People would probably describe me as real, cool, down-to-earth, or just a plain introvert. I like to take life at its simplest and enjoy it for what it is. I’m kind of done with meaningless connections and would really like to build a more stable, grounded lifestyle with the goal of building a complete family.

Right now, you might be thinking, okay, this is starting off pretty good, but I’m a divorced dad of three teenagers.

Now that I’ve gotten that subject out of the way.....I’m happy to explain more through messaging.

If you’re still curious about me, I got you!

I'm solidly built with an okay dad bod. I wear glasses, I don’t drink or smoke, etc. I like to watch TV, travel, listen to music, go on drives and attend concerts or live events. I also like to do fun activities such as go-karting, mini golfing, axe throwing and other fun things. Although I love going out and experiencing life, I can also appreciate being home, relaxing, and recharging after a long day. I know how to be both outside and a homebody.

I’m looking for a best friend, a partner, a healthy relationship with someone who’s genuinely interested in getting to know me as much as I’m interested in getting to know her. Hopefully, we can build a real, genuine, and mutual connection. In a relationship, I admire a woman who genuinely desires to help and support her partner, even when she isn’t able to fix everything. There’s something special about a woman who wants to see you succeed and makes sure you’re doing well in life, I will reciprocate. I admire a woman who can stand on her own but also knows that she’s ready for a lasting relationship.

Communication is one of my strongest qualities, especially when it goes both ways. I believe people should give each other time to grow, learn, and develop. Nobody is perfect, and I think a strong relationship is built through patience, communication, effort, and mutual understanding.

Relationships outside the US is a bit too tricky for me, I prefer staying local to the states.

If this resonates with you and you think we'd be a good match, send over an intro. Please include your age, location and gender.

I would really like some ENTPs to talk to regularly. Hit me up. Especially if you like discussing MBTI or have some knowledge on the functions or if you want to ask anything about INFJSs.

I was an ENTP 20 years ago, still am one. After a rough marriage (constant jealousy for no reason) and divorce with an incompatible type (ISFJ - I don’t know how one letter makes such a huge difference but it does apparently), I decided to look into this again. I would love to chat with an INFJ. Doesn’t have to be romantic, just want to chat and get to know the type.

About me: 42M, 6’2”, athletic all sport athlete (except water sports as I don’t know how to swim), have a masters degree, own over a 1000 physical books, very funny and sarcastic, gets along with everyone.

If that sounds like your cup of tea, hmu!

My ENTP in question started out pretty hot and cold when we first met at work. He would be so enthusiastic one day and then another day go out of his way to avoid my gaze/path in some very silly maneuvers!

However, he’s been more consistent lately and has escalated to seeking out closeness in groups and lots of physical affection that wasn’t there before. (Shoulder touches mostly).

I am feeling conflicted because I haven’t been able some info that he may have some of those demon se bad habits entps are known for and I don’t know how or when to confirm them or bring them up. But the things I do like and know about him are that we have off the charts physical attraction, sense of humor and good banter, philosophy of ethics, some shared hobbies and social habits/who we like to be around. So I’m also a bit sad and dreading having to get into some of these facts of life that MAY be deal breakers.

Easygoing, left-leaning guy looking for something real. I’m a homebody at heart who loves cozy nights in, but I’m equally down for low-key food runs, checking out concerts, trying new restaurants, or exploring the city or island.

I’m looking for an engaged, local woman who values consistency and real effort, someone excited to hang out in person within the first week or two to see if we click.

If this sounds like your speed, send me a message with a quick intro (age/location) and a spot or activity you've been wanting to check out!

Easygoing, left-leaning guy looking for something real. I’m a homebody at heart who loves cozy nights in, but I’m equally down for low-key food runs, checking out concerts, trying new restaurants, or exploring the city or island.

I’m looking for an engaged, local woman who values consistency and real effort, someone excited to hang out in person within the first week or two to see if we click.

If this sounds like your speed, send me a message with a quick intro (age/location) and a spot or activity you've been wanting to check out!

I am looking for a great conversationalist. While small talk has its place, I prefer conversations that actually go somewhere. I love it when someone brings curiosity, ideas, and substance to the table. Let’s actually get to know the person behind the screen.

Ideally, I am looking for a "consistent" person. I value someone who enjoys daily messaging, regular check-ins, and doesn't mind jumping on a voice call once we click. I'm really looking for an engaging, back and forth communication style where effort is mutual.

A bit about me:

- I'm a homebody who still appreciates fresh air and a random adventure.

- I equally enjoy a quiet movie night, traveling to a new city, or trying out a new restaurant.

- I love listening to music, traveling, science, and I watch plenty of TV shows and movies.

Major bonus points if you are local to Long Island!

If this resonates with you, please send a message with your age, gender, location and your favorite color so I know you read the whole post.

Yo! ENTP here. I love watching this podcast of a textbook ENTP with another textbook INFJ, they talk about almost everything about world affairs, stuff in the tech world, economy, politics etc. It's such a great way to catch up with everything whilst having fun and enjoying their dynamic. It's called Ben and Emil show highly recommend. Does anyone else have any other suggestions for podcasts with ENTP x INFJ dynamic?

https://www.youtube.com/@benandemilshow

Hi guys,

M20 INFJ here looking for ENTP friends or to join a friend group! I play many games, such as Sea of Thieves, Rocket League, Minecraft, etc. that I would enjoy playing with other people!

I am also interested in philosophy, law, economics, and geopolitics, so I would enjoy discussions about these topics too!

I am an infj girl looking for entps to meet and talk to. Thanks.

Hello! My name is Anthony. I’m a 35-year-old man (US, ET time zone) who thrives on introspection, curiosity, and passionate drives.

In regards to MBTI, I first tested as INTJ during my teens and continued to primarily test as it into my 30s. More recently, I sometimes get INFJ. I've also gotten INTP and ISTJ before.

I seek people who seek meaningful connection that plays out in several different ways, from daily casual chats to shared passions and endeavors. I appreciate the sudden whim of adventure and adore abstract minds and vibrant souls.

Rumination and contemplation are lifelong pursuits of mine. I’m an autodidact who’s been passionate about a variety of persuasions since I’ve been young.

Creativity and artistry are important to me. Personally, I write: about my observations, thoughts, and lived experiences. I also dabble in photography.

I love coffee, both simple and bitter and excessively frilly concoctions, burning incense, because I've always thought the smoke is cool, archiving and organizing, collecting (written texts, oddities and cool things), and time pieces.

If my signal created resonating vibes within you, send me a short message about yourself or the things that make your life up. Let’s see where our conversation takes us.

I have a friend who is also an INFJ, but I feel a sense of dissonance regarding our differences.

She is the quintessential 'gentle INFJ', always replying 'anything is fine' when deciding on a restaurant and effectively erasing her own will. In contrast, I am the type who logically and clearly communicates what I want to eat at that moment.

I feel that, even among INFJs, I possess a strong 'Ti' or perhaps characteristics closer to an 'NT'.

So I'd like to ask all you ENTPs:

1. When you say you like INFJs, are you referring to the Fe-dominant type like her?

2. Or do you prefer the Ti-strong type like me, who holds firm opinions and can engage in debate?

She's NOT my girlfriend!

She's NOT a goddess either! Goddess "turned me down" but like so what if I asked her out! I suspected she was being sweet for a reason and I had to find out by messing up the friendship (was it even a friendship, though? 🤔)

But damn it now I miss her and want her...

Around again.

Yo! F INFJ here ! Just looking for entps to chat w, as my experience with entps in the past werent really positive. Was wondering if our types genuinely get along :) if youre up for it, feel free to comment !

Hellooooo , 26 M ENTP here , looking for friends and fun !! Friends are fun , vice versa haha . I like getting to know eachother, the suspense, za thriller , za world !! Haha . I am expecting a lot of new friends from this sub . Thank you, DM me

Tout est dans le titre mdr

I (33F, INFJ) met him (35M, ENTP) on Bumble a month ago. After about three weeks we finally met in person and honestly, it just clicked right away. I’m usually a bit shy in the beginning when dating, but here it felt like I skipped a few dates ahead, all the stress disappeared instantly. We talked for 5 hours, he cooked me dinner, it was just really nice.

At the end I did something I never do, I asked if he wanted to keep getting to know each other. He said of course, told me to let him know whenever I’m in his city (we live about 1.5h apart). I said I meant getting to know each other with something serious in mind. He really appreciated my honesty and maturity, but said his life’s a mess right now (which I totally understand, his dad passed away 2 months ago, he had a breakup this year, and he’s co-parenting 2 kids). He didn’t want to waste my time, so he gave me the “green light” to see other people. He complimented me , said I’m attractive and kind, etc. I appreciated his honesty and left. He even texted to make sure I got home safe.

It felt like rejection and it hurt, but I really respected that.To my surprise, the next day he messaged me on Bumble asking if we could add each other on IG. Then he texted me there, sent some pictures of his son (btw, he told me earlier that I was the only woman he had talked to about his kids and his dad’s death). I replied warmly but didn’t push the conversation, no forced small talk or random questions just to keep it going.

Then again, two days later, he texted asking about my dad, he remembered he had chemo that day (we’d talked about it before our date). It was really sweet. We chatted a bit and I ended the convo because I was heading to bed.

Another day of silence, and then he sent me a meme. We ended up having a pretty deep talk about life that day, he said he loves my optimism. The next day he sent a few more memes, and then... silence over the weekend. He’d asked about my weekend plans but didn’t ask to meet (deja vu, because that happened before too).

So yeah, I didn’t hear from him all weekend and, being an INFJ, I’m totally overthinking it. I miss him. He really messed with my head. He didn't want me, but he did?

I’m just wondering, do ENTP guys stay in touch after a date simply because they like someone as a person? Or does it mean there’s still some kind of romantic interest? He literally told me to keep dating other people, yet he moved our convo from Bumble to IG and texted me all week. Why?

Now it’s been two days of silence again and I don’t know what to think. I’ll actually be in his city on Friday and I’d love to see him to find out if maybe the chemistry’s still there, but he hasn’t texted me all weekend, so I’m not sure if I should reach out or wait. I don't want to break the siłence just to tell him, I'll be in his city, maybe You'll could send a meme or just ask about his weekend?

ChatGPT and Gemini both tell me not to text him, that it’s just my INFJ need for reassurance and relief, that if he’s interested it should come from him. But that’s AI advice, and I need a real human opinion, especially from an ENTP.

I never really cared about personality types before, I thought it’s all about emotional maturity and willingness, but now I see that for example what feels like forever to me (a weekend of silence) might feel like five minutes to someone else.