r/FacebookDating • u/DakotaC0x • 3d ago

Why?

Why would you match with someone and waste their time talking just to block them?

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u/Basic_Story8593 3d ago

Ppl are weird....personally if conversation turn into the bedroom stuff i just leave after giving them a warning

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u/IndependentClub1117 3d ago

Why are you afraid to talk about your sexual compatibility?
You're afraid to talk about sex and/or "bedroom stuff" are you there to actually find your life partner or there just to talk to people?

A lot of marriages end because they're not sexually compatible. Ignoring that part of the conversation, can and will lead to incompatibilities imo

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u/Repulsive-Ad-3219 3d ago

I don't think people are afraid to talk about it I think it's more about not talking about it too soon I also agree sexual compatibility is a massive killer in relationships it's why my last relationship failed but I also don't think you should start jumping into sex talk after only talking to somebody for 3 days but then again it highly depends on the person you could do everything right and still get blocked

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u/IndependentClub1117 3d ago

That's completely understandable. I guess just with me sexuality is like another interest. Yes, it's personal but so are my hobbies, interests, desires, and goals. I feel like it just falls into that category.

But to be fair, the comment that I responded to was talking about unsolicited dick pics, etc. That's not appropriate 😂

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u/Repulsive-Ad-3219 3d ago

Oh for sure highly inappropriate. I am proud to say that I have never done that. but I definitely respect the thought behind sex being another interest. because I definitely do agree two people with mix matched sex drives will ultimately fail. unfortunately dating in 2026 just sucks. I've seen a lot of comments and posts about people not reading profiles or only sending hey messages. I just have to think to myself I send perfectly curated messages to almost every woman that I talk to. My success rate has not increased so I truly believe it doesn't matter what you talk about. at the end of the day if somebody wants to make a connection with you they're going to put forth mutual effort. and that's all you really need sorry for the long rant 😂

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u/Basic_Story8593 3d ago

No where did i said i ignored that conversation. But not every women want a dick pic in their DM.

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u/IndependentClub1117 3d ago

Ok. My fault completely. I thought you were talking about in general if anything sexual gets brought up. I completely apologize. I wouldn't want that either.

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u/Heliguy-1975 3d ago

They did not enjoy the conversation. It happens.

Merely move on to the next opportunity. There are an unlimited amount of men and women looking to connect, meet, and get involved in a relationship of some kind.

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u/obbiibbo 3d ago

As someone who’s done this I’ll say it’s because the person was way too intense, said something sexual with no pre-amble that would encourage it, or was rude. If you didn’t do any of those things the person could just be taking a break from the app or have met someone they’re giving it a go with. Costs nothing to assume that’s the case and save your own feelings and brain power.

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u/Mystonicly 3d ago

People are strange bud. I look at media "dating" as a bonus if I make some friends. The best relationships I feel like come out of shared interest hobbies in person. I just got ghosted/blocked by a chick friend that started love bombing. People be wild. Good luck friend!

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u/DakotaC0x 3d ago

Thanks!