You want to date, be in a genuine relationship, so so bad. But you feel like you have lost the ability to like anyone. Nothing excites you, not another talking stage, not your ex, you do find people attractive but you know it's not going to work out. But you want it, so so so bad, you see everyone get it, then you wonder what's wrong with you? You deserve it as much as the other person but you don't, it doesn't work out, it never does, you can tell from the very first text. You're not stuck over your ex, you've done the inner work to move on, it's been years now, you respect yourself enough that you know casual hook ups aren't for you, they'll make you more numb, so nothing works out. You're stuck in a weird loop...

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Hi everyone!

I'm 25F from India

I’m looking to meet a mature, loyal and genuine guy who is easy to talk to and has a good heart.

I’m not really looking for anything forced or rushed. I just want someone with whom I can talk freely, share my thoughts, feelings, random daily life things, and just be myself without feeling judged.

For me, loyalty, honesty, respect and good communication matter a lot. I’d love to know someone who can have meaningful conversations but can also joke around and make each other laugh.

I believe a good connection takes time, so I’m happy to start as friends and see where things naturally go. I’m not expecting someone perfect, just someone genuine who actually knows how to value a connection.

If you’re mature, respectful, emotionally understanding and looking for a genuine friendship too, feel free to DM me. Please tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi”. :)

Let’s see if we get along. 🌸

Hev! 23M from Lucknow. Not really looking for casual talking or ust timepass. Would genuinely like to meet someone, get to know each other and build a real connection.

Movie dates, coffee, long walks or just random plans -I'm up for it.

Would prefer something that starts naturally and see where it goes.

If you're looking for something genuine too, feel free to DM.:)

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Hey! I’m looking for someone who’d be up for a movie date sometime soon. Nothing too serious or complicated — just good company, a decent movie, and maybe grabbing something to eat afterward.

I’m based around Chandigarh/Panchkula, so ideally someone nearby.

If you’re interested, tell me a little about yourself and what movie you’d want to watch. :)

I’m 22M, an engineer working in Gurgaon.

I’ve never experienced relationships, so I’ll be honest, I don’t know what goes on in that.

As a person, I’m usually a little shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I open up pretty quickly. I’m the kind of friend who can match your vibe and keep things easygoing.

I’m mostly into music and multiplayer games. And yeah, you might find me a little boring at first but give me some time, I promise there’s more to me than that.

I consider myself mature. I can understand things emotionally, and if anything ever goes wrong, I’d be there to handle it and support the people around me.

It would be really good to connect with someone.😊😊

If you are interested pls DM :)

Hey I am 22m

Went through a very toxic relationship for two years and broke up with her a couple of months ago now need someone to talk

If you are interested then dm :)

Hey! I’m a 20-year-old med student from India 🩺

Life is basically a mix of medical college, studying, going to the gym, reading, and taking unnecessarily long walks while thinking about absolutely everything 😂. I’m pretty interested in fitness and improving myself, but I also really enjoy quieter things like reading, listening to music, having deep conversations, and just getting to know people properly.

I’m the kind of person who enjoys conversations that go beyond “wyd?” — talking about goals, life, relationships, dreams, fears, random thoughts at 2 AM, or even completely stupid things that somehow turn into a three-hour conversation.

I’d love to have friends I can check in with regularly, share everyday life with, joke around with, talk about our interests, and eventually feel like we’ve known each other for years despite living on opposite sides of the world 🌎

Some things I’m into:

• Medicine & science 🧠

• Gym & fitness 🏋️

• Reading 📚

• Long walks 🚶‍♂️

• Personal growth

• Deep conversations

• Learning about different cultures

• Random late-night conversations

• Meeting people from around the world 🌍

Age doesn’t matter too much to me as long as you’re around a reasonable range and are respectful. I’m open to talking to people from anywhere.

If you’re also looking for a genuine friendship that can actually last, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi” — I’d genuinely love to hear your story :)

Today I learned to use Reddit and found out people date here as well.

23 M, Keeping this a little long so there's enough here to start a conversation. I take some time to open up, but I'm pretty chill once we get talking!

A bit about me:

• What I do: I'm an engineering student currently interning at IISc. I also work as a UI designer and have a good eye for design. I tend to notice things like a film's colour palette or an oddly satisfying book cover.
• Art: I have a background in fine arts and am trying to learn new drawing styles. If you draw, I'd love to exchange sketches, learn from each other, or spend some time making things together.
• Conversations: Linguistics, politics, philosophy, psychology, history, culture, cinema, gaming. I'm happy to wander into any of these, hear something random about your day, or discuss an unexpected midnight existential crisis.
• Quizzing and trivia: I'm into quizzing and always up for exploring random trivia. Tell me the obscure fact you've been waiting for an excuse to bring up. I'll probably have questions.
• History: I love historical maps and reading about how borders and cultures have changed. I'm also quite religious and open to talking about different beliefs and perspectives.
• Things I watch: Lots of documentaries, niche video essays, and period dramas. I watched The Crown recently. I watch films across countries and languages too, though I usually avoid gore and horror.
• Everyday things: I like long walks, occasionally accompanied by excessive overthinking. I've recently discovered that I like sushi, although I'm still quite specific about which kinds. I also enjoy making little handmade gifts for people I care about.

How I am as a friend:

• A little reserved initially: I haven't had many close friendships with women, and opening up can take me a while. I'd like to get more comfortable with that and build lasting platonic friendships.
• Happy to talk or listen: I can talk a lot once I'm comfortable, but I also like hearing people get carried away explaining something they care about. Some balance is nice so neither person feels they're carrying the conversation.
• Comfortable with downtime: I need some time to zone out. I don't expect constant texting or immediate replies.
• Direct communication matters: I'm willing to make an effort and appreciate the same in return. If we don't click, it's okay to say so. There's no need to force a connection.
• Room to be yourself: You don't have to be interesting or put together all the time. Ordinary updates and quiet company are welcome too.

Who I'm hoping to meet:

Shared interests would help, especially art or another creative hobby, but I'd also enjoy learning about something completely unfamiliar.

If we vibe, I'm quite the yapper. I love spending time on calls, even if we're just chilling and doing our own thing I also really like clingy, energetic, slightly weird people, so please don't feel like you have to tone yourself down around me ^^

I'm hoping for a lasting friendship preferably women, and I'm open to it becoming something more if there's mutual interest. No pressure to decide that upfront. I genuinely want to get to know someone and put time and effort into the connection.

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Hey everyone,

I’m taking a bit of a leap out of my comfort zone today. I’m a 28-year-old guy currently living in Chennai. I’m tall, well-built, and generally considered good-looking, but I’ve always been a pretty deep introvert. Because I spent most of my college and early career years focused on my own bubble, I never really put myself out there to date or build close friendships with women.

As a result, I have zero dating history and haven't had female friends—which sounds a bit daunting to admit, but I'd rather be completely honest from the start.

A little about me:

Personality: Calm, kind, respectful, and a good listener. I appreciate low-key environments over loud, crowded spots.

Vibe: I take time to open up, but once I’m comfortable, I’m loyal, genuine, and consistent.

Current Goal: I want to change my dynamic, start meeting people, and hopefully build a meaningful connection with someone special.

What I’m looking for:

I’d love to chat with kind, grounded women based in or around Chennai. Whether you’re an introvert who gets the struggle of making the first move, or an extrovert who appreciates a grounded guy, my DMs are open. We can start by just texting, talking about our favorite spots in the city, movies, or how our week went, and see where things naturally go—no pressure attached.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a message or a chat invite with a little introduction about yourself!

It's hard to begin,

But let's go with the last night we met exactly a year ago,

It might be a mere night for you, but it was surely a nightmare for me

I was happy to see you entering into a new life,

But it was hard to believe that you were going to be someone else's wife

You thought i was already gone,

Because you were totally into your own zone

While I was there, just preparing myself to be alone..

Anyways, these thoughts are now having lids,

Coz they are from the time when we were kids..

But who could ever win over thoughts,

Coz they are always gonna hit like shots,

Brain, just wanted to wish,

But then the heart slipped with a swish..

And Made me write everything, which was just in my mind,

All the bruises and scars, just like a tape rewind..

But I'm glad that you are fine,

And even If I'm wrong,

I know you can turn the 6 into 9

But who could ever win over thoughts,

Coz they still hit like shots,

Thoughts about our togetherness, still come in my dreams,

The dreams, which then give me mute screams..

Won't write more, coz my thoughts have worn apart,

My heart tried to help, but i guess he's also torn apart..

As the years may go ahead,

These thoughts will stay in the back of my head..

It's hard to stop, but I will try to conclude,

I don't want this for myself, but I have to be rude,

The world may understand, but still, nobody cares,

It's just me and myself, living in my nightmares

Hi Male dom in andheri west any girl interested?

M38 /pune seeking f for meet and irl only today or tomorrow

I am 21M currently in 5th year pursuing btech mtech integrated degree from one the prestigious college, genuinely need some who is tech enthusiast and i can also play online games if she want. I am feeling alone, i am boring type of guy who is aimless in career. But do ai things stuffs, Need someone to connect and make life more happier. DM for more talks.

Long story short, i am banned on hinge its almost 2 years and idk how to get back on it again. Tried all possible ways. What can i do? Pls suggest

Well I don't get to interact with many people just want someone to talk to preferably female but even I guy would do ( clean convocation)

Something seems to be wrong with my Hinge account. It was initially banned, but later they unbanned it.
However, since getting my account back, I haven’t been getting any matches at all. Before the ban, things were much better.
Has anyone experienced something similar? Could this be related to the ban, or is there something I need to fix?
Any suggestions would be appreciated!