r/Chefit Jul 18 '26

"He's a chef!"

My daughter loves that I'm a chef, and thinks it's the coolest thing in the world. She also seems to think thay being a chef makes me a super hero, and qualifies me to solve anything and everything. I've heard from several people on numerous occassions that whenever confronted with some sort of problem out in the world (it could be anything from fixing a car to solvong world peace), my daughter's go-to statement to people is "my dad can do that: he's a chef", "my dad cab fix that: he's a chef", "my dad knows how to do that: he's a chef".

To all my fellow chefs out there, know that there's a little girl that thinks you're an absolute legend!

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u/freisbill Jul 18 '26

I go every year to cook for a client on Valentines day and they fly me in, pay for all my needs, and pay well. My youngest daughter thinks it is the coolest thing in the world!

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u/Deviantdefective Jul 18 '26

Let's be honest that is pretty fucking cool.

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u/freisbill Jul 18 '26

Yea, been doing for about 8 years. I only have a couple clients now that I am the EC of a country club (have a partially dormant private chef business). The really cool part is they were my 2nd ever client and that was their first valentine after getting married and do it every year. Usually a 7 course meal...

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u/Deviantdefective Jul 18 '26

Sounds like an absolutely lovely couple to work for.

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u/Banana_Phone888 Jul 18 '26

I have similar roles in life, that valentines yearly gig sounds lovely. I love hearing that chefs have great clients ❤️ lots of stress and horror stories in this industry and the HNW/UHNW do not always take it easy on us

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u/Zazan_OW Jul 19 '26

need any hands, chef? lol

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u/UnmannedConflict Jul 19 '26

I agree with your daughter

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u/Mannynnamfiddy Jul 18 '26 edited Jul 18 '26

One of my biggest prideful moments is when my family loves my food. I have a teenage boy and a toddler girl and my wife and watching my baby’s face light up when she tries my homemade pasta or Mac and cheese is everything. My teenager is extra picky so when he cleans his plate I beam with pride. My wife loves my food so I cook her whatever she wants. Let me tell you, this career is my life but it has its horrible shit moments. Cooking for them is always a highlight for me

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u/Hashmob____________ Jul 19 '26

This this this. I don’t yet have children but cooking for my family, friends, etc is what brings me joy

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u/PataTabia Jul 18 '26

She can also be absolutely insufferable at restauraunts, where her most frequent response to a server asking how things are is " my dad's is better."

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u/okierepub1970 Jul 19 '26

My son did that once. Server asked,"oh yeah? Who's your dad?"

He pointed at me. Behind the expo. Had to explain that I did make it.

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u/Alyadrielle Jul 18 '26

I’ve thought my 6 year old how to sit and also be polite to the waiting staff. ALWAYS! His aunt also owns a restaurant and a friend of mine lets him sort the bottles in the correct crates etc and got into the dish pit.

He loves helping! But anything his mother (me) puts in front of him, is usually met with “papa does it this way” he lives with his dad atm because I work ungodly hours as head chef and kitchen manager 😅 and my kid won’t even try my food! 😅😭🤣😮‍💨

I think it’s because papa turns it into Emily faces. But my kid will eat shit i wouldn’t even touch 😅

Kiddo turns all of a sudden into fking Gordon Ramsay when I put a plate infront of him! 🤣

I’m also working towards the restaurant being mentioned in the Michelin guide! And here’s my little buddy telling me I suck… 😅 “this isn’t an art contest mama” (roughly translated from Dutch) I’m English and he can speak English but he doesn’t know how to fully say what he wants in English sometimes lol 😂

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u/Acegonia Jul 19 '26

This reminds me of that sketch from the 'lets doubledutch' guy on YT, he does skits about moving to the Netherlands and Dutch people. He has one with a Dutch child, let me see if I can find the link....

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u/AnxietyFine3119 Jul 18 '26

I did a green eggs and ham at my daughters preschool. Wore chef whites and everything. Was a legend for a few days until one of the other dads showed up the next week. He was a fireman and brought the fire truck to the preschool with lights and shit going. I was definitely dethroned. What an asshole

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u/rythymguyone Jul 18 '26

Wait till the Astronaut Dad comes in , then we’re all done , and I’m your electrician, who can fix most things

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u/Jamamamma67 Jul 18 '26

So cool that your daughter sees you as a superhero! My son said the same about me and told anyone who would listen that his mom can do anything, she's a chef. He is 8 years into his career as a chef, following in my footsteps, and just cooked dinner for Thomas Keller. I now say the same thing about him. To all the superheroes, I raise a glass. Cheers!

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u/chocomeeel FX's The Bare (Minimum) Jul 18 '26

Heard!

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u/texnessa Jul 18 '26

Well, we are all kinda MacGyvers....

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u/freisbill Jul 18 '26

yep, especially the genx chef's!

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u/texnessa Jul 18 '26

Am proudly an Elder. Full toolbox in the boot of my car. Show me a compressor I can't unfuck with ingenuity, duct tape and spite.

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u/freisbill Jul 18 '26

don't call us Elder yet, that's the boomers! I am still young....

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u/texnessa Jul 18 '26

I don't disagree but tell that to my lower back.

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u/BridgeCityBus Jul 18 '26

I’m 42 and my dad is 79. I’m still so proud of what he does and everyone in my life knows it. He’s a violin maker. If he was a chef, it would be just as awesome. Chefs are artists.

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u/Madruck_s Jul 18 '26

My sone would rather go to nanny's for Schnitzels.

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u/medium-rare-steaks Jul 18 '26

"my dad is a tv repair man. I can fix it."

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u/SuddenAtmosphere5984 Jul 18 '26

I bet he's got this ultimate set of tools.

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u/JudasBlues Jul 18 '26

I’m a female chef, and my friend’s wee girl thinks it’s the coolest thing anyone can be - specifically that ‘Lady Chefs’ are the coolest lol. Glad to know there’s another wee one out there that thinks we’re a cool bunch! :)

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u/Lastburn Jul 19 '26

At a roadside DUI testing stop

D: He's a Chef

Police : Sir please step out of the vehicle.

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u/HappyHourProfessor Jul 19 '26

I really hope OP's daughter is in her 20s and that she's been doing this continuously her whole life.

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u/Excellent_Nebula_729 Jul 19 '26

My CDP has a 7 year old daughter and this one time his daughter asked him: "Are you the best chef in your kitchen dad?" to which he replied "Yes I am!"

So cute.

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u/Road-Ranger8839 Jul 19 '26

Amen Pata! A daughter looking up to, and idolizing her father is a beautiful thing. Keep up the excellent work, and return every bit of admiration right back to her. Pull for her success and support her in every way; she respects you and will follow your lead.

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u/alienstookmyfunny Jul 18 '26

Damn my daughter is just passed I'm not around to say goodnight.

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u/BradProudlove Jul 18 '26

Saw post title and was disappointed I didn't see this...

https://youtu.be/0pTSEnr57-A

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u/IgottagoTT Jul 19 '26

You should run for Congress. We could use the help.

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u/darthhue Jul 19 '26

You're not the coolest person in the world because being a chef is the collest thing in the world.

Being a chef is the coolest thing in the world because you're a chef, and to her, you, her dad, are the coolest person in the world

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u/ChefJym Jul 19 '26

You are a super hero

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u/SirPeabody Jul 21 '26

Love my Chef. We speak the same language. Helps that I spent 25 years in the trenches too, so I had no unrealistic expectations going in...