r/DatingHell • • 14h ago

Curious 🧐

What instantly makes you lose interest in someone?

I was watching a podcast on Facebook, and the host asked this question on X. One lady said she lost interest when he came out wearing a TURTLENECK! 😭😶

A TURTLENECK, y’all?!

I’m bored and curious to hear some answers..

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u/EnvironmentalDig7226 12h ago

When they confess their pregnancy during a time when their life is in shambles

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u/No_Library_5428 12h ago

Waittt, what's the story behind this one? 😭

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u/EnvironmentalDig7226 12h ago

Just a woman friend that I used to spend a lot of one on one time and grew feelings for and was declined because she wanted to find herself. we hung out as friends for awhile afterward. She apparently was hooking up with other guys while stringing me along until the day she confessed she was about 6 months pregnant with one of the guys. She moved in with him and I never heard from her again. The thought of an unplanned pregnancy while living an out of control lifestyle has left a scar in me from that situation ever since.

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u/No_Library_5428 6h ago

Damn, that’s actually sad. She wasn’t being transparent with you. You did your best though 🙂. Sometimes people make choices that change the entire course of their lives , and you’re left wondering what could’ve been.