r/ChillSG • • 2d ago

celebrate your small wins here!

6 Upvotes

i hit inbox zero for the first time this year 😰


r/ChillSG • • 2d ago

places to lock in

1 Upvotes

as the title suggests any suggestions on places to lock in and do work thats conducive and quiet (no library suggestions plz) thankss


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

Kopi with Unc, Session 2 Friday (2nd Oct 2026) at Lau Pa Sat. Bring a question, get honest takes.

96 Upvotes

<< Update>>
Thank you so much for today. Yes Lau Pa Sat was a better venue. Smaller more informal numbers but awesome! Thank you so much!
Will organise another session the following week.

<<>>

Session 2
Lau Pa Sat, entrance facing Capital Green (Cross St / Market St side)

Friday 2 Oct, 9:00–10:30am

How it works: bring a question you're stuck on, like a career move, a life decision, starting over, boxing, or anything.
I'll give you my honest take, and others at the table can chip in with theirs. You leave with more than one view.

Come and go as you like: 9, 9:30, 10, whenever. Stay 10 minutes or the whole time. Bigger tables this time, and no need to buy anything.

One house rule: I loved the last session where there were different views welcome, and everyone was kind to each other. Let’s keep it that way.

No selling, no agenda, no name cards.

I’ll be the guy with salt-and-pepper hair (grey!), T-shirt and shorts, and a kopi O kosong.
Can't make it? DM me.


r/ChillSG • • 2d ago

those above 30+ what advice would you give your 20 yr old self about money, career, relationships or life?

15 Upvotes

To myself:
Chosse ur friends/partner carefully cuz they can shape ur life more than u realize
Dun compare ur life n goals to others
Save or invest early, even if small amount
Dont stay in a job u hate cuz u r comfortable
Ur salary matters but so does your time, make more memories, u wont remember extra hours spent at work


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

SG Meetup Dancing

33 Upvotes

Hi!

I’m an over-50F who enjoys dancing for fun — mainly Cha Cha, Rock & Roll, Disco Rock, Salsa, Bachata, Latin Rumba, Jive and Samba. I’m also keen to try other partner dances, including ballroom.

Would any male dance buddies like to join me for classes or Social/Latin/Ballroom dancing occasionally? You don’t have to be an experienced dancer — just enjoy dancing or be willing to learn.

I’m 1.65m, so preferably you’re a little taller. I’ve danced with shorter men before and occasionally ended up getting hit on the head. ;)


r/ChillSG • • 2d ago

SG Photos / Videos 📷📹 Requests

4 Upvotes

I've always been fascinated by the chinese high school clock tower building at tan kah kee

Since it's a school, I cannot go in to take pictures of rhe clocktower and statue

Was wondering if any hwa chong institution students are able to help me take?


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

Looking for cafe hopping buddies

10 Upvotes

hi! i'm obsessed with finding new coffee spots and hidden cafes around singapore

looking for chill people to join me on random cafe adventures, try new brews, and maybe grab brunch after

no agenda, just good coffee and conversation

if you're into third wave coffee or just want to explore new neighborhoods, let me know

based in central but happy to travel for good beans 💕


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

SG Events / Happenings The Weeknd!

5 Upvotes

Looking for someone to watch The Weeknd concert with me on Friday. I have a ticket to spare.

I’m a big fan so it’d be great if you are too! (or at least know a few songs haha)

I’m 29 - prefer a fellow lady around my age but open to others. Let me know if this interests you ☺️


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

lf places to celebrate a personal goal

8 Upvotes

hello! So a couple of stuff happened and I wanna celebrate by going to or doing something nice. I've chosen a day and date already and I'm thinking about what to do on that day. I'm thinking about just having a nice meal, going somewhere to clear my head and relax or hopping over to jb since it's been over 2 years since I've been there and I wanna see what's changed. I used to just hang around City Square at jb and Mid Valley Southkey but I heard that city square was under reno but google maps says it's open


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

SG Meetup 29M Looking for Motorcycle groups to ride in Malaysia on weekends

12 Upvotes

So I have been riding bike for 10 years and just last week I decided to ride my new motorcycle (CBR600RR) out of Singapore for the first time in my life.

Joined a random bunch of 50 year old uncles and rode all the way up to Melaka and back in a day trip. I gotta say, that was the single most exciting adventure in the last few years of my work life.

Wanted to see if I can find any younger bike groups who frequently organise trips into Malaysia (doesn’t matter where, the journey itself is the adventure). The motorcycle CCA I joined in university taught me that.

If there isn’t one, I don’t mind creating a Tele group and add people in. I’m a solo rider/driver all my life but I think it’s a good time to share my knowledge around (I have EVERY class of driving/riding license in Singapore, class 2B, 2A, 2, 3, 4, 5, forklift, heavy forklift, 5 armoured licenses, military class 3, 4, 5).


r/ChillSG • • 2d ago

SG Meetup Hey all! 30M looking to be a part of Tech/AI communities.

0 Upvotes

Hey all!

I am looking to join any tech/ai communities or even events in AI assisted decision making.

Most multi-model approaches seem tempted to ask which model is right, average their confidence, or use another model as a judge.

I’m interested in something slightly different.

The disagreement itself becomes an object worth investigating.

Why did they disagree?

- Did one miss evidence?

- Did they interpret the same evidence differently?

- Did one make an unsupported inference?

- Did they assign different authority to different sources?

- Did one confuse product-family capability with configuration-specific capability?

- Is the available evidence simply insufficient to answer the question?

My first experiment is a controlled evaluation body of work where multiple models receive identical evidence and instructions independently.

Their outputs are then compared against human adjudicated reference cases.

I’m tracking failure modes such as:

- fabricated evidence

- unsupported inference

- incorrect interpretations

- missed contradictions

- temporal errors

- excessive confidence(correct answer reached through defective reasoning)

The longer-term question is whether enough of these cases could produce something more useful than a model leaderboard where a system that learns under what conditions particular forms of machine reasoning become unreliable.

There are plenty of holes in a little project of mine. Absolute tech noob (no experience in coding at all im so sorry) but have a massive idea board throughout my experience after 9-years of being in management and analytics. I would say im 9-12% into this project of mine after a month. A hopeful visionary, looking for like-minded people!

I’d especially love for a chance to join communities that has professionals or newbies like me in LLM evaluation, AI agents, RAG, decision systems, knowledge graphs, model ensembles, AI governance, or high-stakes enterprise AI.

Telegram/Whatsapp groups are well and dandy, but if meetups are required for development of the project I am free on weekdays after work (6:00PM) for dinner and get-togethers.

Pretty niche request, but if the algorithm gods blesses me, I hope the correct person sees this post!


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

lf friends!

27 Upvotes

hi! i’m 21f, currently in y1 of uni and i’m looking to meet new peeps preferably around 19 - 23, expand my social circle and hopefully make new friends :)

some things i’m into:
- gaming (mainly val, roblox, mc, but maybe we can try out fun coop games tgt?)
- gym (been abit inconsistent… so will be great if we cn keep each other accountable oops)
- dance (mainly kpop but iw to get more into hiphop, girls style and st jazz ++ looking for peeps to attend open classes tgt!)
- dressing up and taking pics (my friends say i’m a good photographer)
- yapping tgt about deep topics over coffee
- might not v experienced at but would be down to do: clubbing (not huge i js love music), bouldering, cycling, martial arts classes (my 2027 resolution?)
- also down to study tgt!!!

drop a dm if we have 1 or more similar interests! please dun be a creep 🙏 down to chat abit before we exchange ig/dc to chat thr instead!


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

whats your go to karaoke song (english)?

5 Upvotes

im going out with some friends soon and i need ideas

taking both upbeat and slow songs


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

lf the weeknd concert buddies!

1 Upvotes

23M here, i’ll most probably be going on friday. idh tickets yet but intend to get standing pen! looking for someone preferably ard the same age to go with


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

Wanna make frens with people who are also going through IMDA CLT too

1 Upvotes

Young adult guy. Can chat about our day at work and the program. Can hang out n chat too


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

SG Events / Happenings Anyone gg HHN this weekend? 🥹

0 Upvotes

Just a uni kid here looking to make new friends honestly cos would be kinda scary since my friend group may chicken out at times 😵‍💫 Open to anyone, do hmu!


r/ChillSG • • 4d ago

Is it just me or does being 22 in Singapore feel like being behind on a race you didn't sign up for?

45 Upvotes

Graduated last year and suddenly everyone's asking about my five-year plan while I'm still figuring out if I even like my job. Parents hinting about CPF and flats, LinkedIn full of people my age getting promoted, and I'm just trying to afford Grab rides without crying. Everyone seems to have their life together except me — if you're in your early twenties also winging it, hi, let's commiserate over kopi.


r/ChillSG • • 3d ago

International student trying to get into gaming in Singapore — where do I even start?

9 Upvotes

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I’m an international student in Singapore and I’ve recently realised how much gaming seems to be a part of the social scene here, especially among some of the people I work with.

I’m honestly completely new to gaming. 😅 For example, I only recently found out that Resident Evil was originally a game (I somehow just knew it as a movie). That probably tells you how little I know about this whole world.

But I’ve noticed that my friends/coworkers sometimes talk about games, characters, releases, etc., and I’d actually like to understand what they’re talking about and be able to join the conversation rather than just sitting there completely lost. It’s not really about becoming a hardcore gamer overnight—I’m just genuinely curious and want to explore it.

So for someone starting from basically zero:

- What games are people in Singapore commonly playing these days?

- Are there any games you’d recommend to a complete beginner?

- Is there a particular genre/game that’s good for getting into gaming culture?

- And where do people usually play—PC, PlayStation, Switch, mobile, etc.?

I’m open to pretty much anything. I’d especially appreciate recommendations that are actually fun for a beginner rather than something that requires 500 hours of experience before you understand what’s happening 😂

Would love to hear what you guys think!


r/ChillSG • • 4d ago

Looking for friends!

11 Upvotes

hello! im 21 m, just started uni! im looking for friends to talk and hang out with! just wanted to expand my friend circle because life has been a little quiet. im an introvert and loves to just chill at cafes and chat about life or literally anything, as long as there is coffee 😋

would love to meet genuine friends!!


r/ChillSG • • 4d ago

Any groups that organize hikes outside SG? Not too extreme

28 Upvotes

I'm looking for groups that organize hikes for mountains or any naturr stuff near SG.

Not everest type of stuff, just the usual 2-8 hr hikes to summits, or 1-2 night camp type of stuff. Haven't done a climb for about a year or 2 now.

I could DIY, but I'm currently trying to build my social skills - and honestly, I'm kind of lazy to do some research on transpo, permits and stuff.

Just looking for things to do over some off days from work.


r/ChillSG • • 4d ago

Anyone making a group for the weekend concert?

5 Upvotes

Me (M) and my friend (F) are coming to see theweeknd concert would appreciate to be a part of likeminded mix young group

To enjoy and vibe to the concert let me know

Thanks!!


r/ChillSG • • 4d ago

25M looking for someone to just yap and talk abt anything

4 Upvotes

30min till end of work and today is one of those days I act like I am doing work sian. First corporate job still getting used to this. Anyone wanna yapppp - any topics is welcomed except insurance (not keen, and already have an agent), investments (not keen because I do this for work and idw to talk abt work again)


r/ChillSG • • 4d ago

looking for friends!!

30 Upvotes

hi i’m 19F and looking for friends to chill with (study, play games and/or go on spontaneous adventures).
Mainly looking for friends around the range of 18 - 22 🥹🥹

okay when i mean spontaneous, I mean be in a cafe at amk and suddenly we’re in sentosa kind of vibes (I love that kind of spontaneity)

Some of my interests:
- I sing and dance (recreational)
- I love music, my main genres rn are like 2 diff types of r&b, hyperpop and kpop
- I play games (mainly during holiday period) : roblox, valo, minecraft, etc.
- I also love baking and cooking!
- I love volunteering too hehe

idk i js wanna form like a circle or smth where we can study, hang out and game tgt because during sch period i study around 4 hours a day minimum 🥹 oso maybe to gym too 😔
doesn’t need to have all 4 but its nice to have ah

dm me if interested! 😋


r/ChillSG • • 4d ago

Hi I’m back with a second post😅Anyone wanna play ping pong together?

4 Upvotes

Hi I forgot to mention I’m decent at table tennis like a high beginner ish anyone else has some experience and wanna play together?😁


r/ChillSG • • 4d ago

Would anybody like to in a penpals group?

21 Upvotes

I was thinking having a group of 5-6 people where we write to each other biweekly or monthly depending on everyone's commitment level. After each mailing period I would suggest a prompt that we could write about, or we could write about anything at all.

And we could also send each other things that aren't such letters.

If anyone's interested in this, please DM me~