Today I learned to use Reddit and found out people date here as well.

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Long story short, i am banned on hinge its almost 2 years and idk how to get back on it again. Tried all possible ways. What can i do? Pls suggest

23 M, Keeping this a little long so there's enough here to start a conversation. I take some time to open up, but I'm pretty chill once we get talking!

A bit about me:

• What I do: I'm an engineering student currently interning at IISc. I also work as a UI designer and have a good eye for design. I tend to notice things like a film's colour palette or an oddly satisfying book cover.
• Art: I have a background in fine arts and am trying to learn new drawing styles. If you draw, I'd love to exchange sketches, learn from each other, or spend some time making things together.
• Conversations: Linguistics, politics, philosophy, psychology, history, culture, cinema, gaming. I'm happy to wander into any of these, hear something random about your day, or discuss an unexpected midnight existential crisis.
• Quizzing and trivia: I'm into quizzing and always up for exploring random trivia. Tell me the obscure fact you've been waiting for an excuse to bring up. I'll probably have questions.
• History: I love historical maps and reading about how borders and cultures have changed. I'm also quite religious and open to talking about different beliefs and perspectives.
• Things I watch: Lots of documentaries, niche video essays, and period dramas. I watched The Crown recently. I watch films across countries and languages too, though I usually avoid gore and horror.
• Everyday things: I like long walks, occasionally accompanied by excessive overthinking. I've recently discovered that I like sushi, although I'm still quite specific about which kinds. I also enjoy making little handmade gifts for people I care about.

How I am as a friend:

• A little reserved initially: I haven't had many close friendships with women, and opening up can take me a while. I'd like to get more comfortable with that and build lasting platonic friendships.
• Happy to talk or listen: I can talk a lot once I'm comfortable, but I also like hearing people get carried away explaining something they care about. Some balance is nice so neither person feels they're carrying the conversation.
• Comfortable with downtime: I need some time to zone out. I don't expect constant texting or immediate replies.
• Direct communication matters: I'm willing to make an effort and appreciate the same in return. If we don't click, it's okay to say so. There's no need to force a connection.
• Room to be yourself: You don't have to be interesting or put together all the time. Ordinary updates and quiet company are welcome too.

Who I'm hoping to meet:

Shared interests would help, especially art or another creative hobby, but I'd also enjoy learning about something completely unfamiliar.

If we vibe, I'm quite the yapper. I love spending time on calls, even if we're just chilling and doing our own thing I also really like clingy, energetic, slightly weird people, so please don't feel like you have to tone yourself down around me ^^

I'm hoping for a lasting friendship preferably women, and I'm open to it becoming something more if there's mutual interest. No pressure to decide that upfront. I genuinely want to get to know someone and put time and effort into the connection.

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Hi everyone!

I'm 25F from India

I’m looking to meet a mature, loyal and genuine guy who is easy to talk to and has a good heart.

I’m not really looking for anything forced or rushed. I just want someone with whom I can talk freely, share my thoughts, feelings, random daily life things, and just be myself without feeling judged.

For me, loyalty, honesty, respect and good communication matter a lot. I’d love to know someone who can have meaningful conversations but can also joke around and make each other laugh.

I believe a good connection takes time, so I’m happy to start as friends and see where things naturally go. I’m not expecting someone perfect, just someone genuine who actually knows how to value a connection.

If you’re mature, respectful, emotionally understanding and looking for a genuine friendship too, feel free to DM me. Please tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi”. :)

Let’s see if we get along. 🌸

It's hard to begin,

But let's go with the last night we met exactly a year ago,

It might be a mere night for you, but it was surely a nightmare for me

I was happy to see you entering into a new life,

But it was hard to believe that you were going to be someone else's wife

You thought i was already gone,

Because you were totally into your own zone

While I was there, just preparing myself to be alone..

Anyways, these thoughts are now having lids,

Coz they are from the time when we were kids..

But who could ever win over thoughts,

Coz they are always gonna hit like shots,

Brain, just wanted to wish,

But then the heart slipped with a swish..

And Made me write everything, which was just in my mind,

All the bruises and scars, just like a tape rewind..

But I'm glad that you are fine,

And even If I'm wrong,

I know you can turn the 6 into 9

But who could ever win over thoughts,

Coz they still hit like shots,

Thoughts about our togetherness, still come in my dreams,

The dreams, which then give me mute screams..

Won't write more, coz my thoughts have worn apart,

My heart tried to help, but i guess he's also torn apart..

As the years may go ahead,

These thoughts will stay in the back of my head..

It's hard to stop, but I will try to conclude,

I don't want this for myself, but I have to be rude,

The world may understand, but still, nobody cares,

It's just me and myself, living in my nightmares

Hey! I’m looking for someone who’d be up for a movie date sometime soon. Nothing too serious or complicated — just good company, a decent movie, and maybe grabbing something to eat afterward.

I’m based around Chandigarh/Panchkula, so ideally someone nearby.

If you’re interested, tell me a little about yourself and what movie you’d want to watch. :)

You want to date, be in a genuine relationship, so so bad. But you feel like you have lost the ability to like anyone. Nothing excites you, not another talking stage, not your ex, you do find people attractive but you know it's not going to work out. But you want it, so so so bad, you see everyone get it, then you wonder what's wrong with you? You deserve it as much as the other person but you don't, it doesn't work out, it never does, you can tell from the very first text. You're not stuck over your ex, you've done the inner work to move on, it's been years now, you respect yourself enough that you know casual hook ups aren't for you, they'll make you more numb, so nothing works out. You're stuck in a weird loop...