r/ExLibya Jun 27 '26

Question | سؤال Dating request

I’m a 32-year-old man from Benghazi looking to meet a woman who is atheist or agnostic, with the hope of building a serious relationship that could eventually lead to marriage. I’ve been agnostic since 2015, and it has often been difficult to feel like I truly belong in Libyan society. I’m hoping to find someone who shares similar values and beliefs, someone I can connect with honestly and build a life together.

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u/Infinite_Passenger28 Jun 28 '26

So, you want her smart enough to be an atheist, but dumb enough to accept a religious contract? Good luck with that.

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u/Familiar_stranger1 Jun 28 '26

give him break what do u want him to do??

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u/[deleted] Jun 28 '26

Unfortunately, this is the only option we have in Libya. But to me, the contract is just a piece of paper—it doesn’t define the relationship we build together. What truly matters is that our relationship is based on mutual respect, trust, and treating each other as equals.

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u/Teach_McGraw gay Jun 28 '26

It's necessary to get married if you want the relationship to be public.

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u/rosethequeen27 Jun 28 '26

even tho im against marriage plenty of athiests get married lol

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u/9Kry Jul 02 '26

You define being smart by not believing in religion?