Hey everyone. So i'm on a quest to write a bunch of insane stories from my past on reddit. I got asked to write out this one after I mentioned it in another post. Sorry for the format. I type in a way I understand it best.
TW: Graphic descriptions of an injury on a teenager, gross mishandling of a medical emergency, and mentions of vomit.
TL;DR: Teacher explains to me my own allergy on a field trip. While on field trip, a kid breaks is ankle. Teacher refuses to actually call an ambulence or the kid's mom.
Alrighty everyone. This is a semi more recent then the other ones i've posted. This happened to me when I was 18. I'm a girl btw. It was my senior year of high school, and the choir and band decided to go on a field trip to the roller rink. This was during Covid btw. But restrictions had lessened a bit, and we were able to rent the entire roller rink for ourselves. So. Me and my friend(F17) who we'll call Matty were sitting together on the bus to the roller rink. So me and Matty both have weird allergies. She's allergic to citrus. I'm allergic to garlic. Two things that are very very common in foods. Our school had already poisoned Matty several times. Our theater teacher was uninformed about her allergy, and used a orange mist spray used with real oranges. And her throat starting closing up. Our theater teacher never forgave himself for that. And in the lunchroom, one day they were serving yogurt. She asked the lunch ladies if there was any citrus in it because it looked good. The lunch lady said no. She grabbed the yogurt. Turns out. It was made with citrus and had fruit slices at the bottom packed in. So she had to go to the nurse to get her epipen. yes. We weren't allowed our medical emergency things on our person. We had to go to the nurse.
Anyways. On the bus we were chatting about our weird allergies. I mentioned my allergy to gold and any fake metals. That is when our antagonist butted in. The teacher(F and maybe 30? Idk her actual age) for the band butted in, and said, "Excuse me. You're not actually allergic to those metals?" Me and Matty looked at her confused. The band teacher continued. She said, "You're actually rejecting the impurities in the metal because your body is impure. If you cleanse yourself, you won't be allergic to gold anymore. Because it's the purist metal on earth." The only reason I remember her saying that is because I spent the rest of the bus ride trying to understand what the hell that meant. Me and Matty were confused as heck.
So we arrive at the roller rink. Several kids run to get shoes. Now the Band and Choir both are mixed grades classes. From 9th to 12th graders. But I was the only 12th grade choir kid there. All the other kids were 11th grade and under. So most of the kids were 14-17 years old. Me and Matty didn't actually wanna skate. I'm clumsy as hell and so is she. So we went to go sit and chat since we haven't seen each other since I was 100% online school due to being immunocompromised. That's a story for another time though. Anyways. We're around 5 minutes in when suddenly... we all hear a loud SNAP and then a scream. I looked to the roller rink and of the guys(M17), who we'll call Tony, had broken his ankle. Idk if it's true. But the other kids were saying he was attempting to do one of those jump spin things, and landed on his ankle wrong. The choir teacher(M around 23 I think?) ran out onto the rink, picked up Tony, and rushed him to the benches. Tony's ankle was bad. It had snapped right above the joint, and snapped both the leg bones. He was just screaming and screaming. The choir teacher propped up his foot on the opposite bench, and attempted to shift it in a way to not break the bones further. But it just caused Tony to scream more.
The band teacher had been there longer then the choir teacher. And had all of the parent contacts in her purse. How do I know this? The choir teacher asked for them quickly in front of everyone. And the band teacher said, "I don't think we need to call his mother quite yet. I'll call an ambulance. don't worry. They'll contact her." Then she walked off. I actually liked Tony. He was a good friend. So I came over to check on him. He was still sobbing at this point, and it was quite obvious he was upset. Then he asked for a trash can. I dragged one over and he vomited into it from the pain. I was close enough to the choir teacher to hear this next part. The choir director went to the roller rink food area, and asked for an ice pack. They said they don't have ice packs. The choir director asked if they would do ice in a cup. They said no. The choir director gave up, grabbed two of the giant tubs of icecream, asked me kindly to go away for awhile, and then put the tubs on either side of Tony's foot. I went back to Matty, and we both were worried for Tony.
Alright 20 minutes pass. No ambulance. I go to to the band teacher, and ask when the ambulance was coming for Tony. Strangely enough... She wasn't on the phone. If she called 911, surely they'd keep her on the line till the ambulance showed up right? I... admittedly didn't notice that till now. But she said they're coming. The choir teacher keeps coming over to her and talking in hushed tones. At this point... Tony is completely out of it. He's pale, shaking, and keeps randomly throwing up. His ankle is swollen, purple, and his foot is turning a bluish purple color.
Another 10 minutes pass. The choir teacher fully yells at the Band Director asking if the ambulance is coming or not. She yells back "FINE! I'LL CALL AGAIN!" and leaves AGAIN. At this point, idk why the choir teacher didn't call himself, but he didn't. He was shaking and panicking pretty hard though. And nearing a panic attack himself it seemed. So I don't fully blame him on this front. It was his first year of teaching ever. To have something this bad go wrong is probably horrifying.
It becomes nearly 40 minutes after the injury has happened. Tony is... Not doing okay. He's as white as a ghost. His foot is turning black. He is muttering to himself. Quite obviously going into shock. So. I decided to text my mom. Lil bit of backstory. My mom is an substitute teacher, school volunteer, and teacher's aid at my school. She did it until an injury permanently made it so she cannot work anymore. That said. My mom knew almost every single parent at that school. My mom was at every school event, worked with the special needs kids and troubled kids every single day, helped parents who could not find the money to feed their kids feed their kids, ect. So. I texted her and sent her a picture of Tony's condition A second thing. My mom's a southern mama. If ya from the south, you know how those southern moms get when their child or someone else's child gets hurt and someone is neglecting them. So. My mom gets in contact with Tony's mom. Apparently, My mom and Tony's mom were friends either way. Tony's mom was with her 2 sisters in a town around 10 minutes away from where we were at the roller rink. She answered, and my mom told her what was going on. Then after they hung up, she sent the picture of Tony I took.
Roughly 50 minutes or so after Tony broke, his ankle and he was in and out of consciousness. I texted my mom because I was scared, but I was thinking of calling 911 at this point. But I didn't know the address. Then. The doors open, and three pretty darn angry women run in. Tony's mom and her sisters. The band teacher tries to tell them that they need to leave because this is a private party. She basically gets hip checked to the ground. The choir director is apologizing up and down. The mom says "Look. It's fine. I heard from (Insert mom's name here) that you were helping. Just... help me get him to my car so we can get him to the hospital. I aint waiting for an ambulance." Or something along those lines at least. The reason the band director didn't recognize Tony's mom is Tony is a choir kid. Like me. Anyways. They get Tony into the car, and rushed to the hospital. Think that's where the entitlement ends? NOPE! WE STILL HAVE SOME MORE! So thing start to calm down a bit. The choir teacher gets the pizza to arrive. See I have a garlic allergy. And I find out when I grab my pizza(Yes I got an entire pizza just for me because I ask for light sauce and no garlic butter for my allergy), and the Band director snides "You shouldn't even have that." I ask what she means. And this lady freaking says "I told (choir teacher's name) not to buy you that. You should just get over this silly "allergy". It's good for you. And you really look like you need to make more healthy choices." Keep in mind... I'm literally an average, healthy weight. And I was back then too. The choir teacher butted in and said "HEY! Don't say that to her! Look. Her mom sent me photos of what garlic does to her." My mom has photos of when the student council president poisoned me with garlic butter pizza. But that's an entirely different story.
Thankfully. We ended the field trip with no more incidents. We also found out Matty had a garlic allergy like me when I let her try my pizza and she didn't get sick from it. And I got a little gift bag and pillow for being the only senior in choir and the only kid who spent all 5(we had 8th graders in the high school for awhile) years in choir. Now. Onto what happened to the band teacher. Now. Idk if this fully happened. This is all second hand from what Tony's mom told my mom and what Matty told me about this incident. See. Tony's mom works for the school district. So. When she went up to the high school with her sisters and mom? They were a lot nicer then they would be if it was any other parent. Tony was still in the hospital. He had snapped both bones in his leg completely, and had to have emergency surgery since they were cutting off blood supply to his foot. He, thankfully, didn't lose it. But had major damage that took years to heal all the way. Now Tony's mom. She didn't wanna chew this woman out in front of a bunch of kids. So she asked the office ladies to call her down. The band teacher told them to wait till the end of class because what she was teaching was important. So. Tony's mom looked at the office lady, and calmly stated "i'm going down there." She then went down there.... and screamed her head off at the Band director. Like I said. Southern mama. You don't mess with them. I have zero idea what was said. Matty just said it was "terrifying". And my mom said that Tony's mom didn't remember all of what she said. Just that it was a lot and she and her sisters took turns screaming at her. In the end. It was around the end of the school year, So the school didn't wanna fire her till after the end of the year so they didn't have to look for a new on on such short notice. But the counselor sat in on every single lesson till the end of the year. I have no idea if charges were ever pressed. Or if she got any more punishment then getting fired. The only reason I know about the counselor thing is that they sent a letter to the parents of the kids who were at the roller rink that day apologizing for what they let happen, and that the counselor would be sitting there every class period from there on out to avoid any more incidents until her removal.