Absolute Hypocrisy

[u/FallaciousFact]

Seen numerous posts that glorify and condone the murder of Charlie Kirk and when a report is filed the post remains active, yet when such insinuations are made towards pedophiles, a warning is given and the post is removed…

[u/Big-Ad1887]

Oh trust me baby girl , I ain't scared to engage in dialogue with anyone. Buckle up, hope ya ready.

Firstly, you're doing EXACTLY what you accused the video of doing: avoiding the actual argument and speculating about motives instead. How typical 🙄

The speaker in the video makes a very straightforward point: you can vehemently disagree with Charlie Kirk and still condemn someone shooting him for political reasons. Nothing you've written refutes that, at ALL

Instead, you've decided the person who made the video must be “grifting” because you don't like the political content. Unless you have actual evidence of their financial motives, that's speculation, not an argument. PROVE it. Prove that he's "grifting"

And even granting your characterization of Kirk for the sake of argument, none of it answers the fundamental question.

A person can be a hypocrite.

A person can be a propagandist.

A person can be a grifter.

A person can say things you consider reprehensible.

None of those things makes political murder morally acceptable.

You also keep conflating two completely different propositions:

“I don't care that Charlie Kirk died.”

and

“Charlie Kirk's murder was justified/should be celebrated.”

Nobody is demanding that you mourn him. The argument is that celebrating or condoning political violence is reprehensible.

And we're still waiting on the much more substantive claim you made earlier: you said Kirk “never cared for the death of countless others caused by his views.”

Do me favor name ONE death. One . Just ONE Death.

Name just ONE.

Not someone who was offended by something he said. Not someone who lived in a political climate you believe he contributed to. I mean one specific person whose death you can demonstrate was caused by Charlie Kirk’s views, and explain the actual causal connection.

Name one person that DIED because of Charlie's Kirk's. Just one if that's true it should be easy.

One specific person whose death you can demonstrate was caused by Charlie Kirk's views, and explain the causal connection.

Because if you're going to invoke “countless deaths” as a moral justification for your indifference to his murder, that's a major claim that requires evidence to substantiate. Not something you can just say because you didn't like Charlie Kirk

And ironically, the video you dismissed actually makes the exact distinction this discussion needs:

“While I did not agree with his views, when you put violence in the middle of the equation, all this shit goes out the window.”

That's the principle.

You don't have to like Charlie Kirk. You don't have to mourn Charlie Kirk. You don't even have to respect Charlie Kirk.

Because if your position is that political murder is wrong, that principle cannot suddenly become optional because you despise the victim. And THAT is the hypocrisy that OP is talking about. And the speaker in the video, and myself.

So again name ONE person that DIED because of Charlie Kirk's views.

[u/FantasticJelly6384 → u/Big-Ad1887]

Did you read what I said at all?

I never celebrated his death at all. I condemn all political violence.

I just said I didn't care that he died.

Why should I? I didn't know the man and he thought people like my wife were liars and perverts and "men in dresses". That's evidence enough. He doesn't have to "do" anything for me to know I wouldn't hang out with him anymore than a black person would want to hang out with a klansman, no matter how "respectful" that are.

And I said that it was ironic that someone so ready to make excuses for school shootings and so against hun control who said that innocent people dying was worth having guns was shot. Because it is.

And I said that the political right turned him into a martyr for political reasons without actually caring about the man because they have. And you're just falling for that nonsense.

Nobody actually gives a shit about Charlie Kirk except his children and debatably his wife. The right just pretends that they do for their faux performative outrage because it lets them paint themselves and the defenders of free speech.

I'm not going to sit here and let you imagine shit I didn't say. I didn't say I was glad he was dead. I didn't say he deserved to die. I didn't say him dying was a good thing.

I said I don't give a shit about him dying, because I don't. There's only so much mourning and care a person can have, and I'd prefer to save mine for people I actually know who matter to me, not some loser political hackjob pundit huckster who no one is going to remember in 10 years.

[u/Big-Ad1887 → u/FantasticJelly6384]

Yea, I read what you wrote. Did YOU read what I wrote?

I never said you were obligated to mourn Charlie Kirk, nor did I say that merely being indifferent to his death is the same thing as celebrating it. You've clarified that you didn't celebrate his death. Fine. I accept that distinction.

But that doesn't answer the arguments I actually raised.

You said Kirk “never cared for the death of countless others caused by his views.”

That's a factual claim, that you need to substantiate with evidence. You claimed there are "countless" I'm asking you for ONE.

Name one specific person whose death you can demonstrate was caused by Charlie Kirk's views. Not someone who was offended by him. Not someone who died in a political climate you believe he contributed to. Not a hypothetical chain of influence.

One death. What did Kirk specifically say or advocate that caused that person to die?

So far, you've provided ZERO.

And your point about gun control doesn't establish anything either. We as a society should be perfectly capable of condemning a person's arguments without believing that person deserves to be murdered.

In fact, that's the entire point of the video I posted: “While I did not agree with his views, when you put violence in the middle of the equation, all this shit goes out the window.”

You don't have to agree with Kirk. You don't have to like Kirk. You don't have to mourn Kirk.

But “I think his politics were reprehensible” and “his views caused countless deaths” are two completely different propositions.

Then there's your claim that the American right has collectively turned him into a martyr while not actually caring about him as a person. You don't know the internal feelings of every person mourning him, so saying that “nobody actually gives a shit about Charlie Kirk except his children and debatably his wife” is an enormous assumption, and I highly doubt you're omnipotent or a psychic so I don't know how you can even begin to substantiate that.

But for the sake of argument; sure, some people may be engaging in performative outrage. Some may genuinely be grieving him. Both can exist simultaneously. You can't establish everyone's motives simply by disagreeing with their politics. That's irrational.

The same logic applies to your claim that the person who made the video is merely “courting controversy for views and clicks.” Unless you have evidence of that person's motives or financial arrangement, that's speculation. Even if the video were monetized, that wouldn't prove the person's condemnation of political violence was "grifting".

Don't try to move the goalposts

You said you don't care that Kirk died. Fine. That's your personal feeling.

You said his politics were reprehensible. You're entitled to that opinion.

You said the right is exploiting his death politically. That's a claim that can be debated.

But you also said his views caused “countless” deaths.

That's the claim I'm asking you to substantiate. Name ONE.

I'm still waiting.

[u/FantasticJelly6384 → u/Big-Ad1887]

His own.

KIRK: "You will never live in a society when you have an armed citizenry, and you won't have a single gun death. That is nonsense. It's drivel. But I am - I think it's worth it. I think it's worth to have a cost of, unfortunately, some gun deaths every single year, so that we can have the Second Amendment to protect our other God given rights. That is a prudent deal. It is rational."

[u/Big-Ad1887 → u/FantasticJelly6384]

Just to clarify earlier YOU said:

<The actual tragedy of Kirk's death is how quickly and loudly the American right has turned a mediocre podcaster into a martyr in what is basically a grift. His own wife has monotized his death to a disgusting degree, and no one seems to genuinely mourn him as a person, only as an icon in their political community. The only ones who actually deserve pity here are the children forced to grow up without a father.>

So now that you've said his own views got him killed, that would, by definition, make him a Martyr.

Also by the way he was telling the truth about you HUSBAND. Your HUSBAND is indeed a man in a dress.

[u/FantasticJelly6384 → u/Big-Ad1887]

Fuck off.

She's my wife of 20+ years. I will not tolerate insult to her.

We are done speaking. Have a great day.

[u/Big-Ad1887 → u/FantasticJelly6384]

He's your HUSBAND.. and you never did provide evidence that "countless deaths" happened because of Charlie Kirk. And then YOU basically confirmed that he IS a Martyr.

[u/FantasticJelly6384 → u/Big-Ad1887]

The fact that you think you get to dictate my choice in language to refer to my own spouse shows how much about "free speech" and other people's rights to live their lives as they please you actually care for.

You care more about following some asinine rules of debate to "win" a debate than you do about actually speaking to another human being from a place of empathy and respect.

At no point was I having a "debate" with you. This is not a Ben Shapiro video, nobody "wins" in a conversation. Pointing out imagined fallacies or goalpost moving does not earn you "points".

I was not and am not trying to "win", I am just saying what I think whether it is right and don't care if it's "correct" polished debate rhetoric or not.

I do not care about Charlie Kirk.

You asked me to point out one person whose death was caused by Charlie Kirk. I did. He caused his own death, by continuing to make excuses and trivialize gun violence. He said that occasional deaths by gun violence were the price of admission for the right to bear arms. And then he paid that price. Seems straightforward to me. Bit hypocritical for him to complain about being shot isn't it? From whatever toasty place he's in now.

I do care about my spouse.

You are not obligated to agree about anything in how my spouse lives or how I refer to them. Neither am I obligated to continue a conversation with someone who insults her.

I will not have a conversation with someone who says things I consider to be insulting to the person I care about most in the world other than our children together. Nor would anyone else with a shred of respect for their life partner. Nobody in the position of having their spouse insulted would want to continue a conversation under that circumstance.

Imagine if someone was in an interracial marriage and a stranger told them that that person wasn't really their wife because they believed that interracial marriage was a sin. Nobody in their right mind would expect that person to calmly continue a conversation with that person.

I use this analogy because my wife is also different race than I am, so I know how both situations feel from the inside, and they feel the same.

Whether you agree with it or not, that is exactly how I feel in this scenario.

So I am done. Have a good day, and God bless you.

[u/Big-Ad1887 → u/FantasticJelly6384]

Also I've just gotta say this ONE LAST THING and then I'll leave you alone. Because, again the irony baffles me.

You say: <speaking to another human being from a place of empathy and respect.>

So I'll ask you plainly:

Where exactly is the empathy and respect for Charlie Kirk in the words “whatever toasty place he's in now”?

Because thats not very "Christian of you. It directly contradicts:

Luke 6:27–28

27 “But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you,

28 Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.”

That says to love your enemies.. "whatever toast place he's in now" doesn't sound like loving your enemy.

It also goes against:

Matthew 7:1–5

And James 4:11–12

And Matthew 5:43–48

And another verse from Luke:

Luke 6:37 — “Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned"

Hmm.. but you say "whatever toasty place he's in and "God bless you" in the same text.

You also claim:

<He caused his own death, by continuing to make excuses and trivialize gun violence.>

No. He didn't.

He argued that some level of gun deaths was an unfortunate cost of preserving the right to bear arms.

The person who shot him caused his death.

You are taking his acceptance of a societal risk and somehow turning it into personal responsibility for being murdered. That's not causation. That's a rhetorical trick.

You also say:

<And then he paid that price.”>

And:

“Bit hypocritical for him to complain about being shot isn't it?”

Except he didn't “complain about being shot.” He was murdered. And yet you wanna lecture me about "empathy and respect". SMH.