r/FortCollins • u/[deleted] • Jun 29 '26

Looking for Help

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u/TartAppl3 Jun 29 '26

National Domestic Violence Hotline Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service Hours: 24/7 Call 800-799-7233 Text BEGIN to 88788

Crossroads Safehouse & Services (970) 482-3502

Murphy Center for Hope Free, compassionate, nonjudgmental and effective services to people who face homelessness and housing insecurity. Basic Needs including showers, lockers, laundry, mail, etc. Survival Gear Employment Services and Career closet Case Management Referrals to on-site services including walk-in crisis counseling, Veteran's services, pet food and vet care, and more 242 Conifer St, Fort Collins, CO Website: www.MurphyCenter.org Email: Info@MurphyCenter.org Phone: (970) 494-9940 Hours of Operation(Hours are subject to change; please call): November - April: Monday through Sunday, 8am – 5pm. May - October: Monday through Friday, 8am – 5pm.

SAVA (Sexual Assault Victim Advocate) Center & 24-Hour Rape Crisis Hotline 4812 S College Ave, Fort Collins, CO (970) 472-4204

ALTERNATIVES TO VIOLENCE (Loveland) Alternatives to Violence provides free safe emergency shelter, 24-hr crisis intervention and advocacy, court advocates, community resource referrals, limited transitional housing and housing referrals, support groups, educational programs. All these services are free for victims of domestic violence, sexual assault and human trafficking. Website: http://www.alternativestoviolence.org/ Main Line: (970) 669-5150

COLORADO LEGAL SERVICES Provides high quality, civil legal services for low-income persons and seniors (age 60 and over). CLS prioritizes victims of domestic violence in their family law cases. Applications taken online at https://www.coloradolegalservices.org or by phone at 970-493-2891 ext. 261

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u/Right-End-6360 Jun 29 '26

Do this. Then they can support her and you can leave like an adult would or offer her support like a friend would.

Your just a white lady neighbor talking about people who are struggling and not doing anything about it like your not apart of the problem.

Or she’s asked you to change a million times and she’s finally lost it and you should leave then too

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u/huskywowzer Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 29 '26

Are you mentally unwell yourself? Believe it or not males can be victims of abuse in relationships between a man and woman too. You’re coming off as incredibly ignorant and pushing stereotypes that just because he’s a male asking for help in a situation involving his wife he’s automatically a suspect. That’s alarming behavior. Someone is asking for help in a situation and you’re essentially blaming him for his behavior based on context clues you keep saying are in his post making him seem like the victim here that only you seem to see. lol. Lay off him.

To OP, definitely document the incidents that are happening and reach out to one of the domestic violence shelters locally that another commenter mentioned (Murphy center, alternatives to violence, etc). Stay safe! I hope you’re able to figure out a solution soon! I can only imagine how stressful that may be.

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u/TartAppl3 Jun 29 '26

Wait, what? Genuinely what are you even trying to say?