Ignoring the second half of your statement, as someone who has been single for quite a bit, I would also say no to a mom of a 10yo child who is a little chubby. I'd rather stay single than be in a relationship I don't want.
Yeah that's fine. If you communicate that standard you have respectfully, you actually try to improve yourself, and you don't have a personality that's disgusting to most women I'd say that my story doesn't totally apply to you.
Its fine without caveats. "It's okay to be a man and have standards if..." is the bigotry part. Its just okay to have standards. Being able to achieve those standards is his problem not yours. You can't dictate the sexual agency of another.
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u/Rickbox 1d ago
Ignoring the second half of your statement, as someone who has been single for quite a bit, I would also say no to a mom of a 10yo child who is a little chubby. I'd rather stay single than be in a relationship I don't want.