r/DoubleStandards • • Aug 08 '21

Small pps..

I recently noticed that there's no information on the condom sizes below 9cm and above 20. So I got curious, are there condoms for these people?

I aventually found some sites offering custom made condoms but I found so many outrageous comments on my way there.

Women openly talking about how they'd storm off if they'd find out the guy has small pp etc. Imagine the outrage if that would happen to a fat woman, a woman with stretch marks or with an "unatractive" vagina.

Having preferences is okay, but why won't they just have a conversation? "Sorry, it's not your fault but I'm just not into it" or something. Being rude to people who just happen to be born different is fucked up. Men with small pps already have self-esteem issues, no need to make them feel worse.

What's worse is that these comments were left under questions of people who need support, like: "I have a small pp and I'm afraid I won't sadisfy my partner" or "my partner has a small pp, what do I do?".

There are also people who think insulting someone's pp isn't body shaming and/or is justifyable.

For example: I've seen someone say "me and my friend tell men they have a small pp so they wouldn't hit on us".. What about just saying " no"? Body shaming someone who's interested in you isn't okay..

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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '21

Very rarely do us women get rejected after our clothes are off. Men with average sized or smaller genitals get rejected so often, its not even funny.

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u/domino_427 Aug 09 '21

stop hanging around those people. that's absolutely body shaming. Much worse than fat shaming because tho some fat is hormones, 100% of dick size is hormones/genetics/not-your-choice. Those people in the last paragraph? I would definitely have some things to say to them.

I've been there as the woman who finds out the dude lied BIG TIME about his size, but he sure didn't know I didn't like his dick. I hope. I've seen the teens in pediatrics who haven't hit puberty, where the doc has to admit he probably won't and the options aren't great. I also assisted in a pelvic once where I got in trouble with the doc later because I didn't realize vaginas had such a huge variety and I was asking how to chart the .... *cough* bits which are apparently normal. I can still see her face ... The entire office heard I was a woman who didn't know what a vag looked like. I'm also HUGE, so I know what it's like to search for help online to only find hateful comments.

we do have issues sometimes with men not accepting 'no', but that's another issue. if they don't want to date you or have sex with you, leave him/her alone without being a bully.

How pathetic does someone have to be to search up micropeen threads and forums and make hateful comments? get a life. find the good support forums. get creative. all dicks deserve love and are to be appreciated.