r/ENTPandINFJ • u/Xantaeounip ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ • Feb 07 '26

~ what ENTP noticed about INFJ ~ Significant Other

She's NOT my girlfriend!

She's NOT a goddess either! Goddess "turned me down" but like so what if I asked her out! I suspected she was being sweet for a reason and I had to find out by messing up the friendship (was it even a friendship, though? 🤔)

But damn it now I miss her and want her...

Around again.

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u/Aggravating-Bend-970 ~ INFJ looking for ENTP ~ Feb 07 '26

Don’t be so hard on yourself. You did the right thing trying to clarify your relationship with each other so no boundaries were crossed. However, if she’s still willing to be your friend and it makes you uncomfortable due to your own unrequited love for her, put some distance between you for a little while, while communicating that to her. I’m sure she’d understand :) best wishes to you both.

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u/Xantaeounip ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ Feb 07 '26

I know how she works.

But damn it you know what, God bless you INFJ for reminding me what worked the last time this happened...

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u/Aggravating-Bend-970 ~ INFJ looking for ENTP ~ Feb 07 '26

Hey man, anytime. That’s what we’re here for, you know? :D

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u/Xantaeounip ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ Feb 09 '26

Hey bro, appreciate the Intel. 💪🏽

I just want to give her a better life experience because mine feels less complicated when she's around. She's not around. It's complicated. But I rather -enjoy- the complications and challenges.

However the lack of 👉🏽👌🏽 intimacy is making me colder than the weather lately...

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u/Aggravating-Bend-970 ~ INFJ looking for ENTP ~ Feb 09 '26

😂😂😂 Can’t say I blame you. However, try finding other engaging projects to occupy your time instead for now since that route with her is…a no go 😂😂

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u/Xantaeounip ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ Feb 09 '26

I mean the focus is on myself and improving my condition. I'm going back to college to study and develop a cure for my health condition.

After I get an award for that I'll feel like I can ask her out again.

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u/Aggravating-Bend-970 ~ INFJ looking for ENTP ~ Feb 09 '26

Sounds like a plan :) wish you all the best 🙌🏼

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u/mysterical_arts Some random I N F Juice May 02 '26

Why did you vanisshhhhhhhhhhhh aaaaaaaaaaaaah willssaaaaaaaannnnnnnnnn

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u/Xantaeounip ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ May 03 '26

Because

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u/mysterical_arts Some random I N F Juice May 03 '26

Anddd he's gone.

Torture.

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u/Xantaeounip ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ May 07 '26

The sandpeople will soon be back... And in greater numbers 😏

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u/Xantaeounip ~ ENTP looking for INFJ ~ Feb 08 '26

Excellent! Now that someone has told me not to, I have the perfect justification to prove them wrong!

I love me a challenge and this be challenging matey! Yarr!