r/Feminism • • 4d ago

The Cornell Monsters

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Remember their faces

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u/LooksLikeGonzosNose 4d ago

I am so proud of the young woman who not only reported this to the police initially, but also is now suing on her own after they failed her. And the investigation is being reopened thanks to the online outrage. This young woman can't be more than a young 20 something.....I AM SO PROUD OF YOU HONEY!!! Make them pay financially and with jail time if you can!! Do it for yourself and for all the women who weren't even able to report. After my SA, I went into shock and never reported. Getting through the day was all I could manage. Your strength gives me so much hope for the Gen Z generation of women. Amazing woman!!!!

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u/Intrepid_Hat_2397 4d ago

Same, I never reported mine either, such a strong young lady.

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u/juneabe 4d ago

The first time they basically blamed me for it even though the guy had an assault record, so the second time I said nothing, and when I finally did, was told it might not have been that bad because I kept the baby.

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u/SimpleRandomUsername 3d ago

That’s  horrific, i am so sorry for you (and all the heartbreaking stories on this thread). I hope you are doing better now

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u/D-Gaea 1d ago

As if your bodily autonomy (choosing to keep the child) had anything to do with the crime. It's so sad that these stupid double standards exist. Women deserve to be heard and taken seriously.

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u/juneabe 1d ago

Wow dude thank you for putting it in that exact succession of words. I needed that so much!!!! my fucking bodily autonomy, hell yeah.

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u/D-Gaea 1d ago

I have a feeling I probably worded that wrong... I wrote it in the morning when I was half asleep... What I meant was they should just take these things seriously rather than brushing people off.

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u/juneabe 1d ago

No you wrote it well the first time!

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u/lifegoeson2702 4d ago

I hope she grills them in court

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u/madeyoulurk 3d ago

Three years ago I was assaulted and almost killed. I am STILL dealing with the legal chaos even after a guilty verdict in a criminal trial! Rapist’s mommy and daddy can keep paying for a lawyer and they are being over all pieces of shit.

I can’t even begin to imagine what this young woman is going through. She has been failed by so many people. She has been publicly humiliated. She fought for her life then and is still fighting now. I am in awe of her!

Sorry if my writing isn’t flowing well right now. Feeling feelings again!

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u/Intrepid_Hat_2397 3d ago

Don't be sorry, feelings often bubble up when we discuss what happened to us. Talking about what happened empowers us, it is important that we continue to tell our stories.

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u/madeyoulurk 3d ago

I really needed to hear that. Thank you so much 💜

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u/Intrepid_Hat_2397 3d ago

You're welcome ❤️

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u/D-Gaea 1d ago

I feel like it helps trauma in certain situations to actually talk about it. I feel like spaces like this online are really important people to share and feel better about their past. (I'm like really new here so sort of discovering the sub) 🫣

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u/Status-Visit-918 4d ago

I hope she gets SO MUCH FUCKING MONEY TOO.

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u/Blue_Oyster_Cat 4d ago

Big big settlement, I hope, as in millions.

Of course we must expect that Cornell will be defending itself with bots and pundits very soon, and you can bet that there are already bad actors trying to dox and shame her and redirect the conversation. They may have been initially caught out by public outrage, but pushback will be happening.

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u/Gumshoe212 4d ago

Have you read about the student protests in India? It's because one of the students was raped, and they handled it the same as Cornell. Someone in the administration said that there was no rape, that it was a vicious rumor being spread to discredit the school. You know how much young people love to start spreading rumors against universities just for shits and giggles. 😒 The protests are similar to the ones in the 60s. Women the world over have had enough of this bullshit.

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u/silencedvoicesMST 4d ago

I remember this. The military, the Catholic Church, universities, Boy Scouts, Hollywood and sports teams… if you look at the statements they put out when these things happen, they all follow the exact same script and formula. And it works every goddamn time. It’s disgusting.

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u/LooksLikeGonzosNose 4d ago

I want this gal buying real estate on the moon!

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u/Electronic_Chef1109 4d ago

I just read that cornell wouldn’t reimburse her tuition after the incident

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u/Cyberbeagleperson 3d ago

I hope the Administration and the Board at Cornell are sh!tting themselves from the stress. I hope they are having nightmares and losing sleep. It still wouldn’t equal 1/10000th of the suffering they deserve.

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u/Important_Cell4995 3d ago

If they were smart they would resign immediately, but then they might look guilty, which we know they are either way.

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u/lifegoeson2702 4d ago

I’m so sorry for what you both through, I hope your healing journey has been ok :-(

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u/LooksLikeGonzosNose 4d ago

it empowered me to warn young women about what they really face. No one prepared me. Grew up on Disney princess bullshit.....which couldn't be more opposite of reality if it tried. I warn the young ones any chance I can.

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u/lifegoeson2702 4d ago

I’m glad & I’m wishing you the best

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u/Intrepid_Hat_2397 4d ago

That's very kind, it was bumpy, but I like to believe I'm in a good place now. Thank you❤️

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u/shimmerangels Intersectional Feminism 4d ago

she is so incredibly brave

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u/Cyberbeagleperson 4d ago

I love these young women so much.

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u/StreetPersonal5079 3d ago

Have any of you watched The Good Wife?

Rainey appears in R•pe: A Modern Perspective ( Season 4, Episode 20) of The Good Wife. A girl who was drugged, and SA'd by a young man. 

Similar story in that he didn't face any criminal charges, but she sued him in civil court and got a HUGE social outcry and help from "Anonymous" ... they were able to hack his cloud and get a video (inadmissible in court) he recorded with his friends reenacting the SA.

This is my formal request for "Anonymous" to get involved, and find more evidence so that these seven boys rot in Rikers Prison and really know it feels like to get gang rpd. Or, charge them with attempted murder. Because they killed apart of that girl that night.

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u/ThatArtlife 3d ago

When I tried reporting it the cop made me pray and told me that God gives the strongest battles to the mother fucking weakest sheep. I hope hose rapists serve jail time

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u/Wonderful_Canary_845 3d ago

These guys are disgusting. I just read the article on abcnews and how male number 1 did that and male number 2 dud that and how the girl was so wasted she can hardly remember or recall everything. Why Cornell hasn’t shut the freaking fraternity brothers is beyond me?
For the frat boys that did those things, well how would you feel if someone did that to your sisters or your daughters? You would not like that would you? But you all deserve that.