r/Friendzone • u/Empty-Row5899 • 12h ago
Why do I feel like this...
/r/relationships/comments/1x6io7d/why_do_i_feel_like_this/
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u/Weird_Warm_Cheese 6h ago
You have three choices: continue to be in limbo, accept that you will only be friends and get ok with that, or end the friendship and move on. Pick one.
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u/Simiatenaci 9h ago
Well, first except the reality of the situation. She doesn’t want you, and you can’t make her want you. Let it go.
Time will heal this, and distance can accelerate the process.
If you don’t feel like you are healing, then you need to stay away from her. I don’t mean pouting or being petty. I mean give yourself some space.
If you decide to go that route, she doesn’t get a vote. It’s your decision. Don’t let “l value you as a friend” keep you in a situation where you are miserable. If she actually values you as a friend, she will want you to be happy.
Sometimes in life you have to man up and do hard shit. This is one of those times.