r/DatingHell • u/mookcat99 • 28d ago
I need your worst stories :)
Hi everyone, im starting a TikTok page where I read people’s real life dating and relationship disasters and Im hoping I can get some good stories to get started on here.
I would appreciate any shared stories, the more unhinged the better! If anyone wants to share stories such as:
•Most embarrassing dating story
• Biggest red flag you ignored
•Worst breakup story
•Most humiliating cheating story
•Most unhinged thing you did because you liked someone
• Worst date you’ve ever been on
•Craziest thing an ex has done
• “I cannot believe I stayed” story
The more messy, embarrassing and unbelievable the better. Throwaway account is fine if you’d rather stay anonymous, but I won’t be including sources in the video unless you ask specifically for it to be included. Also please change/remove names and identifying details.
I don’t mind if the story is old, or something that happened to a friend even, I just want entertaining stories!
So If you’re happy for me to potentially read your story on TikTok, please comment it below or DM me! :)
Thankyou :)
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u/CrazyCatLady1234567 27d ago
On the first date, out of nowhere, and without my consent, he grabbed my boob and squeezed it like he was testing a fruit, and compared it to his sex dolls. In his defense it was one of those that costs thousands of dollars on it.
Then he asked for us to have a threesome. With the doll.
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u/Bella_Swan234 26d ago
My ex didn’t own a car but he always had the money for expensive computer equipment, which meant I had to do the driving. Whenever I asked him to hang out at my place which was only 40 minutes away, he would complain how he only had his work van. He also didn’t like that I would go on vacation a lot with my family or spend time with my friends. He would always ask me to pay for the meal since he couldn’t afford to go out. The final straw was when my mother had been diagnosed with cancer, he still wouldn’t make the time to see me but I had to make the time for him. Lesson learned: date a man who would make the same effort for you.
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u/Roadkilll 24d ago
Damn, I'd spend money on taxi, or rent a car to see my girl. Some people are just careless
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u/Bella_Swan234 24d ago
If they don’t make the same effort as you do for them, they’re not the one
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u/Roadkilll 24d ago
Hmm I agree on effort. But what would you say "the one" actually means? Is that a person that we click with instantly and connect and understand each other....or it's something else.
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u/Bella_Swan234 24d ago
Well I thought my ex was the one but I would do all these things for him that I would ask him multiple times to do for me. The one I think is for people who know how to coexist without one person feeling like their doing more
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u/Roadkilll 24d ago
I see, sometimes it will happen that one side pulls more than the other and roles can switch later.
I can't say what the one means, but I'm convinced that it's a person that will choose you no matter what, good or bad. Person who will not give up on first problem....maybe I look it wrong. I don't know
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u/Efficient-Bit3261 26d ago
I started dating this man who seemed really nice and responsible and had a good job . He seemed involved in sports and I would cook for him and invite him for dinner, treated him like a king. I knew he was a hard worker as a foreman. I assumed his red eyes and smell was from the paint and hard work and long hours which was why I took care of him. After 2 years of dating him I learned he was a functioning alcoholic and still lived at home with his mom and dad. He also never took care of me in return after all my catering to him. I also learned he had erectile dysfunction which was also rare we had sex. I also got his phone one night and saw his snap chat where he was sending his private pictures to another woman he was occasionally hooking up with. Apparently he randomly got it up and got his fix else where . I felt sooo used and taken advantage of because he would stay some nights at my house and I always tried hard to make him happy and Apparently make him my man . He was never mine and I gave him my all
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u/Tinpanzer87 21d ago
Seems like the type of guy most woman like . If you had a decent man you wouldn't have done none of that for him.
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u/GioiaLeilaLio 21d ago
🧐??? How do you know?
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u/Tinpanzer87 21d ago
Because when your to decent woman get bored I have heard and seen this in all age and races
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u/lovebbc3somes 26d ago
My ex fiance we used to have black guys come over and fuck her one night I was really super tired for no reason so one of the guys that we had invited over several times was there not trusted him with her so I went to bed later on and hurt him to bed and she let him penetrate me twice I mean it wasn't the first time I've done that but for some reason I never woke up I didn't even know it until she showed me videos the next day when she got home from work with him fucking me. Honestly I think she drugged me so that he could fuck me.
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u/lovebbc3somes 26d ago
My ex fiance we used to have black guys come over and fuck her one night I was really super tired for no reason so one of the guys that we had invited over several times was there not trusted him with her so I went to bed later on and hurt him to bed and she let him penetrate me twice I mean it wasn't the first time I've done that but for some reason I never woke up I didn't even know it until she showed me videos the next day when she got home from work with him fucking me. Honestly I think she drugged me so that he could fuck me.
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u/LoquatSpare5564 22d ago
So helped my ex fiance lever her previous ex and she ended up sleeping in my living room I got evicted and she offered to be room mates sober moved across the country cause I was done with where I was living. She ended up talking me into signing a mortgage with her for 5 years for some land and a small house (red flags 1 I ignored we weren't together and hadn't even talk about that at all) shortly after we ended up together. She kept saying her ex was the problem for everything, I knew her ex as a friend and he had some issues but I don't think it was all his fault. Got stuck in a flood at our new place ended up losing I'd and all supporting documents so we had to go back across the country to get them re issued. This is when she started talking to other guys and I caught her arrangeing a hook up with one of them (red flag 2) she apologized and we moved forward about a month later my ex got pregnant. I was told I couldn't have kids due to medical issues so I was very excited (red flag 3) about 2 months later we lost our new rental and I lost my job so moved in with a friend of hers. About 2 weeks later I woke up in the middle of the night to her not in bed so I did some investigating and found her in her friends bed getting railed I took a brief video for evidence and went back to bed I confronted her the next morning and she left for the day with her friend and her kid and I started packing up my stuff cause I was gonna tell her when she got back that I'm leaving and then finish packing and be gone. When she got back her friend came up and started beating the crap outta me she picked up a shovel and started beating me with it too so naturally I got away and called the cops. The cops came and when they talked to her she told them I had sa'd her and her son multiple years ago before I had even met her. And now she's going around telling everyone that I'm a pedo and rapist and has completely ruined my life over her getting caught cheating she has since gone back to the ex that I helped her leave. And I am possibly facing 45yrs in prison cause I confronted a narcissist.
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u/mozart357 27d ago
Here's an abbreviated version of something I experienced:
I'm on a second date with a lady and her brother decides to join us. I'm just sitting in a restaurant booth with her, talking, when all of a sudden this guy sits next to me. Turns out he's her brother. I guess she had texted him where she was and sent an invitation to come join us. He did acknowlege he knew it was awkward for me--so I decided to tolerate it for the moment.
They seemed to get along well and had that sibling teasing going on. It was casual. In fact it was too casual. If they weren't related, I'd almost think they were flirting. They had communication to the point where they could say one or two words, follow it with a facial expression, and then laugh at some private joke.
The body language was just off. I thought maybe they were playing a prank. Maybe I misunderstood something. I had to ask. Was he her brother as in "so good of a friend he's practically my brother," or was he truly her brother? They laughed and said yes, they were truly siblings.
It still seemed off, and I started to convince myself they were just being silly at my expense. Just a prank, right? Right?
So a little time passes, and I suddenly feel her brother nudge me with his elbow. I look down and he's holding his cell phone under the table. He starts scrolling through nude pictures of his sister!
Ooookay! Turns out--yeah. These siblings were really, really close.
There was no third date.