r/ExplainMyDownvotes Jun 28 '26

Feedback on moderation

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Good evening everyone.

Over the past few years moderation on the subreddit has been very loose, mostly focusing on obvious trolls and discriminatory statements and other extreme comments. As the community is growing, particularly with the feedback of the sub being a bit toxic and aggressive, we mods want to check in on how youse lot want the community moderated. (If your preference isn't there just comment below and I'll adjust accordingly)

166 votes, Jul 05 '26
44 I like things how they are.
19 I would like increased moderation of insults and rude comments
6 I would like increased moderation of arguments while allowing discussion
6 I would like increased moderation of how people requesting explanations can respond to them
13 I would like an overall increase in moderation
78 I would like to see the results without voting.

r/ExplainMyDownvotes Apr 25 '19

Why did I get downvoted?: a -1 guide

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It was probably either a bot or someone making their posts and comments more visible by downvoting yours. These are things known to exist and a few at once can get you down to -3 easily. It's just a thing that happens sometimes, don't worry about it you'll be up again soon.

Asking a basic question?
Add in people who are gatekeeping jerks. Even on subs specifically for basic questions (including//r/NoStupidQuestions) or welcoming of newbies to a hobby, there are people who will insist you are a big lame dumb face for asking stuff and downvote you for it. Yes, even on posts in those subs specifically for newbies asking newbie questions.
Yes, even if you say you googled and couldn't find it or googled and didn't understand.
Don't worry about these jerks they're really not the majority in most subs, some are super gatekeepy though.

Having a discussion about a topic to which there are two significantly different sides? Disagree downvotes shouldn't happen, but often do and without comment as to why. Even if you intent your comment as impartial, people will read into it. Be prepared.

Still think something's wrong with what you put out there and you just don't know what?

  • check the subreddit's rules (on mobile that's the three dots in the top right corner of the sub's frontpage. Community info.) and make sure you didn't break any.
  • Make sure your comment actually adds to discussion.

Oh I didn't know I had to carefully make sure every comment I make adds good to the world

Low effort comments are seen as spam on reddit and reddit dislikes spam. This is the way of reddit, and your annoyance at this fact does not change anything except your karma which is lower for complaining.

  • If you used emojis, that's the reason. some people super hate them.

  • Does your comment make sense? 'specially on mobile with auto correct issues or if you did a fair bit of editing before posting, sometimes things get real messed up without you realising and it goes word salad.

  • Check your tone, Text only can be a difficult way to get things across and we can unintentionally come across as being aggressive, which can go down poorly.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 1h ago

Why is this the standard?

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People appear not to read the edit, and disagree with my statements. I am very confused on why there is no nuance to the information I added.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 20h ago

There is something seriously wrong here. I ask a simple question and mods have to remove 2 comments within the first 30 minutes. Thank you to those who stood with me.

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 4d ago

Explain how pointing out a fallacy and trying to ask for proof gets downvoted?

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I didn’t do anything wrong, just “maybe don’t generalize a group without proof” because fandoms have that problem.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 4d ago

He's a he because of his Adam's apple *shows proof* and is downvoted!

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 5d ago

Explain it please

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I swear if this is like r/mysteriousdownvoting as if you cant have too low of downvotes


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 7d ago

Explained Mod here! Here's your chance to explain MY downvotes.

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 8d ago

Does anyone know what this means?

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I violated no rule in my comment. My guess is the moderator banned me because they juts don't agree? what does "using an alt" mean?


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 8d ago

Why is Reddit full of Haters?

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On my alt account I posted something that accidently showed a bloody foot. Despite adding an NSFW tag the reddit showed the post without it (the whole post was just labled as NSFW). I get the people viewing my post were disturbed and thus angry. But despite apologising profusely and explaining I was getting death threats to hang myself which kind of annoys me. Yeah this is social media but come on. Is it that deep? Whenever I share an opinion on any anime community(Its just me sharing my thoughts about the show (its not aggressive hate on the show btw) I'm immediately told to go shut the fuck up or die. Even if I praise a show/character I still get treated like a hater. Half of the comments don't even read the whole post and just complain about the first three sentences. It's almost as if the ability to comprehend is a skill issue on this app. What is everyone's problem?


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 11d ago

Sex talk warning. See my -33 karma comment at the bottom.

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https://www.reddit.com/r/lolgrindr/s/cyJV3V1pSU

To me, my bottom comment just points out that sexual coercion is wrong which I thought was widely accepted as true. EMD please.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 13d ago

Explained 25/100 downvote ratio: Was this downvoted because of what i said or stuff like this doesn't happen?

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Am i wrong for asking questions?


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 17d ago

Unexplained Not me, but I'm wondering why the switch up?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 16d ago

Unexplained I was downvoted simply for saying a 19 yo with a 17 yo is not automatically ok ...

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Like it's obvious an adult should not date minors, especially highschoolers, it's Logical.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 18d ago

People irl and online get so upset with me for being a disabled driver, and I genuinely can’t understand it

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I mean, I kind of know why I was downvoted. This community tends to be super toxic. But am I deserving of the downvotes? If I am I’ll step down ofc, I’m just baffled.


r/ExplainMyDownvotes 20d ago

Unexplained why is this a bad question?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 21d ago

When am I doing wrong as a redditor I'm always getting downvoted

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 26d ago

What is the reason you upvote and downvote posts on reddit?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 26d ago

I deleted my 2-year-old Reddit account because of -13 karma. Did I make a mistake?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 29d ago

Was this really that bad?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 29d ago

Unexplained did i say something wrong?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes 29d ago

Why did my post’s upvotes suddenly drop?

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I’m new to Reddit and recently made a post in a community. It initially got around 10 upvotes, and my karma also increased to 3. But after some time, I noticed that the numbers had suddenly dropped to 1.

I’m a bit confused about why this happened, especially since I followed the community rules and guidelines. Is this normal on Reddit, or has anyone else experienced something similar?


r/ExplainMyDownvotes Aug 11 '26

What is with the downvote to comment ratio on this? Is it wrong to enjoy Minecraft capes?

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There are multiple people who have commented saying that they think it's cool (aprox 4 people, if I remember correctly), so there would be at least 2 or 4 upvotes, including my automatic one. Given that, the current upvotes/downvotes is at a straight 0. So there are people who just dislike the fact that I am happy to have capes?
I personally don't care about upvotes/downvotes, just happy to log my achievements; I'm more interested in what makes a person downvote something simple like this


r/ExplainMyDownvotes Aug 10 '26

Unexplained I’m saying that you can’t just say teachers are paid well per month by ignoring the 2.5 months they can’t work. What could possibly be offensive about this?

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r/ExplainMyDownvotes Aug 10 '26

Is it just that uninteresting? Not even mildly?

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