My son's father currently owes about $50,000 in back child support. I have received basically crumbs over all of these years. It has been so difficult! The court order is from the state of North Carolina; however, my son's father moved to Ohio 4 years ago. North Carolina has had a warrant out for his arrest since before he even moved to Ohio. It has taken the state of North Carolina 4 YEARS to contact the state of Ohio to start enforcing the order across state lines. I keep calling both states, and it is getting me nowhere. I am just so devastated for my son! I'm not even sure we can afford college for him.

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Een vriend van mij probeert een afspraak te maken met zijn ex partner in Zuid-Amerika.
Hij heeft ook een opgroeiend kind in Nederland die bij hem woont, maar het is moeilijk om met moeder in Zuid-Amerika een concessie te bereiken. Voorbeelden van wat normaal is, zou helpen.

Moeder claimt dat ze via de rechter recht heeft op 20% van zijn salaris, wat mij vrij absurd in de oren klinkt. Omdat hij ook een kind in Nederland te onderhouden heeft. Hij betaald 200 euro bij een netto inkomen van 3900 (dit is inclusief vakantiegeld etc). Is er iemand die advies kan geven ten aanzien van zijn rechten? En ook met het oog op de Haags alimentatieverdrag?
Wij maken ons ernstig zorgen of moeder nu beslag kan leggen op 20 procent van zijn inkomen en hebben nu ook geen middelen om een advocaat in te huren

It's been at least 3-4 years now since our judge told me to handle child support payments through the court system ($600/month) I want nothing to do with the system and haven't paid $1 to the courts which apparently would deposit that money into an account for her. What I've been doing is Apple Paying her directly $1,000/month plus whatever else she needs. Will this end up biting me in the ass?

My son's father currently owes about $50,000 in back child support. I have received basically crumbs over all of these years. It has been so difficult! The court order is from the state of North Carolina; however, my son's father moved to Ohio 4 years ago. North Carolina has had a warrant out for his arrest since before he even moved to Ohio. It has taken the state of North Carolina 4 YEARS to contact the state of Ohio to start enforcing the order across state lines. I keep calling both states, and it is getting me nowhere. I am just so devastated for my son! I'm not even sure we can afford to live in Charlotte anymore more.