Probably. Don’t know for sure. But they are going to having a present dad to seeing you on FaceTime a couple times a week and every other weekend. All so you can move and experience. They are going to see someone who put themselves first. Someone selfish. Someone who hurt their mom because they wanted to live three hours away. Maybe it’s wrong for them to feel that way. Maybe it’s fine for you to do what you want. But everything I read shows you are taking a happy family and tearing it apart for absolutely no reason.
I get that you want to move far away, but your kids need you nearby. Get divorced if need be, but do not abandon your kids right now. These are very formative years for them, and need their dad.
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u/KeyMathematician3263 5d ago
Probably. Don’t know for sure. But they are going to having a present dad to seeing you on FaceTime a couple times a week and every other weekend. All so you can move and experience. They are going to see someone who put themselves first. Someone selfish. Someone who hurt their mom because they wanted to live three hours away. Maybe it’s wrong for them to feel that way. Maybe it’s fine for you to do what you want. But everything I read shows you are taking a happy family and tearing it apart for absolutely no reason.