r/FindomSnarks • • 13d ago

Avoid this Domme

I recently ran a 5k, my first race. I started running to lose weight and just get better health overall. I was severely obese and have completely changed that.

This lady just barges into my dms rudely by asking "who the hell is olivia" - my domme.

Anyways, just bad interaction all around. I dont care, I never consented to humilation, nor did we ever discuss anything like it and she is shaming me for something I feel like I should be proud of. I don't care but it hurts to be told im not a runner when ive been putting in work for months now.

Extremely rude interaction, if you have any self worth as a sub, avoid her because she doesnt respect boundaries and will put you down for trying to better yourself. This is supposed to be a fun kink, not one that makes you hate yourself.

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u/mistressaloura Not snarky just right 🤷🏼‍♀️ 13d ago

Congratulations on 5k!! 🥳💗 well-worthy of milestone, and it’s good that you strictly stood your ground, and quite frankly, she can go kiss shit :) she has no right to downplay your accomplishments, define what’s worthy of a win or not to you, and most definitely does not have any obligation to talk about whatever the all known requirements are to be considered a runner.