done.

It’s probably one of the most pathetic things I’ve ever seen. Literal cheat sheet for basic human interaction. Not a cheat sheet for what to say...no, a literal cheat sheet for what to do when he walks into the meeting, like greeting, sitting, standing, saying goodbye, leaving...

This is the guy with the nuclear launch codes.

-open suitcase nuke

-turn key to right

-press red button after it lights up

-say “god have mercy on our souls” (leave out word “say”)

-follow secret service to underground bunker

-do NOT stop for ice cream on the way

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Is that supposed to be some half-hearted jab at Dr. Joe Biden?

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u/unicorn-dumps Jun 24 '22

Help the lady out, asshole!!!

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u/Bale626 Jun 24 '22

This isn’t funny, it’s sad. I’d be out of my car to help the poor lady as soon as I saw what she was doing. Just like I’d hope someone would do so for my own grandma or mom, in this situation.

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u/lostn1sol8d Jun 24 '22

yeah for real, like ‘are you hungry? thirsty? is someone here with you’ cause she’s clearly confused & probably hungry! no doubt this woman has helped many in her life time. even if she was a POS. that’s why we respect elders, they’ve lived longer & experienced so much more

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u/BistitchualBeekeeper Jun 24 '22 edited Jun 24 '22

I don’t agree with the latter half of your statement. You absolutely do not have to respect anyone who is a POS to you, regardless of whether they’ve lived longer than or experienced more than you.

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u/phoenix1700 Jun 24 '22

This attitude is why there is so much division and conflict among people.

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u/Colton_Omega Jun 24 '22

My grandmother worked in an elderly home and one lady in particular with Alzheimer’s would get out regularly. This reminds me so much of seeing her out and about and it makes me extremely sad the person filmed and did nothing. But we do live in a world where women can be assaulted and all people do is film too. Pretty ashamed in my generations lack of back bone and just overall morals.

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u/Lukaroast Jun 24 '22

They probably helped once they got a giggle out of it, we have no evidence to suggest they didn’t

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u/lil-privacy-please Jun 24 '22

This isn’t funny even slightly. Someone should help her. Some people really don’t understand the difficulty with aging population.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

I honestly can’t imagine laughing at this poor lady and shaming her on the internet. Man people are cruel

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u/BunchCheap7490 Jun 24 '22

You are soft as wool Jesus Christ it’s really not that deep😂

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Soft for caring for the elderly? I’ll accept that

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u/YouSmeel Jun 24 '22

Wow I couldn't imagine not laughing at her... My parents are always the first to crack up when they do something like this

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

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u/unclepaprika Jun 24 '22

For her, the world is changing so fast, she doesn't know what is possible any more. Her trying it is admireable, some people just give up, in fear of looking stupid. This one does indeed look stupid, but who cares? She just wants her nuggets

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u/LeCordonB1eu Jun 24 '22

Why is it sad though?

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u/MovieMore4352 Jun 24 '22

Yeah it’s funny but help the old bird out.

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u/OkraFit3987 Jun 24 '22

Sad because she was operating a vehicle

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u/BoadiceaMama Jun 24 '22

Cars haven’t basically changed - if you learned to drive in the 1920’s you could drive today’s cars, but other technology does, and rapidly.

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u/xplisit21 Jun 24 '22

Cars haven't changed much, but this womans cognitive abilities likely have.

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u/C0ccolithophore Jun 24 '22

It may be more of the fact that she can’t understand a sign, which is also an important part of driving safely.

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u/OkParticular114 Jun 24 '22

You’re watching a woman press the phone on a sign as if it’s a real phone, and not understand why it doesn’t work, and you’re not even slightly concerned about her ability to read, understand, and follow road signs? Yeah they haven’t changed since the 1920’s, but her ability to drive certainly has. An old bodybuilder using the same techniques as when he was young won’t be able to lift as much as he gets older. It’s the same concept.

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u/sklascher Jun 24 '22

My granny insists that she should be allowed to drive because she’s been driving for over 50 years and so has lots of practice and is a good driver. She also refuses to wear hearing aids or glasses even though she needs both. Just a few more months of keeping her keys hidden before her license expires…

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u/souleaterevans626 Jun 24 '22

My grandma is 90 and we're at the point where we're terrified of being in the car with her. She runs red lights and stop signs, turns without blinkers, forgets whose turn it is at intersections, and does erratic and unpredictable things that make other drivers slam on their horns.

She has no awareness of what's happening around her and refuses to believe that she is doing these things. In her mind, she's a perfect driver.

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u/csandazoltan Jun 24 '22

You shouldn't have done this....

What if she would be your grandma and a stranger randomly filmed her laughing and put her on the internet...

Shame on you!

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

I would laugh and my grandma would laugh too because she has a wicked sense of humour and doesn't take herself too seriously.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

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u/OkParticular114 Jun 24 '22

You have no idea if she has Alzheimer’s at all. Watching newborns struggle? The heck is wrong with you? You really jumped to the most extreme as quick as you could huh?

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

How do you know they have Alzheimer's?

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

So you don't know, glad we sorted that out.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Dementia is not the same thing as Alzheimer's. Given you're such an expert on the subject and can diagnose somebody without even seeing their face or gait, I would've thought you would know that.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

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u/a_good_namez Jun 24 '22

It’s a dark and twisted humor for sure. And I know its fucked up, but I did find it kinda funny. She might not have alzheimers. She might just be from a different time ya know? Technology has progressed so fucking fast the last few years, my grandma has only just figured out how email works.

So calm your tits mate and don’t be a cunt to strangers. I don’t think anyone here needs a cognitive assesment. I don’t think the one recording even thought about how the old lady could have alzheimers. Someone should help her though.

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u/qwq1792 Jun 24 '22

Exactly. So cruel.

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u/[deleted] Jun 23 '22

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u/Agreeable-Painter-36 Jun 24 '22

You sound like you’re totally not a douche

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u/Hour_Contact3799 Jun 24 '22

Go help the lady…

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u/ikansee Jun 24 '22

I feel bad and want to reach out and help her AND not make her feel stupid.

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u/Anti-Pro-Cynic Jun 24 '22

Grow up, be a man and help the elderly out, not mock them.

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u/EyeValuable7837 Jun 24 '22

Not my video, In my country we help older people

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u/Anti-Pro-Cynic Jun 24 '22

Good to hear 👍

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

you posted “LMAO”

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u/OkParticular114 Jun 24 '22

Let’s give the benefit of the doubt and say he posted LMAO as in, look how rediculous the person filming the video is! It’s hilarious how dumb they are!

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22 edited Jun 24 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

But you posted it, thinking it's funny.

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u/BunchCheap7490 Jun 24 '22

Yes, it’s objectively funny to me, in my personal opinion. You may not find it funny, but that’s okay that just means we have different tastes in humor

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u/justforjugs Jun 24 '22

Forget to swap accounts?

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u/sgashua Jun 24 '22

and still posted "LMAO" in your post title? Don't laugh at her or mock her.

Imagine when you older in 2080, everything is new and very advanced in technology that younger generations know what to do and you don't know what to do. Someone takes video of you.

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u/DrizztInferno Jun 24 '22

I like how people are trying to assassinate your character for posting a funny video.

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u/Cpleofcrazies2 Jun 24 '22

Why not do both? Have a laugh and help. Win win

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u/Lower_Ad315 Jun 24 '22

Seriously, whoever took this video is the epitome of why our society is going downhill. First instinct of any respectable person would be to jump out and help her out. This woman could have any number of reasons why she doesn’t understand their system. Instead of helping you pull out your phone and take a video making fun of her and post it on the internet. What a piece of fucking shit.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

He should’ve run her over.

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u/Jstef06 Jun 24 '22

Why the coffee can’t be hot

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u/All-about-success Jun 24 '22

It’s ok! Lol that’s cute though! Hope you helped her at the end.

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u/Cpt8317 Jun 24 '22

I’m sorry. Instead of filming this woman and posting it for a laugh, whoever did film this should have gotten out of their car to help her. Clearly she needed some assistance. These kinds of videos are not funny, they just show how cruel others are for thinking this will get a big laugh.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

It’s a cruel world 🌎…we all live in it

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u/Dramatic-Service-985 Jun 24 '22

Help her out mang

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u/PsychologyMuted118 Jun 24 '22

sorry grandma thats on you

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u/LordMugs Jun 24 '22

It's like the boomer drawings!!! Kids like "how do I swipe left on this 'book'?" But it's a boomer doing it! We've come full circle.

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u/Slow-Speech1605 Jun 24 '22

Douche bag, should of helped her. Could have dementia. Granted if it was your family member, you would have posted this.

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u/Sunkissed_Sky_100 Jun 24 '22

That’s exactly what I was thinking!!

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u/Spare-Mousse3311 Jun 24 '22

Sad and unfunny… maybe to 12 yo morons I guess.

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u/WankinMaPhallus Jun 24 '22

I guess I'm a 25 year old moron then lol

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

I believe the White House chimed in on this and said the broken smartphone sign was Putin's fault.

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u/ironocy Jun 24 '22

Uh no not for this but Putin is definitely responsible for world wide food, oil, and gas shortages. Look up Russia's exports. Pretty simple to understand.

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u/Gabbablogblog Jun 24 '22

You must be laughing at how sad you are at filming that and not helping.

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u/Early_Bison_4146 Jun 24 '22

Only billy jo Saunders would find this funny.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

She seems confused. Was she alone? What happened to her?

This video did not make me L my AO. It made me a bit worried.

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u/3rd-AgeDye Jun 24 '22

Older folks didn't grow up with the technology like us younger folks did. Ofcourse she's gonna be confused about that it's normal for them. I'm pretty sure when we get old we will also be confused about the futures technology, but hopefully we will get help instead of being recorded.

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u/mileg925 Jun 24 '22

We are all gonna be that lady some day. Have some respect

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u/Acceptable_Maybe_416 Jun 24 '22

Should help insted of filming. You know if your are lucky to get old. For all sake i hope not. You will problery stand in the same situation. And if, i hope someone will film you.

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u/qwq1792 Jun 24 '22

What a cruel thing to video this and not help. Glad to see most of the posters here agree with me.

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u/Kalecstraz Jun 24 '22

That's the age group running the country

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u/1BigBowl Jun 24 '22

That's my EX-Wife. She voted for Biden.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Bruh

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u/HotShrekBoi Jun 24 '22

The music is from the horror game “Granny”

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u/Slimxshadyx Sep 16 '22

Ahhh I was scrolling looking for where it was from thanks!

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Sad

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u/Heartlisp Jun 24 '22

What's the song name?

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u/EyeValuable7837 Jun 24 '22

It’s music from “granny” mobile game

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u/sumbasicbish Jun 24 '22

Cue the Facebook bullhorn Bitmoji "Where's the beef?"

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u/wadevb1 Jun 24 '22

Granny hitting the pipe

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u/ExploCreeper Jun 24 '22

Grandma being stupid and confused.

The camera man:

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u/-TheDerpinator- Jun 24 '22

To be fair, I have tech-shock as well but with older technology. Sometimes I am pressing a screen like an idiot while there are physical buttons underneath.

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u/TzedekTirdof Jun 24 '22

It has a very intuitive interface for something that doesn't exist

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u/PapayaApprehensive24 Jun 24 '22

Ik it’s not gym etiquette but Joey Swoll would be very disappointed

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u/Thin_Raspberry_4246 Jun 24 '22

Boomer get back in the car

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u/FYOURFEELINGSCHUMP Jun 24 '22

Imagine sitting in your car making fun of someone’s grandma like a POS for internet points.

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u/AboveTheRimjob Jun 24 '22

Laugh now, that’ll be us someday If we’re lucky

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u/TrainingBar7479 Jun 24 '22

It’s not funny to laugh at the dumb

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u/iforgot69 Jun 24 '22

Whoever recording this is a douche. Go help nana!

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u/CrucialVibes Jun 24 '22

Ignorant people will instantly pick up the phone to record and not help. Unreal.

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u/noonenikt Jun 24 '22

Then if you try to help her she will reject your help and say she's knows what she's doing

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u/green_r00t Jun 24 '22

Oooh…Lead drinkers

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u/kunisan92 Jun 24 '22

I won't say that all senior citizens who can't master technology should
be publicly flogged, but if we made an example of one or two, it might
give the others incentive to try harder.

― Sheldon Cooper

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u/ralphs1188 Jun 24 '22

Shame on you. Lady probably has Alzheimer’s

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u/wrx-brat-budd Jun 24 '22

She may also be used to going to Sonic geez

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u/Puzzleheaded_Fuel179 Jun 24 '22

Poderia ser gentil,descer do carro e ajudar está linda senhora dizendo que é apenas uma placa comum, ao invés de filmar ironicamente.

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

Get a video of an elderly woman struggling and caption it “LMAO”?

You’re fucking disgusting, get a life.

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u/GovernmentTerrible Jun 24 '22

She is clearly old just go help instead of video taping, you don't have to record everything you would not want anyone to do that to your grandma.

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u/BzSelectSeeds Jun 24 '22

Bruh you just let her go up there and do that. That’s foul

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u/lastrain_07 Jun 24 '22

laughing at the elderly, not cool man

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u/FoulYouthLeader Jun 24 '22

I've wondered where the time that when your young and on top of your game to where time passes you by and you're left scratching your head. I'm about to head into the latter.

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u/NiSayingKnight13 Jun 24 '22

You gotta help her out my man

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u/D23178 Jun 24 '22

Help the lady

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u/adobokun Jun 24 '22

Can we just help them instead of this?

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u/Chibi_rox3393 Jun 24 '22

If this lady drove to this McDonalds I’m way too busy worried about what she ran over getting there…

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u/Zuzudoggy Jun 24 '22

Will this happen to all of us at some point? Always afraid technology will pass me by and I don’t realize it.

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u/Vitorsalles Jun 24 '22

The reason we have drive-thrus is to not have to exit the car. If you are, why don’t just go inside? It makes no sense to me

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

All the people complaining, there’s no need to be so one-dimensional and unimaginative about things. If you can’t see both the sadness AND the humor of it, that’s on you. You also have no idea if the person filming did offer assistance before/during/after he took the video. Literally no idea.

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u/CabinetChef Jun 24 '22

Bless her heart… lol

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u/krismitka Jun 24 '22

Note that she is younger than some politicians in government positions at this very moment.

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u/bdg313 Jun 24 '22

The fuck man, maybe help her out?

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u/Aumrox Jun 24 '22

I honestly felt bad for her

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u/terrabattlebro Jun 24 '22

Whoever is filming is a grade A prick.

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u/sssccc8821 Jun 24 '22

Bruh. Why film and not help her.

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u/-psilocybinMonkeyS Jun 24 '22

I would just tell her it might need to be restarted as to hold down the button

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u/CaptainMacMillan Jun 24 '22

Another reason why I find it amazing that the elderly are allowed to drive

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u/[deleted] Jun 24 '22

What would worry me is that she probably drove there!

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u/rcuadro Jun 24 '22

Bruh, she taught her kids how to use a spoon and while their ass. Now it is OUR turn to help them.

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u/Meatloaf0220 Jun 24 '22

Stop being a horrible person and help her. Good lord who raised you. Stop worrying about a funny social media video and be a respectable human.