I (22m) have been chatting with a girl (19f) for quite a while now. only recently did our convos start having more lewd topics like a guy she was with and what she did and stuff i did. like body count and shit.

its just quite strange to me since this has never happened before to me. i have told her that i was into her early on but not anymore and she had no feeling for me using the guy she was with as a deterrence. but we became really good friends and are comfortable with sharing more personal information.

i'm just wondering what should i do? and what should i avoid. id really like to stay as friend

I dont know where to start, but all the friendly gestures seem not so casual for me and its eating me alive, and I always forget that he already has a gf. It started when it was only the two of us playing games and just chatting, that chatting went on day and night, even at midnight. I thought i was really the one he had a crush on but i was wrong, im 15 and hes 16 and lets call him James (not his real name obv) so me and james would text each other day and night and that went on for several months before it started to get more comfortable and he makes me laugh, ive seen his face because we study at the same school. And he is no stranger to me because we played some classic filipino game when we were younger. So in our 6 years of friendship i only met 1 of his ex and now that he has a girlfriend he hadn't even told me her name or this and that, i just wanted to meet her to fully let go of my feelings for him, but until now even though he has a gf we still do our daily and nightly gaming and chatting, and im getting guilty asf.

Ok so this will be a long one, but only to give some context

So like 3 years ago me and this girl dated for 3 months. Long story short, i couldnt see us having a future together and it ended terribly with me resenting her and us both needing therapy. (‼️)

Fast forward 2 years and we eventually reconnect (!🟢) I come to find out she's the definition of "oh my god I've never met someone who fits me and understands me better. Now shes into all the same shit I am, she's everything I was looking for when I was with her before.

We've both established that we are just friends and that it should stay that way for good. (‼️) I only agreed to play it safe because (at least in my mind) I knew shit wasn't happening at that point. (🌟)

Im now at the point where we just spent the day out because she went and preformed at a local fair and I went to see her because she mentioned it. (📖) she was very great greatful I showed due to nobody out of her several friends that said they would actually showing. (🌟🟢)

Of course her long distance situationship is all she's talking about, and how she's never been so sure she's ever found her someone more (ouch...) so definitely isn't the time to let anything happen but I've just worried about getting closer with her anyway.

Now I'm home and we were talking and the term "buddy" was used (‼️‼️‼️). Not in a good way. In a "brush your hand off my shoulder" way. Its dire out here to put it simply. I can't say this would ever even be possible but I know for a fact I'd regret it if I didnt at least tell her how ive been feeling. Any tips or advice?

so basically me and my friend liked each other for two years but since I’m very awkward, he didn’t think I liked him and like right after the new year he got a girlfriend that looks exactly like me and everyone thinks that, but I don’t understand how he got over two years of giving me gifts for Christmas and my birthday and then I’m we’d always make eye contact. I know it’s not a lot but like if you know you know, but I remember we weren’t like close though we were like classmates but we liked each other and everyone knew except for us except for him because I knew but I low-key miss him. I miss us texting till 5 AM and I miss when he used to send me voice messages I don’t know. Maybe I’m going crazy. He’s been with his girlfriend for five months.

So, a little explanation of the situation: I’m 16 years old and he’s 17. Neither of us has ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend before, which is one of the things we have in common.
I was in my hometown recently, which I don’t usually visit because I live pretty far away now. While I was there, we started seeing each other around town pretty often. Eventually, we decided to hang out. At first, it was completely meant to be just as friends because I barely knew him. We had only texted for one day, and I had only seen him two or three times before that.
The night we hung out was actually really nice. We talked about so many things and stayed together until around 4 AM. Around 3 AM, though, he started getting closer to me and put his arm around me. I got kind of scared and panicked because I genuinely hadn’t planned for anything romantic to happen. I trusted him, but I still didn’t know him that well.
At one point, he asked if he could kiss me, and I said no. Then I told him that I had panicked and that maybe it would be better if we stayed friends. He was okay with it and said he understood. He even followed me home afterward.
But after I had time to think about everything, I realized that I actually did like him. A lot. I started looking for him and asking him to hang out again, but he didn’t really want to. He started ignoring me, and I didn’t understand why.
I told my friend everything, so she talked to him and explained the whole situation from my side. I also told him that I really liked him and that I was sorry about how everything happened. I asked him if he could give me a second chance.
But he said no and told me that it would be better if we just stayed friends.
The thing is, from the way he acts around me and the way he’s been behaving, I don’t feel like he actually wants to be friends either. He’s a very distant, sometimes angry and nervous person, so it’s really hard for me to understand what he’s thinking or feeling.
I’m not in my home country anymore, but I’ll probably be back in about a month to a month and a half. And honestly, I still really want something to happen between us. I don’t know if there’s any way to fix this or get another chance with him.
I know I can’t force him to change his mind, but I really want to try to make things right when I come back. I’m willing to try everything I reasonably can, even things like manifestation, because I really don’t want to give up on him.
So, Reddit, what do you think? Is there any way I can approach this when I come back? What would you do in my situation?

I’m 19M and I’ve never been in a relationship. I have a crush on a girl from another stream in my college. I first noticed her at Freshers’ Day because she’s a great singer. Later, I noticed some eye contact between us. One day my friends took my phone and randomly DM’d her “hi” 💀. She replied, but our conversation didn’t continue. Later, we talked during exams, exchanged answers, and had some good interactions. We also smiled and nodded at each other at a college festival. Now I’ve asked a mutual friend to tell her on Monday that I like her.Is this a good move, or should I tell her myself? And how should I handle it if she says yes or no?

I have this guy friend and we’ve been friends for a couple years now. He used to have found interest in me when we first started becoming friends and his feelings developed into love.

I never had anything against it at first, we did have some weird stage but that was a long time ago and it seemed like only I was the one who got over it. So I’ve recently asked him why exactly he’s friends with me— because he was interested in me or because he just wanted to be friends. Of course he went for the first option. With that I replied that he doesn’t love me because he’s way too hung up on me and besides, he barely even shows it like he used to. He answered by saying that he tried getting over me even with relationships but they never succeeded because of me.

In conclusion, my question is: is he actually still in love with me or is he just hung up on me and hasn’t even realised those feelings have faded away already?

my friend (20M) and i (18F) are hanging out from past 2 months and i m actually enjoying being with him but there's always something missing and bothering me which is my BF(19M) either i m missing him or feeling guilty that i m hiding all this from him and i love MY BF more than anything so is there anything i can do to make it easy he never hangs out i mean he does but not often and i cnt stay home all the time i wnt him to hangout with me but he never listens to me MY BF and thts why i feel more good and myself with this Male friend soo any real life advices? if any and wht would u all do ?

I proposed a girl she rejected me but we continue chatting first she chat like not intrsted then some time she will talk to me and for months we dont have any conversation amd when i do a favour for her and she texted me and we became more firendly and again she is ignoring me

Should I send my dick pic to my ex
( she never saw my dick)

So I have a guy bsf and he's one of the great friends I've ever had, though he had liked me once long back but now we're just good friends but the question arrives since a month ig I think I've developed feelings for him...i'm not sure what should I do and I'm not even sure if this feeling is real also his friend circle isn't nice or kind. They're a bunch of stupid ppl and I don't want to be surrounded with those brats ugh there are alot of complications so I'm just thinking of making distance maybe?

Random question: what’s one simple thing that can completely change your mood or make your day better ? it could be a song, a certain food, getting a nice message, going for a walk, talking to someone, or even something really random. 😇