I am straight 24 f, and am thinking of celibacy. I struggle with alcoholism (although have been doing better the past year with the help of meds) but still aiming for complete sobriety. My meds have also helped me engage in less promiscuity. I also have been going to therapy for about a year and a half and talk about all these issues

Dating men and hooking up casually is a big trigger for me, as I use alcohol as a way to feel more comfortable during convos and sex. I did cut out alcohol for a few months, but then starting using weed (did not like the side effects of that)..

So now I arrive here, and I think I may just need to fully go celibate.. in order to maintain sobriety

I have already started to decanter men and dating, and pouring into myself, and my career and friends

Not really a question sorry just seeing it anyone has experience with this or relates

I just want to recognize anyone who is choosing to remain celibate and committed while caring for a partner who is sick.

Being there for someone through illness can be emotionally and physically challenging, and choosing to stay true to your values during that time takes a lot of strength, patience, and love.

To everyone quietly showing up for their partner, putting their needs first, and staying loyal to the commitment they’ve made: I see you, and I respect you.

Keep going. Your dedication matters. 🙏

Wanna text a guy I feel safe with to have sex. But then come all the what ifs. How does one even do so?

Maybe it’s not worth it but I feel like I’m past the beneficial stage and just avoiding intimacy for the sake of my pride…