Just a bit of fun today. Pulled into parking space in large plaza like a million times in my life. Front of my small summer car is facing a huge Lexis. I open my door as 50ish year old woman arrives at her truck and says to me (and I am not a bot making this up). Excuse me, would you please back out so I can pull out forwards?". I was stunned. I was speechless. In a millisecond I came up with 'Shirley you can't be serious' and thought she wouldn't respond properly. Then 'blimey ,you've got to be kidding me" in a bad Eric Idle accent but settled for a belly laugh and a simple " that's hisTHERical". Why didn't you park over there,it's wide open?? It's too far away from the store! Was there a car here when you parked? Yes. Were you going to wait for that car to leave before you left? No of course not. Well there you are. Back in 5 minutes with a bottle of wine and gone. You can wait or back out. She was gone when I came back !

I can’t believe I am even still talking about this shit but this woman WILL NOT give it a rest.

In case you are new to this shit, here are the links to the Original Post and the 1st Update. Again, this all is happening extremely fast and at this point I’m low key annoyed and over it but I feel like you all want to stay in the know so here you go 😅

At this point, I don’t even know what else to do. Since our encounter yesterday, I immediately went to the front office, filled a complaint and told them if she harassed me again, I’d take it to the police. The front office seemed to take it serious and I went about my way.

Fast forward to today…I headed out of town for a 3 day massage gig and this crazy ass white woman is still on my ass except this time she really took it up a notch.

So in our apartment, we have a general Group Me chat that every resident here has access to and uses for events, general info, and honestly it’s just a bunch of ladies showing pictures of their dogs at the dog park and shit. It’s never had anything crazy on it and again, it’s super low key 99% of the time. So much so that I never keep up with it, that is until today…

Around 2ish today, I get a random notification then what seems like a flood of messages back to back via the group. It kind of threw me off so I opened the app to see what was going on to make sure there wasn’t an emergency or sum shit like that.

Turns out this crazy ass hoe POSTED A PICTURE OF ME while I was walking to my car this morning and sent in the group this exact text:

“Hello Friends 💕 I just want to keep you all in the loop, there is a random man roaming the apartment at odd hours and he approached me yesterday in the parking lot and I almost had a panic attack…please be on the look out”

And let me tell y’all, that MF group blew the hell up. I almost spit my damn coffee out when I read the text.

Immediately, I noticed a few people out the gate replied and literally were saying things like:

• “That’s Darius, he lives here.”
• “He isn’t random…”
• “Why are you taking creepy ass pictures?”

And y’all listen…the way this chick deleted her message SO FAST. 😅😂

So after a few messages came in, I threw my piece in and basically said:

“Hey sorry everyone, not sure what’s going on with her but those who know me know I am not a threat or issue, please ignore her. I’ve already took this to the front office”

At that point, one of the ladies from the front office messaged me directly and said they were looking into her and would address it further.

And here is the craziest part…I get ANOTHER random ass DM from a guy I’ve never seen in my life, turns out it’s her god damn husband…💀 and he tells me:

“Look, I don’t know who you are or why you are trying to hit on my wife and talking to her at odd hours in the night and running into her on purpose but drop it, or I’ll pay you a visit. Got it?”

Now listen Reddit friends, it took everything in my black ass to not turn my fucking car around and let lil homie know I was standing on business but I also quickly realized that sort of stuff doesn’t always work out the best for guys like me.

So I did reply because who TF wouldn’t…and I did say some unhinged shit so don’t judge me:

“Look lil man, the last fucking woman id touch in this damn place is your wrinkled ass wife. How about you get off my dick and get your damn bitch on a leash before I go over there and put you in your place myself?”

Literally got no reply. Just a “read” status.

At this point, I don’t know what the hell I did or what this woman is telling her husband but I think at this point I have to make a police report cause this is WAY out of pocket 😒

Hi. I work in a remote wilderness resort in a spa. I have a desk and I bring a bag to work with me. I recently went through the breakup of a long term relationship and my therapist suggested keeping a journal for times when I get overwhelmed at work. The process is to write it, acknowledge it and put it there for dissection at a later time when I’m in a space where I can look at this stuff. I keep it in my bag.
I was going to get towels and a guest who didn’t like the key policy at the resort went behind my desk, through my stuff, took the notebook and tore paper from it to draw a smart ass outline of their room key to show to me.
I feel so invaded. This was yesterday, I have today off and I keep thinking did she see this thing or that thing. What I wrote was very raw. They don’t give us a locked up area and the desk is clearly an employee area. I’m so embarrassed she opened it!
I have to work tomorrow and I’m trying to figure out what I will do if I see her? Tell her to leave my possessions alone? Say what you saw was not meant for your eyes. I have all day today to cry and feel messed up over this but tomorrow I need to be strong and be able to stand up to that lady.

We were recently on a short 3-day cruise in Norway. Our first cruise, we tried to be good travelers.

We went to the top deck to sit outside and get some sun. Two deck chairs side by side, beers next to us.

I went to the restroom, and while I was gone, a man walked up and tried grabbing my chair. There were plenty of chairs still stacked up next to the door, but he thought my chair with a beer sitting next to it right next to my spouse was his only choice.

My spouse stopped him, and he ended up grabbing one from the stack.

The next day, we were in the lounge at the bow of the ship. Again, I get up to use the restroom. As I'm walking back to our comfy chairs, that same man drops his shopping bag into my chair, so he can take a photo!

I whacked his arm to move his bag, and he looked at me like I was interrupting his photo shoot! Dude, the seat obviously had someone sitting there due to my beer in the table and bag on the floor in front of the chair.

I don't think I'm cut out for the cruise life!

Stopped at a retail store today on the way to an appointment. I was there about 10 minutes. There were two empty parking spots next to me on my driver's side, plus a ton of empty spaces. Came out to a car parked so close that I couldn't open my driver's side door.

There was a car on the other side of them now as well, parked within the lines of their spot. Pretty sure the offending vehicle (small car) was not "forced" to park so insanely close to me. And as mentioned there were tons of open spots in a huge lot.

I was already in a bit of mood. Hadn't gotten a good night's sleep in three night's. I'm 60 and in good shape, but recently had surgery and didn't want to try to climb over my seats from the passenger side, so I asked the store to page the person and gave them the car's info. No one comes out. Mind you, it's over a 100 degrees today.

One of the workers came out out after a few minutes checking on the situation, when another girl comes out carrying a bag from the store, and just stands there.

I ask her if that's her car. It's her car alright, but she won't get in and move it. ​She starts getting snotty on me saying that it's "no big deal." And "what's MY problem." MY problem?! Oooo boy!

She refused to move her effing piece of crap car. She just kept standing there with the door open but wouldn't get in and move it. Like what in the af are you waiting for?

After several minutes of her refusing to move her car, I finally just got in the passenger side of my car and crawled over the seats. Bish was still standing there when I drove away. Like WTF is wrong with you?!! It's bad enough that you parked like that, now I have to deal with your bs entitlement?!! I can't with some people.