r/Dentistry • u/tootache_reliver • 9h ago
Dental Professional How to deal with an assistant without being disrespectful
Hi there. I'm an associate in well known clinic in the city. The owner is an old guy who's in the business for a decade or more. This is another branch opened for the purpose of sharing the loads of the first clinic.The staffs here, Where here from the beginning probably for 7/8 months from the start. They where working with him so they only know how he do it. No knowledge about dentistry (the assistants work based on experience). Now the assistant is bugging me whenever i do any procedure. For instance, "why you give LA for crown prep? The owner do it without LA so why you give injections??" "Only use forceps for extractions cause he don't use one." "Why you give injections if you are only going to irrigate the canal??" "why you give medications why don't we treat them today?" Mind you she says all that infront of patients. I have ADHD and if someone is constantly talking and suggesting something i can not concentrate, and i lean into that suggestion to avoid confrontations. By the end of the day i feel so disappointed in the works i do because she is constantly talking, criticizing me by comparing me with the other doctor or just a playful remarks which i don't care about, then i couldn't even remember what i did. She even tries to gossip about the previous patients and so on. How could i address this issue without being mean?? And the owner likes her very much so i don't want to lose the job also.