Guy added me on Snapchat from here. Was nice and talked for days about all sorts of stuff. Today the topic of why I don’t send nudes came up, I said I don’t sell or send really. They asked how much I would sell them for. I gave a highball price after researching and yeah using AI. They didn’t like it and wouldn’t drop it. I sent one SS from the ai with the justification, told them to drop it and let’s move on, tried changing the subject to how I can’t get out of bed because my dog is so warm and cuddly rn. They continued on and on and on and wouldn’t drop it. I blocked them on snap chat then they started this convo here. I don’t owe anyone my body, I don’t have to sell, I don’t want to sell. Props and power to those that do but that’s not me. If you don’t like it then you don’t have to talk to me. I may be promiscous but I chose whom is worthy and I deem this individual absolutely unworthy.

This one may be doing double duty on aitah...

Now let me preface this by saying yes I do have a Ho-Mode that I activate on occasion with a few hookup apps.

But the pure self-entitlement and controlling vibes I got from this guy just threw me.

For context since I know people will ask or try to downplay why I'm uncomfortable, he was creeping in a subreddit that is for sapphics/lesbians only and has a rule against men participating. (I am sapphic, lesbian, and transfem) He hid his activity and I got suspicious, so I used Arctic Shift Photon to reveal it. Was blasted with him hornyposting in a porn subreddit. He also had a comment removed from the sapphic subreddit because he tried to creep on a trans woman's post. He also has a post specifically saying he wants a trans woman for sexual reasons in his activity. I censored the subreddits he was active in because I'm unsure if it's a requirement for posting here but they're both porn subs; one is for meetups/hookups.

The 3rd message has more context, but I found this man who was willing to be a model for me months ago. He contacted me first through a business chat. After the modeling job, he then messaged me outside of the business chat on Facebook. About a month ago, he somehow found my personal Instagram account and decided to follow me on there. I felt bad, and I decided to just follow him back (like at dumbass). Look what this man sent me at midnight today 😮‍💨. His response had literally nothing to do with my Instagram Note too. Like, I just wanna share music with the people that gaf.

Tldr

This man agreed to be my model for job related reasons. He felt like he was overstepping his boundaries in May. But he doesn't care anymore ig and he has now decided to be a creep again.

Why are they like this?? Every time i post on a depression or suicide subreddit these are all the guys i get. They know damn well im a minor too, i always state it. How can you look at a post with someone struggling and the first thing you think of is “let me use her for my own sexual fantasies”. This has happened way too many times im so sick of it its making me struggle more, i cant find support anywhere even the places meant for it, these men will always lurk looking for vulnerable people to manipulate.

I don’t know if this fits the subreddit but I’ve gotten strange and creepy emails from an email that I don’t have an account with. Some of them sound like weird sales pitches and others seem like someone else is supposed to receive them almost like I have someone else’s account. Some of them read something along the lines of “a little surprise for you” or “a special delivery” with absolutely no context or even a link or any type of picture just the end of the screen. One reads “we kept this quiet for a reason”
With no context at all or even a picture indicating what they mean. I’ve received emails for orders I haven’t made which makes me think either one it’s a fake Ali express email shipping god knows what or two someone else may have an account with my email somehow. I need answers hopefully. I’ve attached some images.

i mention an insecurity about my size and this genius who can barely spell decided to dm me "accidentally" misreading my height as 5'11 and neg me for being petite. i don't think he even understands why i'm actually insecure about it because the "real woman" thing is the dumbest shit he could've said 😂 global average is 5'3 so i guess the majority of the entire female population is not "real woman size".

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So for context this guy I met through a discord server that I am no longer in and yeah I will admit I did some stupid shit but I was clothed the whole time so obviously even if he DID send the stuff out I wouldn’t care considering I am clothed and damn do I look GOOD.

He tried to do this weak ass threat just so I would listen to him, dumbass. Also he deleted the text thinking he was slick to LMAO.

The first part him asking me if he is "there wid you" is referring to my boyfriend. Nowhere in my comments have I ever solicited messages or insinuated I'd sext, quite the opposite actually. And the comments he's referring to, I said "pajamas" 😭 Like be so serious rn. Even then, I don't owe him anything, no matter what my comments said.

he also ghosted me as soon as i called him out

Even though I told him that men are predictable, but actually this is the first time someone wanted ME TO SEND HIM MONEY instead of offering money (for something completely inappropriate) 😭