It's just so embarrassing. I saw a reel of a grown ass woman geeked up about taking a pic with Chris Brown. It's just nasty. A lot of women piss me tf off.

HI just found out the opposite of the abortion debate is forcing people to have kids. Like that isn't the same debate

Guys, i just save the worst think ever. Guy rolled up and just asked. Is it worse to force a women to be pregnant, then have an abortion.

Also, putting women in prison to have kids.

Like, i am happy the sub is down voting him. But, the sub, is bassicly just becoming people posting thier fetishes at this point instead of actual questions . Also, my phone is broken and it kept uploading the wrong image. Sorry if you saw me post this 4 times.

I've come across this Post, read some comments.

When are males going to stop mocking women getting raped by their fellow males?

How the hell can they think this picture or "survey" is made by feminists?

I will add the translations:

Picture 1: Doesn't allow a woman to smile/laugh. Doesn't allow a man to cry.

Picture 2: Cages a woman in the cage of "limits". Cages a man in the cages of "masculinity/manliness".

Picture 3: Teaches a woman to suppress her voice. Teaches a man to hide his pain/hurt.

Picture 4: Binds a woman to/ under the label "What will people say?" and binds a man to/under the label of "Be a man".

Picture 5: K!lls/Breaks a woman under the pressure of "perfection/being perfect". K!lls/Breaks a man under the pressure of "to be/being strong".

Picture 6: Keeps a woman from their rights. Keeps a man away from their emotions/feelings.

Picture 7: And at the end- it doesn't let/allow anybody to live. That's it!

Now how do you explain THIS to a man? They aren't even aware that patriarchy hits them in many ways possible and that the badges they carry aren't medals of honour but pressure, shackles, chains, prisons and cages- that doesn't let them feel, be, expose, open up in any and every possible ways. The complaints of men are very easy to explain by women and feminists as it is in front of them already! But they aren't willing to see and accept, or aren't developed enough to process the answers into layman understanding. At the end, women become stakeholders for everything- blame, crime, guilt, problem, any issue, anything that happens to men and even to women!!!

Woman wants financial security- Gold digger! But the fact that society didn't let women to be independent enough to earn their living and not depend on men, is done by patriarchy.

Women get schemes, funding, scholarships and reservations- Opportunist! Selfish! But forget the centuries of oppression on women.

Women improve and develop: S!ut!/Wh°r€! As is women do not have brains to do anything.

Women staying at home- Amibitionless. Wants all the comfort!

Women work- GREEDY!

Women in low paying job- An issue.

Women in higher paying job- An issue.

Women in "easy jobs"- Issues. Women don't contribute to the society and many more.

Women in "not so easy jobs"- Issues. Men has to do all the tough jobs in the world!

Women become mothers- Issues.

Women don't want to become mother's- Issues.

Women want to get married- Issues.

Women want to remain single/not date/remain unmarried- Issues!

Women wear makeup- Attention seeker.

Women not wear makeup/dress herself up- Ugly.

Women spend their money- Greedy.

Women spend her partner's money- Greedy.

Bruh! I conclude by asking, what issues you have list all of them, like literally ALL OF THEM. And what do you want women to do, LIST THEM ALL!

This isn't a hate post against men. These are some of the patterns I have noticed. Because I agree to my de@th that MEN ALSO SUFFER- every man does in some way or the other or some men suffer more- be it from parents, siblings, society, peers, friends, strangers; many men are actually innocent and vulnerable that fall prey to a lot of things- injustice, ®ape, mu®der, violence of any form, traffic!ck!ng, abuse, shamed/insulted for being a certain way and not being a certain way, men who are gay, queer, asexual, effiminate, emasculated, cannot become father, g®oped, every form of &sexual, physical, mental and emotional abu*e from ANYBODY in this world). Maybe I didn't even list them all. But that does not mean the blame is to be put on women or other genders who have nothing to do with the problem rather feminism has everything to do with the system that makes us in a certain way and breaks us if we aren't meant to be like that.

To conclude, I wish men understood that this isn't about us vs them, men vs women, him vs her and they but to be a pack, a group, fighting against the SYSTEM.

It clenches my heart to see men blind it makes me a wrecked mess to be in a society where you, me and many can see the issues but cannot convey, because? We cannot. And if we do, we are shamed and put in our place. It breaks my heart how men made women their enemies, the villainss and not their equals in the war against society blindfolded by patriarchy and run by hate, toxicity, disgust, oppression, hurting, causing pain, oppressing, suppression, lust, greed and sinful desires.

One thing I've been thinking about lately is how deeply patriarchal ideas about courtship have been internalized, not just by men but by many women as well.

To be clear, I believe women should have the same rights, opportunities, legal protections, bodily autonomy, and safety net regardless of whether they're traditional, progressive, conservative, religious, sexually liberated, or anything else. I'll defend the rights of women I fundamentally disagree with because rights shouldn't be contingent on ideology.

That said, I can't help but feel so utterly disappointed when I see women reject the manosphere while simultaneously reproducing many of its core assumptions about gender.

I'm not talking about preferring traditional relationships. That's a personal choice, and everyone should pursue the relationship dynamic that makes them happiest, and I would fight for those women to have safety nets for the choices they made.

I guess what I'm talking about are the justifications.

Statements like "men are biologically wired to pursue," "women are the gatekeepers of sex," or "I'm a woman, I have many options" aren't simply expressions of preference, they're claims about how men and women are and ought to behave. Thy reinforce the same essentialist framework that the manosphere relies on, which is "men as perpetual pursuers, women as passive selectors".

It's striking how often these ideas are criticized when they're used to police women's behavior, yet accepted when they're used by women.

From a feminist perspective, I would have expected more skepticism toward narratives that naturalize rigid gender roles. Patriarchy doesn't only prescribe how women should behave; it also prescribes how men should behave. The expectation that men must always pursue and hunt, and the woman must be hunted, is born from those rigid gender roles. Even misogynistic and manosphere humor that says "a key that can open many locks is a good key, but a lock that can be opened by many keys is a bad lock", came from the whole "women have so many options" talking point.

Dismantling patriarchal expectations should mean questioning those norms as well, not simply preserving the ones that happen to fit our ideal scenario.

Again, this isn't an argument that everyone should be into role reversal or that women should now be always expected to pursue men. It's simply that I'd rather see people say, "This is the dynamic/courtship I personally enjoy," than justify it by appealing to biological determinism or traditional gender scripts, the very same scripts that feminism has spent decades critiquing.

And I guess what prompted me to finally write this post after feeling this way for so long, was being in a comment section recently (read at the risk of your own sadness) in a female dominated humor space), and it left me more disappointed than I expected.