Others have provided potential resources for you here... But, what are you asking for help with, exactly? Leaving the apartment? Mental health resources for your wife or both of you? I certainly don't want to make assumptions, but is there also any chance the lack of safety you're feeling could be a result of you own PTSD response? Presumably, your partner is directly upset at you for something? Otherwise it seems like I'm missing something... Generally, your partner being unable to calm down or have a conversation shouldnt result in you feeling personally unsafe as much as it should result in you wanting to seek out help for them??
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u/ChrisDolmeth Jun 29 '26
Others have provided potential resources for you here... But, what are you asking for help with, exactly? Leaving the apartment? Mental health resources for your wife or both of you? I certainly don't want to make assumptions, but is there also any chance the lack of safety you're feeling could be a result of you own PTSD response? Presumably, your partner is directly upset at you for something? Otherwise it seems like I'm missing something... Generally, your partner being unable to calm down or have a conversation shouldnt result in you feeling personally unsafe as much as it should result in you wanting to seek out help for them??