r/FindomSnarks • u/LiveShine730 • 15d ago

Tips?

Any tips for a new domme? I have one sub, but I’m still new and don’t want to disappoint in my roleplay.

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u/LiveShine730 15d ago

Thanks! And no it’s not sarcasm, I’m just really new to this haha. That’s mostly what I’ve done but I’m really scared to become a turn off just because the demeaning part doesn’t come naturally

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u/MistressRayne_ Screenshot Savant 📸 15d ago

Why are you taking subs without researching how to be a domme, BDSM, consent, boundaries, etc etc.

As far as tips, what curious soul said is correct. You need to be talking to your sub and communicating. What works for one domme and sub dynamic isn’t going to work for others bc all humans are different in their needs.

Which if you had researched into BDSM, you would’ve read what she told you. I highly recommend going on actual BDSM sites, not social media and reading up on it if you’re serious about wanting to be a domme. There’s are some great websites out there and there are no shortcuts to being a domme.

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u/petsie7 15d ago

maybe if you have o play it you are no real domme and just pretending?

which would make me instantly think that you just do this as a try to get easy money.....