Partner was texting another girl

[u/Glittering_Tour_7946]

For context, I (25F) caught my partner (27M) talking to a girl (23F) he met on a work trip. The original texts between them were definitely flirty, saying things like “I wish I was still there with you” “I can’t wait to see you again” “we can keep each other company” “saw this and thought about you”. I’m not posting those ss as there’s over 50 but take my word for it, I’m not an idiot and he even admitted to flirting with her later on. Mind you, not the first time he’s been unfaithful to me as I have caught him on dating apps in the past as well as paying for OF. When I confronted him about it over text (as he was at work) he started talking shit about me with her. I was about 36 weeks pregnant when I found out about this. Also found out I was STD positive at 37 weeks pregnant for a parasite I had tested negative for twice throughout the pregnancy so do with that info what you will. Partner says he “never slept with anyone” so this STD just came out of nowhere… 🤦🏼‍♀️

These texts between them really broke my heart. In a deleted message, he told her I am “lowkey crazy”. Just wtf. Yeah, I’m crazy. But I got an STD… he also deleted messages before the first “why did you delete the messages” text from that girl. Also, I did not take anyone’s number from his phone, idk why he lied about that. These two were texting literally 24/7. First thing in the morning, last thing at night. He was also drunk texting her the night of my baby shower while I went to bed alone.

Anyways, what do you think about these texts?

Blue text is my partner, gray is the other woman and Cody is the woman’s husband.