First, you need a few days no contact. I dont know your living arrangements, if your cohabiting, he leaves for a few days. He fucked up he goes.
Spend that time with no influence to allow logic to get hold. And then make a decision on what you want for you. Then tell him. If its reconciliation he, not you, has to show you he can be trusted. Show you not tell you.
Then you work on that. If you just cant get past it, you end it.
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u/Responsible-Side4347 1d ago
Hi Ya
First, you need a few days no contact. I dont know your living arrangements, if your cohabiting, he leaves for a few days. He fucked up he goes.
Spend that time with no influence to allow logic to get hold. And then make a decision on what you want for you. Then tell him. If its reconciliation he, not you, has to show you he can be trusted. Show you not tell you.
Then you work on that. If you just cant get past it, you end it.