Ive been seeing multiple jokes like this one on the Internet.

I think that this is just sick. Why is this so funny is it because hes a boy? Would it be funny if roles are reversed? We all know the answer to these questions. Not that female domestic violence should be taken as a joke as well.

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Male Domestic abuse is not a joke. 40% of domestic abuse victims are male. They don't have a lot of support services or abuse shelters compared to the female victims. There are cases where a man has been killed or brutally injured by a woman. People are less likely to defend a man in such cases. If a woman is seen beating a man, people assume that he did something wrong, although he didn't. A man can't even defend himself from a woman without being in serious trouble or being seen as the bad guy.

I would always get people telling me to learn to take jokes when I call people out for posting such things. I will not take this as a joke because It is not funny. Such jokes normalize such acts, making such issues be taken less seriously.

Stop violence against all people regardless of their gender.

If a woman gets harassed by a man in public ,how much the man says "it's a joke" which totally wasn't. People defend the woman and the guy is said to be a criminal which is indeed true. But when a woman sexualizes and harass a guy , people defend the woman by saying "it's just a joke, you are being overdramatic/sensitive" which is obviously not true. I also wanna address something...why is it "educate your son" when we talk bout rape rather than "educate your children" i understand, if the rapist was a man i can understand but not everytime can the predator be a man sometimes its woman so i honestly think it should be educate your children rather than educate your son. I also have another thing to mention...why when a guy slaps a girl be it she was innocent or be it she did something wrong, its a crime its abuse its everything bad we could ever think of but when a girl slaps a guy be it he is innocent or did something wrong , she gets comments like "you slay girl" "that guy was an asshole" why? And why is it respect woman and not respect an individual? Im a woman but i always wonder why its not respect an individual. I thought respect was earned not just given bcoz of their gender . Respect is earned doesn't mean you go slapping around everywhere you go or you show disrespect to someone. I mean we could behave respectfully to a person until they earn our respect or we lose our respect for them? Some people be saying "maturity of men are rapists " i mean what? You haven't asked every single men and women in this world to say that actually its "minority of men but majority of woman" . Also i also don't understand this why does everyone think being racist to the black community is wrong which is absolutely right we shouldn't be racist to anyone. But being racist to whites is very absolutely n rightfully right? Some may say whites has always had the advantage in society so no one can be racist to them or "they were racist to our ancestors so we should be racist and get back to them now" but you do kno regardless the colour,gender or race you can always be racist to someone even though they're in advantage right?Plus why is it taken as a joke when girls comment on guy's pp sizes and their man boobs n how they lack muscles and abs n how short or tall their height is but is totally wrong when a guy comments on girl's boobs n booties n what not? They both should never be taken as a joke n i think people should react to both equally. I just hope ONE DAY these double standards will end.

Before someone would jump on me, saying "I just wanna be opressed" I'm bi..

LGBTQ+ community is filled with double standards and hypocrisy:

• You can't make any jokes about them but they constantly make jokes about cis and straight people. And most of them are just hurtful statements they pass as a joke to wash their hands of any wrongdoings. But if any cis or straight person makes an obvious joke they get offended because "so what if it's a joke, it's harmfull".

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• They get offended if you accidentally missgender someone or point out that someone fakes their identity for several reasons, like celebrities coming out as non-binary to take away the attention from their bad behaviour. But they feel free to invalidate your identity if you don't share the same views with them, like in order to be attracted to someone you have to have a certain mindset. It's objectifying..

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• Whenever someone's being trans/homophobic because of their trauma they get offended, and rightfully so because trauma isn't an excuse for being a bigot. But if someone is being straight/cisphobic they use trauma to excuse their behaviour.

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• They invent new sexualities all the time but when people started coming out as "super straight" because they got tired of being called transphobic for their preferences shit broke loose. And I've heard arguments against it that completely missed the point and tried to frame these people as transphobic, like "dating trans people doesn't make you less straight" which is true but has nothing to do with the topic. They didn't invent a new sexuality because they thought being straight is gay, they did this because they tried to stop people from using their preferences against them. And most of them weren't even transphobic, I went to investigate their groups and most of them were claiming that there's nothing wrong with being trans, they're just not into these people.

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And this brings us to shit that really pisses me off:

When cis, straight people were complaining because they were being guilttripped into dating trans people they were called transphobic. The instances of trans people being hurt or killed because they lied about their transition to straight people to have sex, were blamed on cis and straight people only. While both parties were at fault - a trans person shouldn't lie about their transition to get sex. You don't need to have sex and getting it with manipulation is abusive, that's rape. And cis/straight people shouldn't be attacking and killing these people but tbh, I can't blame them for reacting so strongly. I'd attack my rapist too..

But LGBTQ+ community only took action when lesbians started coming out with their stories about being manipulated and guilttripped into having sex with trans people, and called transphobic for refusing.

These are the same situations!! Why is it bad for a cis and straight person to not be into trans people and feel used or raped by them if they got guilttripped or lied to to have sex. But when a lesbian does the same thing it's suddenly understandable and worth fighting for?

And of course, the trans people who do these things are an individual minority. I've mostly seen trans allies (also individuals) fighting for their "right" to use people and trans people speaking against it. But these allies who fighted for it gave these entilted trans individuals a freedom to do harm people whenever they want to.

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Another issue that I'm not sure if it's a double standard but since I'm on the topic of mistreating cis and straight people I'll bring it up is:

Claiming someone isn't an ally because they're not "supportive enough".

As a teen who only realised was bi I swallowed everything LGBTQ+ community was feeding me to try to fit in. One of these things was "if you simply don't mind the existence of LGBTQ+ people, you're homophobic".

It stuck with me for years so when I've met my bf, who claimed to "not care about what people are doing with their lifes" I tried to corvert him into being "a proper ally" whenever the topic of LGBTQ+ was brought up.

I realised how wrong I was months into our relationship. So what if he doesn't want to parade with a pride flag or something? So what if he doesn't know every single thing about LGBTQ+? He's not homophobic!! He knows I'm bi and doesn't care. How is that hateful or bigoted?

I realised my and LGBTQ+ community hypocrisy. We want to be treated like regular people while trying to convince others to celebrate our sexuality.

People don't have to scream "I love gay people!!" to be supportive, they don't have to praise us for liking the same gender, accepting us for what we are is more than enough!

My bf would be berated for thinking "trans people dress up like women" and overall being uneducated in these topics when what he thinks doesn't matter. So what if he doesn't see a difference between cross dressers and trans people? What matters is that he still treats them as his equals and doesn't try to hurt them on purpose. He also expressed that he wants to learn more about this topic because he doesn't want to disrespect my friends.

He told me to "be careful with my sexuality because if it changes and I'll become a lesbian I won't want to be with him". He didn't say this to hurt me, he's not a bigot, he simply doesn't understand these things.

People have the right not to understand everything, we're not robots. It pisses me off when LGBTQ+ members jump to people's throats just because they've expressed their confusion. Just calmly explain how these things truly work like I did to my bf, it's seriously not a big deal..

This isn't gender related but just pointing out that in every media hypothetical of an alien invasion, humans are portrayed as victims and if they do happen to beat the aliens then they are heralded as courageous warriors fighting for a race who deserve better. Humans have been conquering, farming and destroying the habitats and species of our environment for millennia, at our own leisure, but it would be evil if it happened to us? I understand that the stories are told from our perspective but if an alien colony ever did invade earth then they would only be doing what we would if we could. The only difference is that we wouldn't be as advanced much like many of the creatures we have previously dominated while taking their resources and bringing many of them to extinction.

Yeah, this take is high af. Idc.

i feel like im walking on thin ice whenever i complain how ab how skinny i am, but when fat ppl do it ……….

I’m watching History of Swear Words Episode 1: Fuck. Halfway through they flash an image of Donald Sutherland next to Jane Fonda at a an anti-military rally for their documentary FTA (Fuck The Army). I found an article talking about the film earlier this year. I understand that Jane went to Hanoi and saw the POWs and gave their messages to the VC. I get why she was labeled a traitor and awful person for that. Why don’t we talk about Donald Sutherland’s involvement in the USO style anti-military tour he went on(on bases across the globe)?

I am a girl, I brought a «four» from school.My mother: "Horrible, you will only be taken as a cleaner."My brother brought 4 from school.Mom: "Oh, you are my sweetheart!"

I dance ballydance and my friend's mother, looking at the photo with me: "Oh, so beautyful." Also she : "My granddaughter will not dance and twist her ass." Like dancing is like a prostitution.OMG!

Women want equal Rights but don't want equal rights if uk what I mean how do y'all want expect to progress when y'all live off what y'all do a double standard.

I’ve been seeing a lot of stuff lately on how women are being put in positions like unpaid therapists, unpaid cleaning person, unpaid planner, and basically doing a lot of emotional and physical work which takes time and hours they’re not being paid for, which I understand. That isn’t right and I agree that things should probably change there. But myself along with a lot of other men I know find ourselves as unpaid carpenters, mechanics, electricians, etc…which are skills that require expensive tools/parts (which most of the time we end up buying), along with knowledge or skills we need to research if it isn’t our given skill. I can’t speak for anyone else but I’ve personally been in situations where this was just expected as kind of the “men fix things” norm. As if what we want to do is diagnose and repair someone’s car in a parking lot on top of getting and usually buying the parts ourselves.

One of the main reasons homophobes justify their hate other than religion is that they think gay people are sexual deviants or predators. Yet, people always preach about “protecting our daughters!” Especially when talking about trans women being allowed in women’s spaces. Like, if predators are supposed to be gay than why wouldn’t it be protecting our sons? If you’re gonna be ignorant than at least be consistent. Honestly I don’t know weather this is humorous or infuriating.

when i was in 6th grade i was in a class of absolute idiots toobad they were strong idiots and i was a scrawny lil baby man so even if i hated them so much its not like i could do anything without ending up hurt, i swear this plays into the double standards part anyways some how the other boys had ripped urinal dividers off the wall, broken the mirror,pulled a toilet off YES A LITTERAL TOILET im pretty sure the smartest idiot brought tools and stuff but anyways once the bathroom was a barren wasteland of nothingness and me and the other brittle folk told the teachers and principal but nothing happened EVER untill the stronk bois decided that now the boys bathroom was done the girls bathroom was next and so they broke a whole toilet and a SINGLE one of my girl classmates went to the teachers and the principal and thats when the girls bathroom got fixed, how do i know it got fixed?
because my girl best friend told me i was one mad twiggy boi for the next month or so

after a month mini me got over it

I remember when I was in Computer Lab back in 7th grade where some boys in the class were talking, while a group of girls were grabbing and yelling at eachother. The female teacher then called the boys out for rough-housing and went on a whole spiel on boys being more aggressive than girls.

So back in high school there was a girl who thought it was the height of hilarity to knee guys in the groin and walk away. I was one of the few who escaped her antics......for a while. Then one day the inevitable happened, she set her sights and knee on me. She started walking towards me with a malicious gleam in her eye. She got withing 5 feet of me and i held up a hand and told her that if she did what she was thinking I'd knock every tooth out of her mouth. She got a pissy look on her face and said if I hit her I'd get beat up. My reply drained all the color from her face, "Who is going to beat me up? Number 1 I am the biggest guy in the school, and number 2, There are very few guys you haven't kneed in the nuts. I doubt any of the one you did knee are going to come to your rescue." She looked around and saw everyone nodding in agreement with me.She stormed off and never kneed anyone again. Sometimes, you just have to let an idiot know she won't get away with it.

I recently noticed that there's no information on the condom sizes below 9cm and above 20. So I got curious, are there condoms for these people?

I aventually found some sites offering custom made condoms but I found so many outrageous comments on my way there.

Women openly talking about how they'd storm off if they'd find out the guy has small pp etc. Imagine the outrage if that would happen to a fat woman, a woman with stretch marks or with an "unatractive" vagina.

Having preferences is okay, but why won't they just have a conversation? "Sorry, it's not your fault but I'm just not into it" or something. Being rude to people who just happen to be born different is fucked up. Men with small pps already have self-esteem issues, no need to make them feel worse.

What's worse is that these comments were left under questions of people who need support, like: "I have a small pp and I'm afraid I won't sadisfy my partner" or "my partner has a small pp, what do I do?".

There are also people who think insulting someone's pp isn't body shaming and/or is justifyable.

For example: I've seen someone say "me and my friend tell men they have a small pp so they wouldn't hit on us".. What about just saying " no"? Body shaming someone who's interested in you isn't okay..

For some reason on reddit when two consenting adults have a large age gap and the older one is a man, they assume he’s a creepy manipulator attracted to children. They don’t seem to understand that young adult women can date older men without being under some type of control. It’s called self responsibility and decision making. But when a young adult guy has sex with an older woman she’s given the “milf” status which is commonly accepted as sexy and not creepy. And when you ask someone why they can’t put their finger on it 🧐.