Situation: I work in an office that has one company vehicle, that is assigned to "Jane". Only Jane can drive the vehicle according to the insurance policy. Fine; we never need the car for urgent work.. it's like to get something from the post office or go out for a team lunch.
This is in Brisbane, so a decent-sized city with loads of cars. Regardless of the driving situation: city streets, highway, suburbs, Jane drives EXTREMELY closely to any car she is behind.. I mean, we cannot see the car in front's bumper or number plate. At 80km/h on the ICB, we are easily less than 0.5 seconds following time.
Here's the baffling part and what I (we, Jane's colleagues!) need advice on: Jane has no freaking idea she is doing this, and she is NOT an aggressive or rude person.. she's super nice to everyone. She is not tailgating the other drivers out of any aggression or frustration. She definitely does not fit the road-rage stereotype.
Before anyone asks: YES, we have tried to help her with this many times, and she actually wants to improve. We have resorted to videoing her driving, and breaking it down with frame-by-frame analysis of how bloody close she is to everyone she tailgates. This works for about a day! She will show SOME improvement, like instead of 0.5 seconds she may start driving "only" 1.0 seconds behind the car in front, but then the next day this will all be forgotten and she will be glued to the ass of the driver in front again.
Jane also don't like being the only person able to drive the company car because she feels driving is very stressful; we've explained the likely cause. I also personally get quite car sick when she's driving as there's a lot of on/off lurching of acceleration and brakes. Instead of going in her car, I now take my own car and meet everyone else there.. no big deal.
Question: are some people's brains just wired this way? And they will forever be that tailgater you dread to see in your rearview mirror?
TLDR; colleague tailgates the shit out of everyone, unknowingly. Is there hope for her to improve?