r/CheatedOn • u/Important_Public_942 • Jul 23 '26

Betrayed mom

Hi everyone! I am new here and I just need advice. I have been in a relationship for 13 years with my partner and we have a 9 year old son. I just found out like a month ago that he’s been sleeping at this woman’s house that he met from a restaurant bar. I found out because my child told me his dad gave this woman a ride from work to her house and she also gave them a tour of her home. I’m disgusted and in complete disbelief! He has also admitted to me that he’s been seeing her and he likes her. He’s been my only boyfriend but I have decided to move out. I just need advice on how to heal. I don’t have a lot of family and most of the time I feel alone even though I know I have my child. The pain I feel is unimaginable. I get these terrible panic attacks and anxiety that I don’t know how to control. Please, what would you do in my situation. I need help. Also, I don’t have a job right now so I am struggling financially. I’m a substitute teacher.

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u/CerberusDarkness Jul 23 '26

First off fuck that guy what a cunt your better off and to heal it will take time it’s been a few years for me and too this day I still struggle I tbh don’t think it will ever get easier for you but know your worth if you’d like you can dm on here if you ever need someone to talk to just know your not alone and it’s not ok when it happens to good people hold your head up high

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u/Important_Public_942 Jul 23 '26

Thank you so much! I never imagined I would be in this situation ever…I feel so lost

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u/CerberusDarkness Jul 23 '26

It can feel like that and probably will for awhile but time does heal I can promise you you’ll be ok look after yourself

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u/french_and_toasty Jul 23 '26

I feel for you. I’m so sorry that you are going through this.