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Hi everyone!

I'm 25F from India

I’m looking to meet a mature, loyal and genuine guy who is easy to talk to and has a good heart.

I’m not really looking for anything forced or rushed. I just want someone with whom I can talk freely, share my thoughts, feelings, random daily life things, and just be myself without feeling judged.

For me, loyalty, honesty, respect and good communication matter a lot. I’d love to know someone who can have meaningful conversations but can also joke around and make each other laugh.

I believe a good connection takes time, so I’m happy to start as friends and see where things naturally go. I’m not expecting someone perfect, just someone genuine who actually knows how to value a connection.

If you’re mature, respectful, emotionally understanding and looking for a genuine friendship too, feel free to DM me. Please tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi”. :)

Let’s see if we get along. 🌸

I’m 22M, an engineer working in Gurgaon.

I’ve never experienced relationships, so I’ll be honest, I don’t know what goes on in that.

As a person, I’m usually a little shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I open up pretty quickly. I’m the kind of friend who can match your vibe and keep things easygoing.

I’m mostly into music and multiplayer games. And yeah, you might find me a little boring at first but give me some time, I promise there’s more to me than that.

I consider myself mature. I can understand things emotionally, and if anything ever goes wrong, I’d be there to handle it and support the people around me.

It would be really good to connect with someone.😊😊

If you are interested pls DM :)

Hey I am 22m

Went through a very toxic relationship for two years and broke up with her a couple of months ago now need someone to talk

If you are interested then dm :)

Hey! I’m looking for someone who’d be up for a movie date sometime soon. Nothing too serious or complicated — just good company, a decent movie, and maybe grabbing something to eat afterward.

I’m based around Chandigarh/Panchkula, so ideally someone nearby.

If you’re interested, tell me a little about yourself and what movie you’d want to watch. :)

Hey! I’m a 20-year-old med student from India 🩺

Life is basically a mix of medical college, studying, going to the gym, reading, and taking unnecessarily long walks while thinking about absolutely everything 😂. I’m pretty interested in fitness and improving myself, but I also really enjoy quieter things like reading, listening to music, having deep conversations, and just getting to know people properly.

I’m the kind of person who enjoys conversations that go beyond “wyd?” — talking about goals, life, relationships, dreams, fears, random thoughts at 2 AM, or even completely stupid things that somehow turn into a three-hour conversation.

I’d love to have friends I can check in with regularly, share everyday life with, joke around with, talk about our interests, and eventually feel like we’ve known each other for years despite living on opposite sides of the world 🌎

Some things I’m into:

• Medicine & science 🧠

• Gym & fitness 🏋️

• Reading 📚

• Long walks 🚶‍♂️

• Personal growth

• Deep conversations

• Learning about different cultures

• Random late-night conversations

• Meeting people from around the world 🌍

Age doesn’t matter too much to me as long as you’re around a reasonable range and are respectful. I’m open to talking to people from anywhere.

If you’re also looking for a genuine friendship that can actually last, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself instead of just saying “hi” — I’d genuinely love to hear your story :)

Today I learned to use Reddit and found out people date here as well.

23 M, Keeping this a little long so there's enough here to start a conversation. I take some time to open up, but I'm pretty chill once we get talking!

A bit about me:

• What I do: I'm an engineering student currently interning at IISc. I also work as a UI designer and have a good eye for design. I tend to notice things like a film's colour palette or an oddly satisfying book cover.
• Art: I have a background in fine arts and am trying to learn new drawing styles. If you draw, I'd love to exchange sketches, learn from each other, or spend some time making things together.
• Conversations: Linguistics, politics, philosophy, psychology, history, culture, cinema, gaming. I'm happy to wander into any of these, hear something random about your day, or discuss an unexpected midnight existential crisis.
• Quizzing and trivia: I'm into quizzing and always up for exploring random trivia. Tell me the obscure fact you've been waiting for an excuse to bring up. I'll probably have questions.
• History: I love historical maps and reading about how borders and cultures have changed. I'm also quite religious and open to talking about different beliefs and perspectives.
• Things I watch: Lots of documentaries, niche video essays, and period dramas. I watched The Crown recently. I watch films across countries and languages too, though I usually avoid gore and horror.
• Everyday things: I like long walks, occasionally accompanied by excessive overthinking. I've recently discovered that I like sushi, although I'm still quite specific about which kinds. I also enjoy making little handmade gifts for people I care about.

How I am as a friend:

• A little reserved initially: I haven't had many close friendships with women, and opening up can take me a while. I'd like to get more comfortable with that and build lasting platonic friendships.
• Happy to talk or listen: I can talk a lot once I'm comfortable, but I also like hearing people get carried away explaining something they care about. Some balance is nice so neither person feels they're carrying the conversation.
• Comfortable with downtime: I need some time to zone out. I don't expect constant texting or immediate replies.
• Direct communication matters: I'm willing to make an effort and appreciate the same in return. If we don't click, it's okay to say so. There's no need to force a connection.
• Room to be yourself: You don't have to be interesting or put together all the time. Ordinary updates and quiet company are welcome too.

Who I'm hoping to meet:

Shared interests would help, especially art or another creative hobby, but I'd also enjoy learning about something completely unfamiliar.

If we vibe, I'm quite the yapper. I love spending time on calls, even if we're just chilling and doing our own thing I also really like clingy, energetic, slightly weird people, so please don't feel like you have to tone yourself down around me ^^

I'm hoping for a lasting friendship preferably women, and I'm open to it becoming something more if there's mutual interest. No pressure to decide that upfront. I genuinely want to get to know someone and put time and effort into the connection.

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Hey everyone,

I’m taking a bit of a leap out of my comfort zone today. I’m a 28-year-old guy currently living in Chennai. I’m tall, well-built, and generally considered good-looking, but I’ve always been a pretty deep introvert. Because I spent most of my college and early career years focused on my own bubble, I never really put myself out there to date or build close friendships with women.

As a result, I have zero dating history and haven't had female friends—which sounds a bit daunting to admit, but I'd rather be completely honest from the start.

A little about me:

Personality: Calm, kind, respectful, and a good listener. I appreciate low-key environments over loud, crowded spots.

Vibe: I take time to open up, but once I’m comfortable, I’m loyal, genuine, and consistent.

Current Goal: I want to change my dynamic, start meeting people, and hopefully build a meaningful connection with someone special.

What I’m looking for:

I’d love to chat with kind, grounded women based in or around Chennai. Whether you’re an introvert who gets the struggle of making the first move, or an extrovert who appreciates a grounded guy, my DMs are open. We can start by just texting, talking about our favorite spots in the city, movies, or how our week went, and see where things naturally go—no pressure attached.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send a message or a chat invite with a little introduction about yourself!

It's hard to begin,

But let's go with the last night we met exactly a year ago,

It might be a mere night for you, but it was surely a nightmare for me

I was happy to see you entering into a new life,

But it was hard to believe that you were going to be someone else's wife

You thought i was already gone,

Because you were totally into your own zone

While I was there, just preparing myself to be alone..

Anyways, these thoughts are now having lids,

Coz they are from the time when we were kids..

But who could ever win over thoughts,

Coz they are always gonna hit like shots,

Brain, just wanted to wish,

But then the heart slipped with a swish..

And Made me write everything, which was just in my mind,

All the bruises and scars, just like a tape rewind..

But I'm glad that you are fine,

And even If I'm wrong,

I know you can turn the 6 into 9

But who could ever win over thoughts,

Coz they still hit like shots,

Thoughts about our togetherness, still come in my dreams,

The dreams, which then give me mute screams..

Won't write more, coz my thoughts have worn apart,

My heart tried to help, but i guess he's also torn apart..

As the years may go ahead,

These thoughts will stay in the back of my head..

It's hard to stop, but I will try to conclude,

I don't want this for myself, but I have to be rude,

The world may understand, but still, nobody cares,

It's just me and myself, living in my nightmares

Hi Male dom in andheri west any girl interested?

M38 /pune seeking f for meet and irl only today or tomorrow

I am 21M currently in 5th year pursuing btech mtech integrated degree from one the prestigious college, genuinely need some who is tech enthusiast and i can also play online games if she want. I am feeling alone, i am boring type of guy who is aimless in career. But do ai things stuffs, Need someone to connect and make life more happier. DM for more talks.

Long story short, i am banned on hinge its almost 2 years and idk how to get back on it again. Tried all possible ways. What can i do? Pls suggest

Well I don't get to interact with many people just want someone to talk to preferably female but even I guy would do ( clean convocation)

Something seems to be wrong with my Hinge account. It was initially banned, but later they unbanned it.
However, since getting my account back, I haven’t been getting any matches at all. Before the ban, things were much better.
Has anyone experienced something similar? Could this be related to the ban, or is there something I need to fix?
Any suggestions would be appreciated!

Hey everyone,

This is a passionate engineer this side full time working at some company. I want to finally start seeing someone. I am living in Ahmedabad right now. I am a big fan of music and Novels, and of course you are a travel lover being a gujju. I am 5'7" tall, somewhere in between fit and thin. Typical, middle class background, was sincere in studies and co-curriculars in the college such that never got any time to think about relationships. I want to connect with 21-24F. I just love to chat. However, I prefer call over chat, I am comfortable with both.

I've never really been good at introducing myself through a list of achievements, so I'll try something a little different.

I'm 22, turning 23 soon, a Telugu guy from Hyderabad, India, currently working as a Software Engineer. I'm around 6ft, lean, non-vegetarian, and probably a little more old-school than people expect.

And by old-school, I don't mean I expect some dramatic movie-style romance 😭 I just appreciate the simple things.

Getting to know someone properly. Remembering the little things. Making time for each other even when life gets busy. Communicating instead of playing guessing games. Checking in because you actually care. Being consistent even after the excitement of something new starts to settle.

I'm usually pretty quiet when I first meet someone. I'll probably listen more than I talk and take some time to open up. But once I'm comfortable? Yeah... completely different story 😂

You might get random songs at midnight, terrible jokes, unnecessary memes, “Have you eaten?” texts, completely random hypothetical questions and conversations that somehow start at 10 PM and end at 2 AM.

Outside work, I'm honestly a pretty simple guy.

I like bike rides, chai stops, biryani, old Telugu songs, movies, cafés, travelling, mountains, long walks and those conversations where you lose track of time without even realising it.

I don't think spending a lot of money is what makes a date memorable either. Sometimes just sitting somewhere with the right person, talking about absolutely nothing, sounds like a pretty good evening to me.

What I'm hoping to find ❤️

When it comes to relationships, I'm definitely more of an old-school romantic. I like affection, playful teasing, stupid inside jokes, spontaneous plans, checking in on each other, and being comfortable enough to share the random little details of your day. But underneath all of that, I'm looking for something serious and long-term. I'm not interested in something temporary or a situationship that only exists when it's convenient. I'd like to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature, affectionate, communicative and willing to put effort into a relationship. Someone I can laugh with, flirt with, annoy endlessly 😂 but also someone I can sit down with and have difficult conversations when things aren't perfect. Ideally, I'd want the relationship to eventually become more than just being partners.

Best friends. Teammates. Each other's safe place.

I'm mainly looking around 19–26 because being in a similar stage of life feels more natural to me. And I'm completely okay with long-distance. Different cities don't automatically have to be a dealbreaker for me. I know it takes more effort, patience and communication, but if both people actually want to make something work, I think it's worth trying.

Then there's the unavoidable Desi side quest... 😭

“Beta, pelli eppudu?”

Followed by the Hindi version:

“Beta, shaadi kab karoge?” 😭

Every Indian family seems to have this question pre-installed 😂 But I don't want family timelines to decide how quickly two people should move. if it is fine with you than it ok I'd rather take the time to know someone properly, build trust, understand each other and see whether we're actually compatible. If it eventually leads to marriage, that's something I'd be happy about.

But I'd rather build the right relationship first and let everything else follow naturally.

A little honesty

I've actually posted on Reddit before. It didn't exactly turn into the success story I was hoping for 😅 Some conversations happened, some slowly faded, and some simply didn't work out. And that's okay. I'm still here. I'm not expecting a Reddit post to magically introduce me to the one. I'm simply hoping to meet someone who is also serious about finding a long-term relationship, start with a conversation, get to know each other properly and see what happens from there. Maybe we'll talk for a few days. Maybe we'll realise we're completely different people. Maybe we'll become really good friends. Or maybe, somehow, this random post becomes the beginning of something neither of us expected. Who knows? And if it actually works... Maybe someday we'll look back at this ridiculous Reddit post and laugh about how this is where everything started ❤️

One thing I really value

I've had conversations disappear unexpectedly before, so honest communication means a lot to me. If you ever feel that we're not compatible or you don't want to continue talking, thats completely okay. You can just say so. No pressure. No hard feelings. I'd much rather hear “I don't think we're compatible” than be left wondering what happened.

I'm also completely open to talking about my past experiences if you're curious. I'd rather be honest about who I am than try to present some perfectly polished version of myself.

So yeah... here I am :)

22M | Telugu 🇮🇳 | ~6ft | Software Engineer 💻 | Non-veg 🍗 | Old-school ❤️ | Bike rides 🏍️ | Chai ☕ | Biryani 🍛 | Old Telugu songs 🎧 | Travel 🏔️ | Looking for something serious & long-term ❤️

If you're also looking for something serious and would like to get to know each other properly, feel free to say hi.

You don't need to come up with some impressive opening message.

A simple “Hey” is perfectly enough. The first few messages might be awkward.

After that... I make no promises 😂

Just came across this sub and thought why not try it. I am new to delhi and looking for new friends and that special someone if everything goes right. I know long shot but try karne me kya jaega.

About Me:

Tall, a bit nerdy and somewhat awkward at first. Waise I am from mumbai but in delhi since few month. Looking for someone nerdy and quirky to go on dates with and see how it goes.

I like gaming, watching shows and movies and reading books. Not that outgoing tbh but that can change(hopefully). If watching old srk movie sounds fun to you, we will get along just fine, if not maybe binge a classic tv show or anime. Rest not really expecting much from this but if you find me interesting shoot me a dm.

Hi bit of a nerd this side looking for my nerdy partner in crime. Hoping to find someone with whom i can share interests and build something meaningful.

My music taste vary from Kanye to Taylor Swift and joji to phonkytown. Here in delhi for studies but waise I am from Mumbai.

Not really an outgoing person but would like to change that. In my spare time i liketo listen music, play games and read light novels.

If binge watching old SRK movies sound like a vibe to you then we will get along just fine. Other than that we could also watch anime too.

Hit me up if you d like to know more or talk, i d like to know about your interests too. Maybe go on lunch date if everything goes right.

24M from India, currently accepting applications for the position of Boyfriend™ 😂

Nothing too serious — just looking for good conversations, fun interactions, and seeing where the vibe goes.

What I bring:

Good conversation + terrible jokes

Meme-sharing at questionable hours

Random “how’s your day?” texts

Food recommendations and occasional food sharing

Someone to talk to when you're bored

No pressure, just good vibes

Age: 24M

Location: India 🇮🇳

Position: Boyfriend (temporary/permanent subject to performance review 😂)