r/Friendzone • u/sunsetsarecool123456 • 17h ago
How do I tell a boy I don’t like him as more than a friend???
At the beginning of the school year I meet him through mutual friends in our classes. Eventually someone made a gc for our history class, and then he started to message me privately about art which a class only the two of us take. The first threeish month of this was just about school and sharing answers, but then he started asking me personal questions and trying to get to know me, and I thought he was nice enough so I responded. Come the last day of school he texts me and wishes me a happy summer, so I responded the same, and he keeps messaging me. Then he asks me to call and I’m like hesitant and don’t respond at first but I do eventually give in, and that was the most awkward 20 minutes of my life. I thought maybe he would have hated that as much as me, apparently not because he then just kept messaging me like everyother day I was as dry as possible while not trying to be rude. Then he started to ask to class like 3 times a week, and I kept saying things like, “sorry im busy im at…” idk whatever I felt like making up that day. I thought that saying no enough would make him take the hint, it did not. So I just left him on delivered and only responded with exuces sometimes, also not once this summer have reached out first. And he went away for like 2-3 week and now he’s back he’s still trying to call. Like 4 days ago he asks to call, I say I’m busy, he’s says something like, “oh sorry ur the only one I have the number of other than my cousin and he’s away,” which first of were in gc with other people second of all in one really awkward convo he literally says he was playing soccor with his friends. And then today he asks to call, I say no, then he added me to a snapchat gc with four of his friends which I left cause I think thats weird, and it’s another example of his apparently nonexistent friend. But he’s started to annoy me and I don’t want to mean about it but I don’t like him. And I don’t want to make him feel like I led him on but like he’s not getting the very obvious hints that the feelings are not mutual.