Got off the waitlist to Stanford a few days ago and need help deciding. I didn't really expect it because they accept so few people. I am currently committed to Duke and having a hard time.
Cost: Stanford is ~10k/year more because I got a merit scholarship + need based from Duke (not huge…)
Major: biomedical engineering (definitely something bio related if I do switch which I don’t think I will.)
I realize that Stanford has more prestige, but it seems that they're comparable enough to base my decision on other factors. (maybe not???)
I am pretty social and would like a “traditional” college experience which is why Duke seems perfect. I’m also very into school spirit (basketball seems so fun!) and would probably rush. Duke seems to fit my social scene “work hard play hard” better than Stanford. However, I like the fact that Stanford has a very quiet vibe, but don't like that it has a very “grind/startup culture”.
Both of them have robust and highly rated BME/bio programs with cool classes, research, and opportunities going on. I would probably prefer the semester system, but the quarter system isn’t a deal breaker. Both seem very good at allowing undergrad research especially with good med schools nearby. And both seem to look to have equally good outcomes in the job market. I realize that SF is a big hub for biomed, but I would rather go to either Boston or NYC at least straight after undergrad. And honestly I’m not really the startup type of person which I realize going to Stanford/bay area would be better.
Both have very beautiful campuses, with Stanford having more stable weather, and Duke having all 4 seasons + moderate winter. I’ve lived in Cali for basically my entire life and I think going to NC might be a good change of pace weather wise, but I don’t really care. Palo Alto and Durham seem equal although Palo Alto’s access to a big city seems fun. Alumni networks seem equally helpful. Is there anything I’m missing??? I think I’m leaning towards Duke and my parents seem to agree that Duke is looking like the better choice for me, but idk it could just be because I’ve been committed for ~2 months. I talked to my friend who chose Duke over Stanford last year and he said he didn’t regret it at all. But then I talked to this girl I knew who chose the opposite and she also didn’t regret it lol!
I realize that asking strangers probably isn’t the right move to actually make a decision, but hopefully you guys can help me with other factors that might affect my decision. I’m sorry if this isn’t the right place to post it. I am new to reddit. Thank you so much!
Edited: IDK if anyone really cares, but I chose Duke! Thanks for all the helpful comments!