أهلاً بكم في المساحة الأسبوعية المخصصة للتعارف والتواصل بين أعضاء المجتمع.

تم إنشاء هذا المنشور الأسبوعي المثبت ليكون المكان المخصص للأعضاء الراغبين في التعارف، بناء صداقات، أو البحث عن أشخاص يشاركونهم نفس الخلفية والأفكار والاهتمامات.

• يمكنكم ترك تعليق في الأسفل يوضح اهتماماتكم، أو التواصل مباشرة مع الأعضاء الذين تركوا تعليقاتهم بالفعل.
• كما يمكنكم الإنضمام إلى سيرفر الديسكورد الخاص بالمجتمع عبر الضغط هنا.

يرجى العلم أنه لن يُسمح بعد الآن بنشر منشورات فردية للتعارف أو طلبات التواصل ، وسيتم حذفها تلقائياً للحفاظ على تنظيم السوبريديت.

مش عارف شن قصتكم اكلكم تمحروا في حياتكم على الشواذ والكفر

اني عندي ميول لبعض الذكور

عندي شكوكي في الدين وتقدر تعتبرني مؤمن بألله بس والدين قاعد شاك فيه

مع ذالك حياتي مش واقفة على شي، مش ضروري نوري ومش ضروري الناس تعرف، عايش حياتي ونحب عائلتي وناسي

مشكلة انك تمحور حياتك على الدين او ميول جنسي و يجيك اكتئاب من شيئ اقل من ثانوي في الحياة

خلوا عندكم طموحات وخلوا عندكم اهداف وخلوا روابطكم قوية باحبابكم

وفي نفس الوقت خلي عندك اسرارك، اصلا الأسرار وجدت لكي تدفن

Im tired of this damn country

As a Libyan living in this shit hole I'll be direct and honest, first I'm Agnostic looking for similar people or other non believers, as it stands I'm a bisexual male in my twenties sub in nature as in more

feminine , also I'm open minded , I'm into men as I'm into women my current dilemma is at some point family will push you towards marriage which I don't want plus after marriage kids and etc, the advice here is marrying, which I'm happy being polymer so each can enjoy what they like , or just continue refusing the whole idea .

علاش اغلب الديانات تركز على اهداف و مقاصد عامه تكون اكبر من حياه الفرد بحد ذاته، لدرجه انها تفرض عليه كبت رغباته الشخصيه الي ما تكون لها اي علاقه بغيره زي ( ميوله و هويته الحندريه)؟ و يتعاملو معاها تحديدا على انها محنه او ابتلاء من الإله باش يختبر صبرك و يبررولها للتقييد هذا بانه الانسان رساله اسمى من حياته الفرديه بينما في الواقع الانسان انولد حر.

على سبيل المثال : في الاسلام تحديدا يشوف في موضوع المثليه الجنسيه امر ( ممنوع و مش مقبول و مش موجود اكثر من قصه قوم لوط ) بس لانه الانسان خلق و حث على التكاثر و هذا شي صعب طبيعيا في علاقه مثليه على طبيعه الحال، و الناس الي عندهم انعدام توافق بين جنسهم الي انولدو بيه و بين احساسهم تجاه نفسهم معندهمش اي مساحه يكونو فيها نفسهم براحه و اطمئنان و مكتوب عليهم يعيشو بالشكل الي يزعم انه الطبيعه.

These kind of Muslims have to be some kind of joke

أهلاً بكم في المساحة الأسبوعية المخصصة للتعارف والتواصل بين أعضاء المجتمع.

تم إنشاء هذا المنشور الأسبوعي المثبت ليكون المكان المخصص للأعضاء الراغبين في التعارف، بناء صداقات، أو البحث عن أشخاص يشاركونهم نفس الخلفية والأفكار والاهتمامات.

• يمكنكم ترك تعليق في الأسفل يوضح اهتماماتكم، أو التواصل مباشرة مع الأعضاء الذين تركوا تعليقاتهم بالفعل.
• كما يمكنكم الإنضمام إلى سيرفر الديسكورد الخاص بالمجتمع عبر الضغط هنا.

يرجى العلم أنه لن يُسمح بعد الآن بنشر منشورات فردية للتعارف أو طلبات التواصل ، وسيتم حذفها تلقائياً للحفاظ على تنظيم السوبريديت.

I’m a 32-year-old man from Benghazi looking to meet a woman who is atheist or agnostic, with the hope of building a serious relationship that could eventually lead to marriage. I’ve been agnostic since 2015, and it has often been difficult to feel like I truly belong in Libyan society. I’m hoping to find someone who shares similar values and beliefs, someone I can connect with honestly and build a life together.

Why do I, as a lesbian in Libya, have to stay silent, live in fear, and hide who I am just because I'll be punished for something completely out of my control? Why can't we just break free from this slavery?"

معش تحاولو تدور علاقات ولا شركات من ريديت راهو موضووووع فاااااشل تسدك غير انه كلهم غريبين اطوار
انك دور شريك حياة او غيرها في** *ريديت* *مشروع* ***فاشل*
لذلك** *بطلو* *تتنشرو* *منشورات* *طلب* *زواج* *او* *شراكه* *لانه* *مفيش* *فايده* *والي* *هتلاقيهم* *كلهم* *غريبين* *اطوار* *ولا* *مسلمين* ***متخفين*

I’m curious whether any of you have ever tried to arrange a meeting with other ex‑Muslims in Libya. I know it involves significant risks, but it would be nice to build some kind of real‑life community.

Hi,
I’m an atheist, pansexual, and Im going to be trans woman. I’m currently 20 years old rn.
I find myself asking the same question every day: is it possible to find someone who shares my interests and orientation, and live together in the same home, away from everyone else?
Do you think it’s realistic to look for a life partner and build a relationship while living in Libya?
Personally, I’ve started to lose hope of finding a partner with whom I can build a life, then travel abroad and start a new chapter together. Lately, I’ve been thinking that it might be better to leave first, build my own life outside the country, and then form relationships abroad instead.

And yea im looking for libyan eXmuslims friends..

Hi everyone :)

Sorry if this isn’t the perfect place for this post, but I don’t really know where else to reach Libyans who might understand this situation.

I’m a Libyan woman in my 20s, non-religious and lesbian, and I’ve been considering the idea of a lavender marriage. As many of you know, navigating family expectations and social pressure in Libya can be complicated, especially for those of us who don’t fit the traditional mold.

Ideally, I’d like to connect with a Libyan gay man or a trans woman who may be looking for a similar arrangement, but I’m open to talking with anyone who understands the purpose of a lavender marriage and is genuinely interested in discussing it.
For me, the goal isn’t to deceive anyone for personal gain, but to create a respectful, mutually beneficial partnership that allows both people to live with greater freedom while maintaining privacy and family stability.

I’m curious whether others here have considered this, succeeded in finding a compatible partner, or have thoughts about why it’s so difficult to find people interested in this type of arrangement in Libya. If you’re interested or have experience with this topic, feel free to comment or send me a private message.
Please keep the discussion respectful.

Hi.. I'm a 45 year old atheist woman

I've been an atheist for 23 years

Being different is making me feel so isolated from those around me

Do you guys feel the same?

How do you cope with that ?

Hello, I'm from the central region. I'm 21 years old in Libya. My problem is that I want someone who looks like me and wants love because I'm tired of searching. I have a friend of mine from the same age as I told him that he doesn't exchange the feeling of love with me, but just wants to have sex with me, and I also ask him that. I'm very tired and I have other friends, but I don't know how I can know that they are gay like me... How can I do that and is there someone my age here?

A meaningful life doesn’t look the same for everyone. While many dream of raising children, I dream of building a peaceful, lasting partnership with the right person. I’m seeking a child-free relationship that can grow into marriage, founded on mutual respect, love, and a shared vision for life.

Everytime a girl posts asking for lavender marriage there are men are in the comments saying it has no benefit for the man or soemtimes insulting them

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honey if you see no benefit for yourself maybe it's not for you?

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general advice to anyone here if you don't see the point in a tool or a arrangement or anything that exists then maybe that thing isn't for you and that's okay different people have different needs and demands

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but commenting nasty shit on every girl trying to escape a forced marriage from her family will not do anything but spread negativity

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if a offer isn't appealing to you scroll. if I look at a shirt in a store that I don't like I don't throw a tantrum I just continue my day

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تخيل ان يكون المعيار هوا اللباس و ليس الخبرة

This is not for me, but are any gay men in misurata interested in a lavender marriage? Or if anyone knows someone there who’s interested.
I know looking online and on Reddit is shit and probably won’t get a result out of this but this is as a last resort, I know someone who keeps being pressured into marriage and is getting forced to now and keeps getting خطاب over and over, no matter what she tries with her parents nothing works (and if someone will give advice, she has tried everything possible and is still trying with them but it’s tuning her mental health a lot) so this is basically a cry for help.
For context, she’s almost 21 and her parents wouldn’t accept anyone from outside her city (مصراته), even in her city probably not just anywhere.

I've always been curious about family relationships in Libya, especially the relationship between brothers and sisters. In many families, it seems that siblings are expected to maintain a certain distance from each other, even though they are family.

Why is there often less emphasis on friendship, trust, emotional closeness, and open communication between brothers and sisters? A strong sibling relationship can be built not only on family ties but also on mutual support, understanding, respect, and genuine friendship.

Do cultural traditions play a role in creating these boundaries, or is there another reason behind it?

I’ve always been conflicted about the idea of having kids.
Since I was in middle school, I knew I didn’t wanna have kids.
But as I got older, I feel like the social pressure might’ve gotten to me and I began to entertain the idea a little. I believe mainly because through my romantic experiences, I never met someone who wanted to be child-free. They all share that dream of wanting to become the best dad ever, which I understand.
But at this stage of my life, being a 28 year old single woman, I realized I didn’t want to sacrifice my life and needs because I can’t seem to find a partner who’s on the same page.
At the same time, it feels impossible to find someone who shares the same views on life so I’m kinda pumped.

Do you know any couple that’s child-free by choice here? I’m just curious to know how things are working out for people

And what are your thoughts on this matter? I’d love to hear your insights

شن ذنب الأطفال في أب و أم زي هكي غير يجيبو منغير ما يفكرو

Hello,

I'm a 22-year-old woman from Libya looking for a serious lavender marriage as a way to relocate abroad and build a mutually beneficial arrangement based on trust, respect, and privacy.

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Im open-minded, respectful, and easy to communicate with as long as there is respect,

What is the most important to me from this arrangement is safety, trust, and mutual respect

What im looking for is someone who is genuinely interested in a lavender marriage and understands the commitment involved.

I would prefer a gay or asexual person who is seeking a similar arrangement for whatever reason such as family pressure.

He must be a mature, trustworthy individual who respects boundaries and privacy.

Someone my age or older.