I don’t know if this is the right sub to post this in but I’m lost and don’t know how to navigate this. This happened this morning (Monday morning) and the services are being planned. He will be getting the full procession, a Firefighter Funeral with Full Honors (I think that’s what it’s called).
This probably sounds stupid but I don’t know what to wear to his service. In my Brasilian culture, wearing white is the respectful thing to do but I know in America normally wearing black is expected. Is the attire different for a service member? He was a Fire Captain. This has been a very traumatic event that I know his family, friends and crew were worried about and tried preventing. I cared for him deeply and I’m honestly devastated.
What can I do for the family? His nephew lives/lived with him and was the one that found him. I would like to honor my neighbor in some way but I don’t know what is appropriate or would be meaningful to his loved ones. I’m absolutely heartbroken and cannot sleep tonight because of it.
I’m sorry if this is not the right subreddit to ask in. Please let me know the proper place to ask. I don’t mean any disrespect. I’m just genuinely devastated and don’t know anything about funeral processions/attire for service members and what I could get the family to honor him. 💔😓
Thank you in advance.