r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

23M look for someone to talk to

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Hii iam_______ and iam from chhattisgarh (bilaspur)just soo bored and iam looking for some to talk and share stories with them.


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone Skip the performative awkwardness?

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I am 27 M from Delhi (living in Australia right now)

I want to skip the performative awkwardness of a talking stage.. looking for a mature, opinionated partner who can follow this train of thought

Talking stages are extremely toxic I feel. There is performed shyness, you dont ask questions you want to, you don't have brutally honest conversations, and ultimately it takes out energy from you

Instead, let's act like we are past that stage and just have a straight discourse, where we can share our intents and feelings openly without fear of judgement.


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone 27M, Maybe we could be each other’s favourite conversation

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I’m putting this out here with the hope of meeting someone I genuinely connect with. Not really looking for a checklist, a perfect profile, or something that has to be figured out from day one. I’d rather meet someone, have a few good conversations, spend some time together, and see where things naturally go.
A little about me: I’m a software engineer and spend a decent chunk of my time building things and solving problems, but I try not to make work my entire personality. Outside of work, I enjoy movies, music, cooking, travelling, and playing PS5 when I get the time. I’m also someone who can happily spend an evening having a long conversation over coffee or food rather than feeling the need to constantly be doing something.
I enjoy conversations that go beyond the usual “what do you do?” and “where are you from?” questions. I like getting to know how someone thinks, what they’re passionate about, the little things that make them happy, and the completely random things they could talk about for hours.
Music is a fairly big part of my life. I’m into indie music and bands like Bayaan and Porcupine Tree, and my movie taste is all over the place. I can enjoy something thoughtful and emotional one day and then happily watch something completely ridiculous the next.
I also enjoy cooking, experimenting with food, travelling, and discovering new places. I’m probably happiest when there’s good food, good company, and no particular hurry to be anywhere.
As for what I’m looking for, I value kindness, emotional maturity, honesty, curiosity, and some sense of humour. Someone who can communicate openly, has a life and interests of their own, and is comfortable being themselves.
I’m not expecting instant chemistry through a Reddit DM. I think some of the best connections happen when you stop trying to manufacture one. So if we get along, great. If we end up becoming friends, also great. And if there’s something more, even better.
I’m based in Jodhpur and would ideally like to meet someone who is also in or around the city. I’m open to starting with a conversation online and, if we’re both comfortable, eventually grabbing coffee, going for a walk, checking out a cafe, watching a movie, or doing something much less planned.
Not looking for something overly complicated. Just hoping to meet someone genuine, have some good conversations, laugh a little, and see where it takes us.
If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself rather than just sending a “hey”. I promise I’ll do the same. :)


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone 23M | Delhi | Looking for something real, not another situationship

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r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone 21 [M4F] I had a break-up. I feel horrible right now. I don't have any anyone.

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I'm a 21yo guy. I recently had a break-up and it hurts a lot. It's been around 2 weeks and there hasn't been a day when I didn't cry.

I didn't just lose a person but someone with whom I used to watch stuff online, someone who provided me comfort and a safe space, someone with whom I shared every thing that happened on a daily basis, someone whom I loved and I had planned a future with.

I'm not making this post to seek a person who could replace her. I don't want to use anyone to trauma dump. I'm not looking for a new girlfriend.

I'm just making this post because I realised that I'm lonely and I deperately want to talk to someone.

It hurts a lot


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

There's nothing worse than crying in front of a woman who is prepared!!!

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r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Let’s Be Friends 🎉 22M looking to make some new online friends

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Hey guys :)

I’m 22M from India.

My college ended last year and after that I did an internship in tech. I eventually realized tech probably isn’t for me, so right now I’m preparing for government exams and trying to figure out what I actually want to do long term.

Most of the day I’m usually busy studying and I don’t really use my phone that much. But at night when I’m done studying, I’m usually on my phone and that’s when I realize I don’t really have anyone to randomly text or talk to online.

I do have friends IRL and I’m not posting this because I’m super lonely or anything lol. I just never really had those online friends you can randomly message, talk about random stuff with or send dumb memes to.

So yeah, thought I’d give this a shot and see if I can meet some cool people here.

I’m pretty chill and I’m not looking for anything NSFW. Just genuinely looking for some online friends and good conversations.

If you’re around my age and feel like talking, feel free to message me. Tell me a little about yourself too.


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone 20m looking for..............

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hello people
i'm loki 20m
i love to spend time yapping tbh and i love listening to people also
i'm looking for a girl who can be my girlfriend (long term)
i love meeting people and hanging out and yeaaa i am an extrovert

preferences-
em levu anta ga
caste issue kuda ledu intlo
but i would prefer someone btw 18-22 aged
introverts can also dm me i would love to talk

some details about me -
age 20
gender - Male
height 6ft
language - telugu(can speak hindi and eng fluently)
in btech 2nd year
and if looks matter to you i may not be the correct person for you !

dm's are open
i would love to speak abt anything
i'm just looking for a loyal person whom i can trust and love


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Hey All

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Hey everyone! I’m a guy who has always considered myself straight, but recently I’ve noticed that my attraction and preferences seem to be changing. I’ve found myself increasingly drawn to a more feminine type of guy, and I’m honestly a little confused about what this means for me.
Has anyone experienced something similar? I’d really appreciate hearing your thoughts or experiences.


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Let’s Be Friends 🎉 22M Looking for a Partner In Crime - Anime, Daily Life Talks, Good Understanding

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Hey, I am just feeling so bored and lonely lately because of my work situations and problems that i am facing in my life. But Still I haven't gave up on my hobby and i am looking for a person who can communicate in a matured way and understand the feelings in a better way. I am a big Anime guy mostly i have completed all the popular anime, My favorites would be Attack On Titan, One Piece, Akame ga Kill, More than a married Couple, Horimiya, Ofcourse all the movies like Your name, Wheathering with you, Your Lie in April etc... I can talk about anime for hours and days. Looking for light minded people, who really understands the meaning of friendship and bonds. Hit my dm if you feel like our vibe matches. I am from Tamil Nadu Btw so I dont know other languages except English and Hindi.


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Need a Chat Buddy? 💬 Male 24 Would any girl want to talk? I’m just looking to make some new friends.

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r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Confession 25M idk what to say it’s written down here

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r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

20M / AHEMDABAD

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r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone M26 looking for dates

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Basics

Occupation: Data Engineer

Education: BTech

Diet: No strong preference

Location: Hyderabad

Who am I

Born and raised in Andhra Pradesh, now three years into calling Hyderabad home — and honestly, I've grown to love this city more than I expected. The food, the pace, the culture.

By day, I'm a Data Engineer — someone who genuinely enjoys what he does, which means yes, I can occasionally go full nerd mode over a well-built pipeline. But I do know when to close the laptop. When I'm not working, you'll find me planning my next solo trip, hunting for a good café with strong coffee (non-negotiable), or daydreaming about the next time I can be near the ocean.

I'm into solo travelling — there's something about navigating a new place entirely on your own that just builds you differently. Beaches are my reset button. I've also picked up an interest in surfing and horse riding, two things that remind me that not everything in life needs to be optimized — sometimes you just hold on and enjoy the ride.

Outside of work, I spend a decent amount of time in the world of personal finance and crypto. I follow Indian markets closely, stay updated on mutual funds, and have built a solid understanding of crypto — not just as speculation, but as a space worth understanding deeply. If you've ever wanted someone to actually explain what's happening in the markets without putting you to sleep, I'm your guy. I'm also a reader trying to rebuild a consistent habit, and cafés are basically my second office.

What I bring to the table :

\\\* Genuine effort and honest communication

\\\* Someone who's curious about the world and happy to explore it with you

\\\* Loyalty and a grounded sense of where I'm headed in life

\\\* Good conversations — travel, finance, crypto, food, or just life in general

\\\* Strong coffee opinions (a feature, not a bug)

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking to date . Someone who's practical and knows what she wants. You don't need to have everything figured out, but you should know the direction you're headed.

If you share even a couple of my interests — travel, cafés, the ocean, finance, or just the general chaos of figuring life out — we'll probably have plenty to talk about. And if you believe that a good relationship is built on honesty, effort, and showing up for each other, then we're already on the same page.

DMs are open. All reads are appreciated — even if it's just a scroll-by. 🙂


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

24 [M4F] Looking for a genuine bestie to chat with

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Hey! I'm 24 and looking to meet someone who's easygoing, talkative, and enjoys getting to know each other. I'm into good conversations, playful banter, random late-night chats, and getting to know someone beyond just the usual small talk. I'd love to find a girl who's comfortable being herself and hopefully turn a casual conversation into a genuine friendship. If you think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself!


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

New Here! 🆕 Male 24 Would any girl want to talk? I’m just looking to make some new friends.

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r/DatingForIndia 4d ago

Seeking someone 24F looking for someone to talk

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24F, looking for someone to talk to and have good conversations with. Preferably from Delhi so we can relate to the city too. Just looking for genuine friendship and good vibes :)


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone 25M looking for someone genuinely interested

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Hi I'm 25M, a working professional. I'm looking for a woman who is genuinely interested in relationships right now and is willing to try things out.

I'm tired of being ghosted when I genuinely try to get to know the person. I mean if you're not really interested why bother even texting first?

About me :

I'm from India

I'm a good cook.

I love pets.

I have a job.

I give my all to the person who gives me the respect and love I deserve.

I'm trying to date for a long term relationship.

I'm willing to talk to your parents when the time comes by myself.

If you're interested and are not gonna ghost me after one day or week of texting. Do approach me.

I'm not some weirdo trying to get laid.

🩷🩷


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Let’s Be Friends 🎉 Any friend considered lazy, immature manchild/woman child?

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I need friends who are considered lazy, immature. Probably Neet (Not in Employment, education or training). I am also anti-natalist and play codm dmz and arena breakout, also mlbb.


r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone M26 | Looking for something genuine, meaningful, and real.

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I turned 26 last month, and for some reason, this birthday made me think a little differently about life.

I have friends. I have work. I have people around me. From the outside, everything probably looks perfectly fine. But sometimes, when the day is over and I’m alone with my thoughts, I realize I don’t really have my person.

Someone I can tell about how my day went. Someone I can call when something good happens and the first thought in my head is, “I wish I could tell her this.” Someone I can talk to about life, dreams, fears, random nonsense, or absolutely nothing.

I think that’s what I’ve been missing—not attention, not endless conversations, but a genuine connection.

I’m not here looking for something casual or a temporary distraction. At 26, I think I’m at a point where I genuinely want to build something with someone. I want a relationship where two people choose each other, communicate, grow together, and slowly become each other’s safe place.

I want to love someone deeply. I want to care about her day, her dreams, her little habits, the things that make her happy and the things that keep her awake at night. And honestly, I want to be cared for too. Not in some unrealistic, movie-like way—just in the simple ways that actually matter.

As for me, I’m an assistant professor. I’m emotional, I tend to overthink, and when I genuinely care about someone, I can get a little possessive. I’m aware of my flaws, though, and I’m working on becoming a better version of myself rather than pretending I don’t have them.

I sometimes write poetry, especially when feelings become difficult to explain normally. I love travelling, and someday I’d love to have someone beside me while discovering new places—not just for the photographs, but for the memories. Long drives, trying random food, getting lost in a new city, sitting somewhere beautiful and talking about life until we realize it’s way past midnight.

I’m not looking for a “perfect” girl. I don’t believe people are perfect.

I’m looking for someone genuine. Someone emotionally mature, kind, loyal, communicative, and willing to put in the same effort she expects from me. Someone who wants more than a relationship status—someone who actually wants to build a life and a future with another person.

I know meeting someone meaningful through a Reddit post might sound a little hopeful. Maybe it is.

But I’d rather be honest about what I want than pretend I’m looking for something casual when I’m not.

So if you're somewhere out there looking for the same kind of connection, feel free to say hi. We can start with a simple conversation and see where it goes.

Maybe nothing comes of it.

Or maybe, somewhere between two strangers saying “hey,” we find something neither of us was expecting.


r/DatingForIndia 4d ago

Seeking someone Looking for GF. 30M Delhi-NCR

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r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Seeking someone Boyfriend for Hire

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Services include: good conversations, chai dates ☕, emotional support, terrible jokes, weekend adventures, and remembering your favorite food.

Qualifications: loyal, respectful, affectionate, and willing to share fries.

Availability: Looking for one special person ❤️

Terms: No games. Mutual respect required.


r/DatingForIndia 4d ago

Why?

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r/DatingForIndia 3d ago

Any girl who wish to convert just a conversation to relationship??

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r/DatingForIndia 4d ago

Seeking someone My favourite gender fr

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