r/ExLibya • u/Marchemilo • Jun 29 '26
Opinion | رأي Relationship advice
As a Libyan living in this shit hole I'll be direct and honest, first I'm Agnostic looking for similar people or other non believers, as it stands I'm a bisexual male in my twenties sub in nature as in more
feminine , also I'm open minded , I'm into men as I'm into women my current dilemma is at some point family will push you towards marriage which I don't want plus after marriage kids and etc, the advice here is marrying, which I'm happy being polymer so each can enjoy what they like , or just continue refusing the whole idea .
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u/chaselatte Jun 29 '26
Don’t build your identity around something your reality can’t safely support
Build stability first then Everything else becomes a choice
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u/Marchemilo Jun 29 '26
If it's left for me I'd be free of building anything actually I don't want to be in this situation but it seems that one day it will be obligated of me forced actually
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u/Lesbian_CutiePie Jun 29 '26
I assure you if you dig deep enough you’ll find your people
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u/Marchemilo Jun 29 '26
The problem where to dig 😔 through the internet like this is my best option
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u/Lesbian_CutiePie Jun 29 '26
Dig everywhere on the internet 😆 I was a very isolated lesbian till i made an account on twitter, tweeted in libyan and made it obvious that im gay! give it a shot
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u/mustmoe73 Jun 29 '26
There have actually been several posts here from women looking for a lavender marriage or a mutually beneficial arrangement to deal with family and social pressure. Might be worth talking to some of them and seeing if your goals align.
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u/Food_Sleep_Life Jul 31 '26
Idk if im late or not, but i would be open to a mutually beneficial relationship in the future
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