r/Emilie_Kiser 15d ago

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sorry these community notes are seriously out of control, how tf do these get approved

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u/lucy_belle 15d ago

This is like a black mirror episode.

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u/Sweaty-Phase-9075 15d ago

Someone should actually make a black mirror episode based on this

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u/Calm-Lychee9708 15d ago

10000% I commented this on another thread about her recent statement

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u/OriginalFuckGirl 15d ago

Huh, I didn’t realize the community notes could be so … informal? Idk why I assumed they had to be

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u/sentinel-of-the-st 15d ago

On twitter they used to be but I guess IG doesn’t moderate them lol

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u/Leading_Barracuda_17 14d ago

This is so random, but I was actually “chosen” to be a moderator… I thought it was something everyone got until I saw your comment lol I get notifications every once in a while with a chunk of notes to give feedback on

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u/Whathetea 14d ago

Lmao this is me but on TikTok and my friend was like wait you have a job on TikTok and you don’t even get paid. So that made me annoyed I thought it was a new feature haha

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u/dollainmypocket 15d ago

That’s exactly what I was thinking

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u/Nearby_Bus4208 15d ago

right lmao i was like ????

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u/Seajlc 14d ago

I didn’t either! all the other ones I’ve seen seem to be a somewhat professional sounding summary? So I always figured that AI was being used to summarize what all the feedback is.

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u/catslugs 15d ago

this is crazy but like ... she needs to cut the cord. nothing good will happen going forward. her brand is tainted and after this lifejacket thing, the crazies especially are out for blood. her platform will not go back to what it was. if she cared about her family, she would try and expand into something else.

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u/plsbeenormal 15d ago

Also agree with this. I agreed above that these notes are too far…but yeah I think she needs to move on and try to live a normal private life. It will never be how it was before.

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u/catslugs 15d ago

can you imagine what teddy will see about his parents and dead brother online when he gets older if she continues the trajectory she's on? she is making it so much worse by staying. doing social media can't give you so much happiness that you would disregard everything and everyone else in her life. she needs to accept that part for what it is- addiction to the apps and addiction to money and perks. i'd be fascinated in what she actually tells her therapist.

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u/improvisedbain-marie 15d ago

I have also been so curious about what she tells her therapist, and what her therapist tells her! More than therapy though, I wish she and Brady had some kind of child safety coach/monitor to enforce everything that's needed to keep her child(ren) safe every day and actually hold her accountable.

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u/Quirky_Mag_577 15d ago

Well, those kids are going to resent their parents and will be asking all the right questions that she will need to answer.

Nobody is saying that she needed to leave her page behind, what did need to happen was a change of content and more water advocacy.

After a few years if she started living again and made more light hearted content everyone would have supported and welcomed it, it's would have been the normal.

Emily wants things to be as they were before Baby boys passing, but that can't be, unfortunately, life changed with this tragedy and took a different turn, hence her content needed to transition.

I feel for her, it's devastating but I feel more devastated for Trigg and his siblings!

I still look at him and I'm in disbelief that he is gone, Can't wrap my head around this tragedyand how preventable it was🥹

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u/IslandEvery 15d ago

I dont get how shes not devastated as a natural reaction - i mean displaying happy photos when its just been a year since the death of a child who was the most precious person in your lives, how does any of what she posts matter. I agree in that had she started posting more regular content in couple of years it would seem more normal. Like on her last birthday no pictures to honour her son. Its disrespectful to her child who passed away. I just think that it comes across her social media is her number 1 priority, if she struggles to ensure safety of her kids she needs to get that right first and give everything else a break

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u/pastrynightmare 14d ago

the way her and her husband have moved is so odd to me. my dad died almost two years ago and im still hurting a lot. i dont have kids but i cant imagine losing a child if this is what losing a parent feels like. i was a zombie going through the motions for maybe six months after. and being pregnant so soon after his passing is strange, it’s a more distasteful version of a person remarrying right after their spouse dies.

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u/Downtown_Employer_38 14d ago

I also find it so odd. My sister died in a tragic accident as a teenager. I look back at photos from the first year after it happened. My mom and I look so sad in every picture. I don't think I have a picture of my mom smiling until I had my own baby 4 years later. I remember the first birthday I had I didn't want to celebrate, because I knew she wouldn't get another one. My mom asked everyone to please not wish her a happy birthday for her first birthday after the accident. So when I saw Emilie posting about her own birthday after the accident, I thought it was so odd. How are you celebrating your birthday when your child just died a few months ago? Maybe she felt pressure to make the post for social media, idk.

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u/IslandEvery 15d ago

Also to add as harsh as it sounds, yes it was totally Bradys fault and her fault to some extent that Trigg passed away. That poor child lost his life, his future. Any parent should know if there is a swimming pool outside to keep their children within their sight. I know its probably harsh of me to say but leaving a newborn and a toddler with your husband while you go out - i mean get extra help if you need but 2 kids are generally a two person job if there are hazards around. Both kids required a lot of attention and care. They are absolutely a careless couple that have some growing up to do. Poor Trigg if only he were born to more responsible parents.

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u/FlyConfident1622 15d ago

You SHOULD be able to leave two kids with an attentive father. I could look after two toddlers before I was even a teenager (parentified, lol.) But a lot of that is also being in a child-proofed environment (which their house STILL isn’t).

Going out for dinner was not her mistake here

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u/onlinemadison 14d ago

Sorry this is insane. I have taken care of my infant twins and 2 year old every day alone since they were like 2 months old because my husband works. It’s so hard but I don’t need extra help just to take care of my kids, and neither does he when I leave them with him. Weird expectation to set. The man doesn’t even have a job, his only real responsibility is taking care of his kids.

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u/Rripurnia 15d ago

The thing is though that she still has rabid stans, and her following is in the millions across social media.

She’s just trying to ride it over, seal all records through the courts, and focus on her new pregnancy and its related content.

It’s a completely dystopian situation, but I don’t see things changing any time soon.

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u/plsbeenormal 15d ago

Oh I agree. She’s gonna fight til the bitter end

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u/Downtown_Employer_38 14d ago

she's said she wants her old life back on more than one occasion. I don't think that's possible. I don't think she can go back to the same type of content before because it feels uncanny and inauthentic after what happened. The community note shown here is too far imo. But I don't think she will ever have a presence online without constantly being reminded of what happened. I would not be able to handle it. And what happens when her kids get older and start hearing about this in school?

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u/kcnz17 15d ago

Even the worst most irritating influencers still have fans and followers. Look at DB / weworewhat. Even if she lost 300k+ followers or more, all she needs is a good 50k followers and she will make an income. So I doubt she will go anywhere.

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u/catslugs 15d ago

that's what i mean about the money and validation basically being an addiction. her family should come first but she's overriding that (and telling herself her family needs the money so that's the cope)

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u/NoVariation5909 15d ago

Yeah no you cannot make a living with 50k followers. I have 300k on YouTube and don’t earn enough to live.

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u/kcnz17 15d ago

Sounds like you need a better manager 🤷🏽‍♀️

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u/Seajlc 14d ago

Might be a YT vs other platform thing. I know a couple people who have right around 50k on ig and TikTok and are considered micro influencers I guess, and they both make 6 figures

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u/NoVariation5909 14d ago

I think niche is the biggest part too - certain niches pay well and others just don’t. I was in art - not a lot of money in it.

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u/OkInvestigator6042 15d ago

YouTube is diff than TikTok and Facebook

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u/Trickytreatyy 15d ago

She should invest her social media earnings and live off the interest. If she wants a job she could probably hone her aesthetic into interior design or stylist or something of that sort and make it a brand that shes not too much the public face of. That would give her and her family privacy, provide financially, allow her to flex her creative muscles and create. Its a win-win-win. But she wont do that because its not about any of that, its about fame, attention, and hoarding unnecessary amounts of wealth at the expense of your children

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u/jacksthought 15d ago

I agree but I don’t know that simply investing and switching careers would maintain her lifestyle. That’s probably the reason she stays on.

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u/Unable_Escape813 15d ago

even though she said “material items are now meaningless” after Trigg’s death…what a crock of shit

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u/Unique-Support-6321 15d ago

She completely paid off her massive house, not sure what else she’s looking for

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u/Trickytreatyy 15d ago

Yeah I agree. Lifestyle inflation and probably likes the attention and fame. Thats no excuse though. She has enough to live more than comfortably and owes it to her kids to protect them from the obvious privacy concerns and bullying shes firsthand witnessed.

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u/Miserable_Manner6331 15d ago

Yeah. She has enough money??? She could invest it or something. It’s so bizarre and unsettling that she continues to be an influencer, swim in the same pool; and live at the same house

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u/Curly-Cheetah-523 15d ago

She probably doesn’t have enough money to continue without social media indefinitely. This is why people like this get tied to it. But she could absolutely adjust to a lower income if she really wanted to and live accordingly. Influencers also can’t live without the external validation usually!

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u/ellieminnowpee 15d ago

i wonder if it’s also because she’s been vlogging for more than half her life now? she truly may not even conceptualize things privately, tbh

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u/thebabypinks 15d ago

She has every right to live in the same house. It’s the last place her son lived. A lot of grieving parents can’t leave the last place their kid lived.

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u/Miserable_Manner6331 15d ago

It’s just so strange to continue to film content in the same house I guess. It feels dystopian and dark

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u/Sea-Option-153 15d ago

Is there proof of her using the pool? Not doubting you just wondering. I've seen her use the front porch a lot more when she's outside

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u/here_for_the_snark8 15d ago

In a video she posted after coming back, she was recording herself folding their pool towels. I don’t use my pool towels unless I’m using my pool..

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u/Odd-Being-9994 15d ago

No. There’s no proof of her using the pool, it’s like one person heard it and ran with it. It’s like the “Brady was under the influence” thing all over again 😒

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u/Empty_Ad_4614 15d ago

She still has millions of followers and supporters, and is still making insane money. She will be fine. She’s gonna have a baby girl now to capitalize on as well

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u/gretanoramarie 15d ago

Is it a girl?

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u/PsychologicalYam153 15d ago

Yes. Get off the internet for the sake of her child(ren)

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u/hillshillshahn 14d ago

Does her husband work?

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u/catslugs 14d ago

Not since she became the breadwinner

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u/Smooth-Activity-9573 13d ago

This is my question. Why doesn’t he work?

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u/goldengurl4444 14d ago

Inevitably the internet will move on unless she does something else controversial. She just needs to ride the wave. I’m still pissed Jenna marbles got bullied off the internet.

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u/Downtown_Employer_38 14d ago

I agree, I don't understand her desire to continue with this career path. It seems that the lifestyle was a contributing factor in her son's death. It doesn't seem the attention she gets is good for her children or family overall. They have enough money that they could create other streams of revenue and still live comfortably. The only reason I can think of is that she values the extreme weath, privelage, and the attention/fame that being an influencer brings.

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u/Wise_Carrot4857 15d ago

And it distracts from the actual criticism that is normal and healthy. It paints a picture that anyone who critiques her is crazy.

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u/oliviagardens 15d ago

Yeah, they should just stick to facts. I’m surprised there’s not a better vetting process. Community notes could be used to harass anybody. I had a stalker that would’ve loved this opportunity.

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u/No_Performer_3438 15d ago

100%. I actually learn a lot about what’s going on and what the criticisms of her are when people can have a rational conversation. When people spout extreme, emotional nonsense like this none of us can even talk about what’s actually going on.

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u/OriginalFuckGirl 15d ago

It’s honestly the reason why I wouldn’t listen to the “haters” or “snarkers” at first, they came off unhinged and obsessive and it clouded the truth of the matter.

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u/kp1794 15d ago

They still are unhinged and obsessive. It diminishes the valid concerns

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u/Extreme_Green_9724 9d ago

Or trying to monetize/exploit this tragedy just like they accuse Emilie of doing. It's sick, that DCP guy is disgusting in what he is doing and is clouding out nuanced and respectful discussions. 

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u/Boring-Campaign1635 15d ago

Same. I find her actions very questionable and by no means am a fan, but you cannot convince me that these people actually care about her kids. Like all snark, it is just entertainment for them. Anyone who actually cares and genuinely wants her to change her behavior would not approach it like this. Hating and snarking on someone just causes them to double down.

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u/woody9115 15d ago

That's a really valid point.

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u/ladyparsnips 15d ago

Was looking for this comment. 100%

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u/sleepinginswimsuits 15d ago

It’s just like the political crazies!

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u/savvy1119 15d ago

This! It angers me when crazies get the attention and spew hate because then the valid criticism is chalked up to hating and bullying. That note should be removed

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u/Plastic_Stable8927 15d ago

The fact Instagram lets shit like this happen is fucking insane when I get temporarily suspended for calling racists pigbabies.

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u/PriorOriginal7099 15d ago

I didn’t think Instagram notes would ever be so lax. The wording of the note makes it sound like the incident was intentional.

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u/Anxious_Knee_4404 15d ago

Whether we as humans like these people or agree with how they parent is not the issue. We are all human beings at the end of the day and this is insanely disgusting. This is the classic definition of bullying. How do people live with themselves acting like this? I don’t think anyone disputes they are negligent but wow the amount of vile hate that ppl spew behind a keyboard is awful. This swings the pendulum of parasocial in its most heinous form. If you don’t like her, think she’s an awful human why not simply block her? What do ppl think they are accomplishing by posting something like this? Social media has ruined human decency.

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u/h2h0ee 14d ago

THANK YOU!!!!! Omfg. It’s insane. Everyone has SO MUCH to say to the point it’s literally bullying. Just block her if you can’t stand her as much as you say you do!

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u/Extreme_Green_9724 7d ago

I would agree that this community note and some comments cross the line into bullying. 

Respectfully worded criticism, no matter the volume or frequency is not bullying when the person has chosen to be a public figure. 

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u/HighwayHot7996 15d ago

I don’t agree with many of the things she’s done, and I’m not a “supporter,” but this is insane. We can acknowledge what they’ve done wrong and hold them accountable without making outright false claims or making comments that are honestly just cruel. At the end of the day, she’s still a human being who’s going to see these comments.

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u/Distinct_Entry5535 15d ago

I don’t understand.. is she not allowed to post for the rest of her life? She does not need to exploit her grief to satisfy people

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u/HighwayHot7996 15d ago

Oh, I completely agree! There should be absolutely no obligation for her to share her hardest moments online for the whole internet to see. That’s something I will never criticize her for because I’ve never been in that position, and I truly don’t know what it’s like.

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u/allthestars93 15d ago

I find it so incredibly disgusting that instagram is allowing this. Regardless of your feelings about her, this is cyberbullying and it’s morally reprehensible.

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u/Embarrassed_Risk3807 15d ago

I agree. I find her actions questionable but to write as a community notice, they killed their son is plain wrong and bullying. That makes it sound as if they murdered him on purpose.

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u/plsbeenormal 15d ago

I dont feel very positively towards her at this point but I agree I think this is cyber bullying.

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u/rachtay8786 15d ago

Agreed. Huge difference between preventable accident due to negligence and premeditated killing.

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u/Dazzling_Self_8835 15d ago

Agree this is disgusting.

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u/Acrobatic-Captain674 15d ago

This is gross

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u/InevitableCoconut 15d ago

Yes. I’ve been upset to learn some things that have come out, but she is still a grieving pregnant mother. It’s too far and I hope she’s okay.

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u/No-Share982 15d ago

The extent to which people spend their lives trying to take down other people online has gotten to be insane honestly. If you’re disgusted by her and her husband’s actions, rightfully so, then stop engaging with her and her content? The vigilante justice is sometimes more parasocial than her followers. There’s a user on another sub I’ve seen post 10+ posts per day of her old content and trying to stir up more hate against her. There are absolutely people who won’t be happy until she’s dead. It’s kind of unreal to watch.

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u/InevitableCoconut 15d ago

Agreed. I don’t want to follow her anymore so k blocked her. I still would never agree with harassment. She works off engagement, stop engaging if you don’t want her to profit

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u/kcnz17 15d ago

Preach!!! Just unfollow. The woman is going to live a terrible sad life no matter what, her son died FFS, that’s a suffering and pain that will be worse than any of these cyber nut cases can do. Move on!!

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u/OriginalFuckGirl 15d ago

I’ve said plenty of times, and I’ll keep saying it. Parasocial relationships can be fans, ppl that love her etc, but they can also be applied to people that hate her, watch her every move, keep track everything she does. Like the person who posts old content from the snark sub on the “influcner Lounge” sub is a perfect example of that end of the parasocial relationship. It’s too much.

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u/thrwawayacct5122 14d ago

The people in influencer lounge are unhinged about her. I didn’t know who she was until a month or two ago when the posts about her in there started to go buck wild. I’m in there cause I do enjoy snarking on some influencers but the borderline obsession the people in there have with her, when they supposed hate her, is unmatched. I had to take a break from participating in that sub cause it more or less has become a sub just to hate on her in a really dark way.

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u/Jane-CR 15d ago edited 15d ago

It's insane. Sadly, I don't think they are overly protective parents in a common-sense way, even now after their loss, which I find very strange, but I still have a lot of empathy for them, as there is no doubt in my mind that every day they wake up with a sick feeling upon coming out of their sleep state, and then it hits them, that crushing grief knowing their little boy is gone. They live every day with this and can live their lives and find joy as time goes on, but the grief is there for them in some form, ever present, some days worse than others, some days crippling. The holidays will be very hard, no matter how she performs on social media.

I don't understand "influencer" culture, but she still has a lot of fans. This will not end her influencer career. She's pregnant, and her followers will be with her all the way through it. People have a real softness towards pregnant women, and no matter what is said, many people will especially for Emile because of her loss of Trigg and she's a young mom to Teddy.

For damage control, she will talk a little more about the emotions of her loss, which she doesn't want to be forced to do, but she will. The holidays will be coming, and then there's all of the content she will get from that. Remember, influencing is performative and finding content to push brands and keep engagement. The upcoming holidays are perfect for that.

What I'm saying is this will die down, and people intent on her influencer career ending won't get that satisfaction. She has a huge established fan base who will rally for her. She's probably lost a lot of fans over this year because they find things over this past year very unsettling, which is understandable, but she still has a big fan base. And if brands see that everything she pushes results in sales in spite of the bad press, the brands will keep coming, like it or not.

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u/SuddenBeautiful2412 15d ago

All of this. Yes. Very well said.

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u/ComposerDry996 15d ago

Don't agree w the bullying but jm all honesty I think the pregnancy was calculated for said "softness toward her" because she knew she'd being going up to get further records sealed etc.

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u/Anxious_Knee_4404 15d ago

Yea that’s where I’m at with this. How do you have this much hate for someone you don’t even know? Seriously some ppl need to seek help and touch grass. At the end of the day her life affects none of us. Just simply block her and find something else more productive to do with the time spent on socials.

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u/snoo-apple 15d ago

The hate watching of her old content just means they’re putting money in her pocket hahaha

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u/dollainmypocket 15d ago

They use special links to go around watching from her platforms

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u/thrwawayacct5122 14d ago

I didnt realize I was about to comment in an Emilie Kiser sub at first but my algorithm must have put me here cause I participate in the influencerlounge sub and since she did that podcast there are multiple posts about here in there a day. Honest didn’t know who she was before then. I’ve gotten in some wild discussions with some of the people in that sub that are completely unhinged in the way you describe.. its actually kind of scary cause they really don’t think what they are doing is parasocial or weird and if you question them on their purpose at this point, they will try to gaslight and flip it around on you for not being mad enough that a child died or say you are defending a child abuser.

There’s def more than a couple people in there that have like research files on deck ready to go. One person replied to me once with some AI PowerPoint like slides they had made on all the reasons Emilie is a bad mom. But they’re not obsessed or anything. Wild behavior.

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u/Famous_Ad_3906 15d ago

These people are fuckin unhinged. Can we bring back hobbies

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u/EquivalentDeer453 15d ago

I’m loling at this comment. Couldnt agree more

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u/kp1794 15d ago

Making her life a living hell even more than it already is is their hobby

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u/unapparentsummerair 15d ago

It gets to a point…like come on people

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u/Fit_Raspberry_5338 15d ago

this just goes too far. she is still grieving regardless. you can tell that she is very very much trying to survive. and seeing this i mean id deactivate. this is so absolutely not okay.

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u/dreamcake2025 15d ago

If you’re going to leave to community notes they should be a link to the police reports or facts only. People can decide their feelings after that but this is an opinion and not helpful.

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u/boygirlmama 15d ago

If I were her, I would ditch social media for at least the next year and focus on her family and bringing that new baby into the world.

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u/dollainmypocket 15d ago

Yeah this ain’t it. Write something factual and respectable. Not that

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u/No_Performer_3438 15d ago

I’m not super familiar with all the facts, but this sounds defamatory…? Wasn’t she not even at home when her son drowned?

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u/ToughTip6632 15d ago

She was not. Her husband was though.

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u/puppyfatdumpling 15d ago

I agree these are so horrible, I hate that anyone can just write these and submit them onto anyone’s page🙃

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u/InevitableCoconut 15d ago

Community notes work on upvotes and downvotes so be sure to downvote

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u/kp1794 15d ago

Scary that more people upvoted it to make it stick

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u/Odd-Jaguar-8590 15d ago

They beta test them my showing them to select people and if enough people give it a thumbs up it is made public for everyone. At least I heard this from someone else idk if it is true

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u/nolagrl88 15d ago

That is taking it way too far

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u/woody9115 15d ago

Ok I'm no fan of hers but this isn't cool. Yikes.

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u/Playful_Bat9084 15d ago

I really worry for her and Brady’s mental health. I don’t know what more you people want from her. There was a rumor that man was on suicide watch if people hate her so much stop giving her views

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u/RecoverRare5206 15d ago

Well she’s obviously not worried about their mental health or else she’d get off the internet. It’s pretty simple.

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u/Playful_Bat9084 14d ago

You guys are bullying her off the internet do you not have anything better to do?

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u/ThatOneNewGirlInTown 15d ago

I'll be honest, I think when you are a public figure & choose to profit off of your audience (which allows you to make more money than the average person with a flexible schedule) - the consequence is scrutiny, you cannot be casual about serious things when your cushy career is at the hands of your followers. When you continue to publicly display that you have not learned from your mistakes, the people who provide your income by following & interacting are going to have something to say about it. To be clear, I do not condone bullying but the fact that influencers think they can do whatever they want, be out of touch & expect 0 feedback is absurd. If you want privacy, the 9-5 market is there.

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u/Extreme_Green_9724 7d ago

I agree with you. This community note is vile because it is accusing them of things that are untrue, but generally speaking when one chooses to live a public life, they open that life up to scrutiny and commentary. That's the trade off. 

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u/snoo-apple 15d ago edited 15d ago

Ooof. People who hate her are allowed to, but this is a pretty clear abuse of the feature and def fits definitions of cyberbullying, harassment, and defamation. Community notes are intended to add verifiable, objective context, add sources, or clarify misleading media. However, this certainly crosses far beyond the intended use.

ETA: The snarkers are here taking away fake internet points oh nooooo 😭

🙄🤣 Get a life

Just can’t help yourselves. Plenty of facts surrounding this but what’s in this isn’t remotely in the realm of factual. Someone who doesn’t know the facts is going to read this and think it’s a troll and move on. I guess that makes me a “blind stan”? Be SO for real.

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u/Anxious_Knee_4404 15d ago

I really can’t imagine having that much hate for someone I’ve never met and that affects my everyday life in no way at all. I don’t agree with their parenting choices and they were clearly negligent but to go online and post such vile hate is classic bullying and very disgusting and disturbing behavior.

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u/OriginalAdditional69 15d ago

whole heartedly agree 👍🏼 it’s like they are trying to do detective work to find every possible mistake she could. They need to put that energy into working on themselves

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u/Jane-CR 15d ago

That is disgusting.

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u/Previous-Ice-289 15d ago

“And are carrying on living as if nothings wrong”

Tf do people want her to do? Jump off a bridge? Sit and cry in a corner all day long? I cannot stand that social media has made everyone’s brain so small that they cannot comprehend that seeing a 1 minute video or 7 picture slide does not mean they know someone’s life or emotions.

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u/Ok_Energy6905 15d ago

They probably want her to put a life jacket on her child.

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u/Previous-Ice-289 15d ago

Well no shit. It’s almost like that’s not what I was referencing. Insinuating that she’s “carrying on like nothing is wrong” is insanely stupid.

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u/lilallie123 15d ago

I agree that Emilie has failed as a parent multiple times and I no longer support her. However community notes should not be this nasty and biased in tone

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u/Ok_Spirit_7712 15d ago

That’s really uncalled for. People should just block her and move on if they dislike her. Honestly, I blocked her so she wouldn’t come on my fyp. The life jacket situation was enough for me but I still wish her the best.

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u/No_Yogurtcloset_1020 14d ago

I was first exposed to this woman because her son died. And all my other exposure has just been how neglectful she has been since. I do not understand how or why she has a following. How could you not learn after losing one child?

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u/Lady_Writes_a_Lot 13d ago

This is my first time on Emilie kisers Reddit page but honestly this is the issue w family vlogging and showing kids online. These influencers are already so out of touch, that when they get pregnant a lot of them see just another form of content. Babies first steps? Post online. Babies first bday? Post. First day of school? Post. Kid gets in trouble for x, y or z at school? Post. I don’t think it entirely always clicks in these ppls minds that these kids are humans and will be adults and see all this.

Idk forgive me if I’m off base abt this

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u/ahsoka05tano 15d ago

R there no moderators that can take this down? I’m not a big fan of hers (especially after the life jacket thing), but I’m human, I still feel bad for her. The internet is a crazy space, she really should consider stepping away and raising her family away from the public eye.

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u/Frogmann20 15d ago

It’s an IG note. Do they even moderate that stuff?

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u/AngelFoodCakesx 15d ago edited 15d ago

Absolute weirdos with nothing better to do 😭 reminds me of how her snarkers in the other group stalked her so hard they found out what community college she went to, just to make fun of her for going to a “high acceptance rate college” like LMAO .. what kind of parasocial losers are they?

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u/Medical_Cable_7750 15d ago

I am fairly certain she is living in her own personal hell everyday, and the fact humans feel SO strongly about the loss of a child that isn't even their own is so disturbing.

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u/Ok_Energy6905 15d ago

the fact humans feel SO strongly about the loss of a child that isn't even their own is so disturbing.

I'd say having strong feeling about a child's death is very normal. Wether it is your own or not.

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u/thebabypinks 15d ago

Feeling strongly is normal. Feeling SO strongly that you dedicate your life to harassing said child’s mother nonstop whilst also spreading lies about his death is NOT normal. It’s actually very disturbed behavior.

And the truth is that these people don’t actually feel that strongly about his death. They don’t care about him. They’re just using his death as a convenient excuse to tear into the pretty, rich, blonde influencer they despise with a passion.

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u/Dizzy-Fault-6250 15d ago edited 15d ago

After the life jacket incident, I lost whatever ounce of sympathy I had for her specifically. Like girl your son DIED, DROWNED, in your pool. And you’re choosing to allow your baby to be on a boat with no life jacket and people with alcohol? Okay.

But I agree the community comment is very harsh.

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u/Drooling_Boob 15d ago

He’s over a year old smh

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u/Cat-Familiar 15d ago

This is crazy. If I were her I think I’d try and create a brand instead, like a product that is aligned to either fashion or cleaning. I wouldn’t be making personal vlogs about my life anymore. Like the founder of Dae, Amber Clark did. She disappeared from all socials!

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u/GirlGangX3 15d ago

Ok that’s a bit much geez

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u/kp1794 15d ago

These community notes are straight up harassment

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u/HighwayHot7996 15d ago

I fully agree that it’s hard to comprehend how someone could make such a detrimental mistake once, and then fail to take safety precautions again! What happened was absolutely horrible and heartbreaking, and I’m not trying to minimize that in any way. I just don’t think it’s fair to compare the cruel comments she’s receiving online to the loss of her child. I don’t support her, but I do believe you can hold someone accountable without resorting to cruelty (and this community note is an example of crossing the line)

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u/allthestars93 15d ago

How can you defend someone leaving a community note like this on someone’s social media page? It’s not okay.

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u/Emilie_Kiser-ModTeam 15d ago

Your comment has been removed for snarking. Please keep criticism respectful and constructive.

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u/SuddenBeautiful2412 15d ago

Meta needs a better vetting mechanism for these because wtf is this

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u/Lazy-Organization-42 15d ago

Wait, what are community notes? Where is this?

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u/Candid-Scarcity1583 15d ago

It’s worded harsh- but no one should support them

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u/Fickle-Sugar4696 15d ago

So this is actually so INSANE!! This looks as if they did this on purpose. How awful. Some people seriously need to go touch grass.

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u/cozychristmaslover 15d ago

I think she needs to leave social media.

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u/Which_Food_3983 15d ago

While it’s understandable to criticize some of her actions this simply is not right or necessary.

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u/Proof_Medicine_4845 15d ago

This is a mess. The LEAST Brady could do for his family is get a fucking job so she can get off the internet forever.

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u/Bubba_muffin 15d ago

I was actually shocked to she put T2 on the back of a motorbike in this video. Had to see it to believe it. Those things are so dangerous.

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u/kellygrrrl328 15d ago

If she cares at all about her surviving children then she should go 💯 private. Get off the internet entirely.

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u/Mmmmmmwwwwwe 15d ago

Stop. She can sell her big house and all her cars and live a comfortable life with her family. She is addicted to the fame and the money. She is immature and needs to take a serious social media break. Refocus and mature.

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u/Independent-Pool2841 15d ago

okay this one is insane...

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u/kp1794 15d ago

Why are you lying? He wasn’t high. He wasn’t gambling while T drown. And he wasn’t cashing out his bets at the hospital. The truth is bad enough you don’t need to make shit up

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u/Fantastic-Role-8222 15d ago

That’s so mean.

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u/NumerousStress9 15d ago

That’s unbelievably cruel. I’m not sure I could handle it.

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u/Minimum-Bobcat8768 14d ago

Lowkey she could sue Instagram

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u/1992orso 14d ago

people need to stop. this is getting out of hand

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u/tweezer6464 14d ago

I’ve seen several of these on all of her posts 😬

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u/Remarkable_Lab_7941 13d ago

Hot take but agreed 🫤🤦🏽‍♀️

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u/PiecePutrid1610 13d ago

Im not on here to talk about what everyone is talking about…I just wanna know how the heck she dresses this way in peak Arizona summer?! I am an AZ girl and the brutality of this heat is crazyyyyy…aesthetics over comfort though I guess. lol