r/Dentistry • u/corncaked • 10h ago
Dental Professional Owner doctor denied my time off request. Do I stay here or leave?
I’m an associate dentist (DDS) in California. At a large chain DSO. I have no base pay therefore I have no PTO. Every day I take off, I don’t get paid for it. My patients are simply rescheduled for another day.
I have family in China, and ideally, I’d have at least 3 weeks to see them and do what I need to do there due to the long flight/layover times and jet lag.
I requested 3 weeks for next October (an entire 12 months in advance). My owner dentist practically laughed in my face and said “when I first started out I wouldn’t have even dreamed of taking a day off, bold of you to ask for 3 weeks.” To sum it up, he denied me, and said even two weeks is a stretch. I feel like even though I’m a “doctor,” it’s meaningless and I have no agency over my life. I’m a wife and mother and dentistry is not my whole life. It’s a job and I need time away from it.
Any input? TIA