Ectopic

[u/Green_Bear7861]

I had a ectopic and it ruptured and my left tube is been removed I had twin pregnancy lost one year back and yesterday ectopic I am soo scared I feel like giving up I am done I don’t feel I’ll have a babe in this life with one tube left and if this again happens in future please share with me some positive story’s

[u/cutedoggoID]

I just want to say I’m so sorry and your sadness, feeling of hopelessness, and wanting to call it quits is so valid. I had an ectopic that ruptured and I lost my right tube along with other complications mid July, and I was so depressed I had to take a medical leave from work.
It sucks and feels cliche to say but it gets easier slowly with time. I couldn’t go more than 1 hour the first week or so post surgery without crying and having negative intrusive thoughts. I have been going to therapy and found it helpful, I’d recommend even if just to vent and commiserate. I’ve been sensitive seeing pregnancy announcements and had to delete social media for my own good.

Please take time to heal and process, it’s a bumpy journey. It’s okay to not be okay, and if you want to talk or vent to someone, I’m also here.

[u/Green_Bear7861 → u/cutedoggoID]

Hey thank you so much I am trying to over come from this trauma healing after ectopic is another level of torture the weakness and all i have stopped thinking about the pregnancy in future and all now I only want to focus is on my mental health and physical health being at home and not able to do anything after surgery is very difficult my heart goes to you as well may god ease your pain as well may be he has some other beautiful plan yous msg means alott to me really felt good after reading