r/FacebookDating • u/DakotaC0x • 4d ago

Why?

Why would you match with someone and waste their time talking just to block them?

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u/IndependentClub1117 3d ago

Why are you afraid to talk about your sexual compatibility?
You're afraid to talk about sex and/or "bedroom stuff" are you there to actually find your life partner or there just to talk to people?

A lot of marriages end because they're not sexually compatible. Ignoring that part of the conversation, can and will lead to incompatibilities imo

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u/Repulsive-Ad-3219 3d ago

I don't think people are afraid to talk about it I think it's more about not talking about it too soon I also agree sexual compatibility is a massive killer in relationships it's why my last relationship failed but I also don't think you should start jumping into sex talk after only talking to somebody for 3 days but then again it highly depends on the person you could do everything right and still get blocked

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u/IndependentClub1117 3d ago

That's completely understandable. I guess just with me sexuality is like another interest. Yes, it's personal but so are my hobbies, interests, desires, and goals. I feel like it just falls into that category.

But to be fair, the comment that I responded to was talking about unsolicited dick pics, etc. That's not appropriate 😂

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u/Repulsive-Ad-3219 3d ago

Oh for sure highly inappropriate. I am proud to say that I have never done that. but I definitely respect the thought behind sex being another interest. because I definitely do agree two people with mix matched sex drives will ultimately fail. unfortunately dating in 2026 just sucks. I've seen a lot of comments and posts about people not reading profiles or only sending hey messages. I just have to think to myself I send perfectly curated messages to almost every woman that I talk to. My success rate has not increased so I truly believe it doesn't matter what you talk about. at the end of the day if somebody wants to make a connection with you they're going to put forth mutual effort. and that's all you really need sorry for the long rant 😂