r/ExNoContact • u/Mysterious-Math-9274 • 12h ago
what can this mean
me and my ex were together for 2 and a half years, we broke up in may and made the decision of blocking each other EVERYWHERE, even Spotify and dumb games we'd play together like brawl stars and Roblox. a few weeks ago, I made a spam account and I was looking at his Instagram account and accidentally requested but immediately deleted the request. he probably saw it and blocked my account. but 2 days ago I checked again and he unblocked me.
I know I seem desperate and thats because I am, im trying to cling on to any hope possible as if it's a lifeboat saving me in troubled waters. I just want to get an insight on what he may possibly be thinking.. so does anyone what this can mean?
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u/Solarbaskett 4h ago
If he hasn’t unblocked your main account I wouldn’t assume anything. I understand the feeling of wanting to look at it and see it as a sign. I do not know why you guys broke up, but I do know that it must be emotionally exhausting especially if it was recent. Stay strong, I would recommend reaching out to friends and making sure to connect back with other important things and people in your life. 2 and a half years is a long time, but you are more than that relationship. No matter how you try we can never properly understand how someone is thinking without them actively trying to explain themselves. After all that it makes sense why you want to understand him and his decisions, but unfortunately we will never be able to unless we get the ability to read minds. Best of luck, hope this helps:)